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Posted 4/13/14
I don't think so. Maybe when I'm older, but I'm assexual as of now. Flirting and teasing is fun and all, but unless the person understands the creepy bi-polar mind of mine then sure. I'm not into very sappy things, I don't cry or hide behind a guy during horror movies (depending on it), I usually laugh. I don't whine and talk shit about them when they're gaming, like hell I got my own stuff to do.

Just the idea of walking the longer ways during passing period to hug them, or have to say cheesy cute girly stuff makes me sick.

Sounds more like a chore to me.

So yeah, screw them. cx
Posted 4/13/14 , edited 4/13/14
I have been in one relationship and it did not end well, but it taught me a lesson that I should be careful and not be fucked over once again.
If you're in a relationship, you should try to be careful of who you end up with because they might be deceitful in the long run. When two people like each other, they share their thoughts or interests to see if they have deep connection within their hearts. If one person does not put in enough work to stay with that one person, then they should break up or else they will hurt the other significant deeply.
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Posted 4/13/14
I like to find someone who has the same hobby like me and that we can share our feelings with each other if we truly love that person deeply in are hearts. I'm still looking for that one special person. Its to bad anime world isn't real. i would date anime girl from anime world.
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Posted 4/13/14

revesur wrote:

I like being alone. And the idea of kissing someone scares me. Besides, it means I have to TRY looking pretty for the first couple months until I get use to the person and go back to looking like my regular old slobby self.

But then again, it would be nice to cuddle with someone.

But at the moment, no thank you.


Exactly me. I've been in relationships before and they always start great but then just... Fizzle out it seems.
Recently I've come to realize that I actually really enjoy being alone more than anything ^^;
Perhaps it's just a "phase" I go through? I dunnooo it's weird
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Posted 4/13/14
I used to scoff at the idea of being in a committed relationship. Mainly because I was in high school and 90% of high school relationships are superficial bullarky. Kinda gave me a negative view.

But that's not how it has to be. I've learned that there are countless forms of romantic relationships. Some will work for some people, others won't.

Personally, I love the idea of having a partner. I've never really been in a relationship, but I would like to be. I think it would be nice to just have someone to rely on and talk to. I wouldn't feel the need to see the other person 24/7, or strap them to my side so they go wherever I go. It doesn't have to be like that.

There's also polygamous forms of relationships, if that's your kinda thing. Probably not for me, but hey. As long as everyone's happy, I won't judge.
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Posted 4/13/14
I don't stand relationships... I usually am sitting or talking... (ahah so lame).. I prefer them to none.
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Posted 4/13/14

fangirlinotaku wrote:


revesur wrote:

I like being alone. And the idea of kissing someone scares me. Besides, it means I have to TRY looking pretty for the first couple months until I get use to the person and go back to looking like my regular old slobby self.

But then again, it would be nice to cuddle with someone.

But at the moment, no thank you.


Exactly me. I've been in relationships before and they always start great but then just... Fizzle out it seems.
Recently I've come to realize that I actually really enjoy being alone more than anything ^^;
Perhaps it's just a "phase" I go through? I dunnooo it's weird


Exactly! And yeah, I think I may be going through the same phase as well. Hopefully I grow out of it lol
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Posted 4/13/14 , edited 4/13/14
Meh.. It's alright in a way. I won't mind having a partner and it does look nice that way, but I'd rather stand alone for the time being. It's not really that easy to find someone who's willing to be a true friend towards you. Much harder than finding a friend. finding a friend is hard too. But not as hard as finding a love interest. It can be a total challenge at times. But hey, I don't really have a problem with relationships. nor a girl that really likes me. However, I'll remain neutral. Learning it's good side and flaws are always nice.
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Posted 4/13/14
it brings the idea that loneliness kills.

you are but 1 person and living the world as one person is lonely and hard. as far as i know most people, most people don't care to be in a relationship but to be in a prosperous one and this is what i mean when i state the term relationship. .

being in a relationship, even as though you are two people truly feels like you are in it together. you are each other arch/ support beam. if one fails you both fail, but at the same time they can help you back up emotionally. it really is the best feeling in the world, it is not about being tied down.

i mean there are alot of relationship where one person is completely selfish on there own desire while the other only supports them, and it doesn't mean that it isn't a prosperous relationship. i believe this works when the one supporting knows the agony if they couldn't support that person each and every day and how the selfish person knows that even though they are as selfish and carefree that they can only do it because they are leaning on that support. it is not a onesided love, or someone being taken advantage of; else it fails.

there are people who has all the support in the world, and i understand how you don't feel like you need to be in a relationship to feel happy and it is truly a legit thing. but many of us may have friends and family of unlimited proportions but you still live as a nation of 1.

in an analogy, as i started above. being alone is like being a nation of 1, allied nations of friends and family are plentify but in the end of the day you are a nation of 1. having someone who can truly support you through almost all ends and vice versa is when a nation becomes prosperous.

there are tribes of many nations who are able to live off independently, but those are rare.

honestly though, i am the kind of guy that can easily spend the rest of his life alone, even on a deserted island for an eternity. i am horrendously scared of commitment, of failure. but at the same time i would feel miserable every waking moment, event to the point of being suicidally lonely. it doesn't make sense, but im basically saying life still moves on with or without someone who you can share your life with, but it doesn't mean that you would like it.

now for the science aspect of it, though by natural biology we are required to mate, but i also feel like we know that the world is covered with us and some of us have had our instinct suppressed because of it.
Posted 4/13/14
I don't find anything wrong with affection, I'm not against seeing it or anything, but I feel shamed and wrong if I even have the thought of it or am receiving it. It's like i'm looking at other people feel ok being together but I can't have anything to do with it, that wouldn't be right.
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Posted 4/14/14
why do i enjoy mine?

simply put... it provides companionship, love, affection, support, laughter, orgasms & sheer happiness.
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Posted 4/14/14
I enjoy mine, its really fun its like have a best friend but its more than that, its a person who can get real close with and they understand you and its just really fun and great.
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Posted 4/14/14

XelaRwar wrote:

Because I want to be a waifu.~


Be mine.
Posted 4/14/14

Phersu wrote:


XelaRwar wrote:

Because I want to be a waifu.~


Be mine.


Propose like a man.
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Posted 4/14/14 , edited 4/14/14

XelaRwar wrote:

Propose like a man.


Okay. -Knocks you out with a club and drags you off like a caveman.-
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