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I've used this analogy before, but getting a girlfriend (at least, one that you don't actively try to become steady with) is like signing a lease. And I think the same applies with women; in the end, you're spending money on something that won't last.

I love my current girlfriend more than life itself.
Posted 4/13/14
A relationship doesn't necessarily mean you're tied down. If it makes you feel that way then it's not a good relationship.
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cosham wrote:


Khelgor1 wrote:

Why do you want one? Actually, a better question would be, how can you stand one?
I'd like to hear why you enjoy yours or why you'd want one.
Me personally, I can't stand the idea of being tied down to one person. Especially since I'm so.. free-spirited?


Is that code for "I'm frightened of making a commitment".


Not in the slightest- the only thing that frightens me would an injury that would never let me workout again so I'd have to go back to being small & puny.
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gloith wrote:

I don't like commitments, plus most of the world doesn't enjoy laying around watching anime, movies shows playing video games or arts and craft stuff let alone watch stuff like cosmos. For the most part I would love to be in a relationship were I can have a lot of free time to myself and for a person who enjoys my company with out me having to leave my room.
Kinda being overly picky here but eh, i'm 100% fine being single.

TL;DR
I like being alone more than anything


I think I might be the same way. I prefer being by myself more than I enjoy going these days.
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qualeshia3 wrote:

I can't date someone when my life isn't together. Also don't know how to be someone's girlfriend, I never experience such a thing. It's not easy for someone like me to be placed in a relationship. Would you really want to date a people pleaser that is still struggling to help herself?!



Everyone is different in their preference. I had the strangest preference back when I wanted to be in a relationship. I preferred girls who had it all straight on the outside, but they were a total disaster when it came right down to it. Broke girls were the most interesting, in my opinion.
But, I think it would benefit you to at least try one- maybe you're the type of person who needs a strong foundation to rely on.
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gabsgobygab wrote:

Someone to love, care for who apprecates you, and ofc good sex


I love myself. I care for myself (I do my own laundry and cook for myself) I definitely appreciate myself when I walk past a mirror with no shirt and I catch my gains.
The good sex doe.. That's the only downside. Sometime you just get girls who aren't that great or are too vanilla. So I guess that could be a perk of a relationship.
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Khelgor1 wrote:
Me personally, I can't stand the idea of being tied down to one person.


Ahhh, when monoamorous people think they're the only people who can love...

Posted 4/13/14 , edited 4/13/14
Might I also point out that not all relationships are created equal. It all depends on the people involved, really.

Common Misconceptions about "Being in a Relationship":
1) You have to see each other ALL the time.
2) You have to talk ALL the time.
3) You have to be sweet and all over each other.
4) Someone is bound to be jealous and possessive.
Finally,
5) You have to be anything other than your usual "single" self...

If you think that being in a relationship implies that you NEED to comply with any of those things listed there, then I guess you're going into it with the wrong mentality. In a relationship you do things because you want to, not because you have to.
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Khelgor1 wrote:

Why do you want one? Actually, a better question would be, how can you stand one?
I'd like to hear why you enjoy yours or why you'd want one.
Me personally, I can't stand the idea of being tied down to one person. Especially since I'm so.. free-spirited?


^ this. However, after viewing a very good romance anime it does make me want to be tied down. To have someone as your best friend and your girlfriend/wife, that just seems like heaven. I've never met anyone that interests me in that way though.
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Posted 4/13/14
It's not being tied because that depends on the person you're with.
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I like being alone. And the idea of kissing someone scares me. Besides, it means I have to TRY looking pretty for the first couple months until I get use to the person and go back to looking like my regular old slobby self.

But then again, it would be nice to cuddle with someone.

But at the moment, no thank you.
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Posted 4/13/14 , edited 4/13/14
I'm not sure would I want to be in a relationship. It's just that every time I've realized how special someone has been to me, it's usually some time after they've gone; moved or something else. I'm just a baka like that...
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RedBlueGemini wrote:

I feel like I want one because I love the idea of being with someone you love alot. I guess its because I'm a romantic, but I think I'm one of the few teens who can't wait to get married and have kids. Don't shit on my dreams Crunchyroll users.


You're not the only one. I can't wait to have a wife or to have babies either. I want +5. Most girls I meet can't contemplate more than 3 though :/

But, it's not really my choice anyways.

The children will be my minions. I will train them in the ways of vanishment this world.

But anyways, as to the topic question, there's two reasons why I'd want to be in a relationship. The first is the same as this guy up here. The second is because I think having a family is more fulfilling than rigorously pursuing a career. As much free time as I might have being single, I don't see the point in accumulating wealth and time for only me. That seems pretty shitty in my eyes.

To each his own
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HMMM....
Well I've never personally been involved in one as of late. Perhaps I'd want one later down the road... But as for now... nope.

Not that I hate the idea; the people who have that great connection, I commend you. I would think that you'd be involved in a relationship because you want to be with the person, not required to be. That's the whole point is it not? To enjoy part of yourself with someone else.
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Posted 4/13/14

revesur wrote:

I like being alone. And the idea of kissing someone scares me. Besides, it means I have to TRY looking pretty for the first couple months until I get use to the person and go back to looking like my regular old slobby self.

But then again, it would be nice to cuddle with someone.

But at the moment, no thank you.


Do you have a legit phobia of kissing or is it because you don't like the idea of being that intimate with someone?
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