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Posted 4/14/14

Phersu wrote:


XelaRwar wrote:

Propose like a man.


Okay. -Knocks you out with a club and drags you off like a caveman.-


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Posted 4/14/14
Relationships are good so you have someone to bring you milk and rub your shoulders.

Other than that idk.
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I wouldn't mind a relationship, but after my last one went...
My previous boyfriend was a complete joke. Everything was all lovey dovey in the beginning, but wanna know what wasn't lovey dovey?
Me paying for a majority of our meals. Him leaving me by myself to wait at the mall alone after our first date for my ride. His city was far so I didn't drive that day. Me buying him gifts and him hardly getting me anything at all.
Then having the nerve to curse me out and belittle me when we entered a really big fight that caused our breakup.

Needless to say, I wouldn't mind falling in love and having a relationship again, but I feel slightly selfish if I ask for it to play out a little differently.
I'd want someone who would want to be willing to take me places. Take me out on dates, or to the movies or museums or cafes. I wouldn't mind paying my half, I have no problem with that, as long as we'd be going somewhere. Someone who wouldn't mind really good conversation, or talking about anime which would be a plus. As long as I'm not catering throughout the entire relationship I'd be fine.

For now being single is fine with me.
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Posted 4/14/14 , edited 4/14/14

Why do you want one? Actually, a better question would be, how can you stand one?
I'd like to hear why you enjoy yours or why you'd want one.
Me personally, I can't stand the idea of being tied down to one person. Especially since I'm so.. free-spirited?


how can you stand one?

I can stand my current relationship for a few reasons that really matter: the way we fight, the simple goal that we both have, and the fact that I can call her my best friend and my lover (not to be cheesy with the best friend part, its true.)

The way we fight follows this formula:

GF: -insert random rant-
Me: you're panicking, chill out and eat a snickers
GF: stahp im serious
Me: calm down and explain a little more
GF: -insert explanation
Me: I see, that sucks. What're you gonna do about it?
GF: idk
Me: -insert suggestion that may actually work-
GF: idk
Me: I love you
GF: thank you. I love you too


Then when the formula basically flips around when I'm the one who's irritable. When we are pissed about each other, we look at it as "Us vs the Problem" and we just talk about what bothers us. It works out nicely and a fight never lasts more than an hour or so. If longer (this has happened once,) then I go out and buy her some roses and take her on a date; afterwards massage her--what girl wouldn't want to be massaged?

Our simple goal that we both share is that we simply want to see each other be happy, get married and pop out tons of babies.

And the fact that she's my best friend is really that I can trust her more than I trust my own family, she's my go-to person even if she is the problem. I'm her best friend as well, neither of us really enjoy ourselves with our own friends as much as we do with each other (she really has no friends at this point--so I really mean a lot to her anyways.)

I think relationships can be beautiful. You just have to keep looking and find a person who's right for you. My girlfriend may not be into anime or video games, heck she barely watches TV; but she still accepts me for who I am and even tries out the things I like. I really couldn't ask for more and I don't think its a really good idea to be too picky with the person that you're looking for. Whoever you end up with, you try to make the most of it and you find good things to love about them. It just works out that way.

Why do you want one?

I love the idea of having someone to cuddle with while I sleep and she'll be there asleep still--hugging me tighter if I try to leave the bed saying, "nu...you can't go yet...-gibberish-". I love having someone I can rely on to do things for me without blowing me off and someone I can trust for anything and everything. I love having someone to hold hands with in public and having someone who's as excited as me to one day get married. I love having someone to kiss and have sex with. Being with her always makes me the happiest man on this planet and I feel fulfilled if I make her smile and blush And finally, I love having someone to love me for who I am no matter how angry she may be with me and no matter how many hours I sit in my room watching anime here on CR/playing games on Steam. If she's not the best girl for me, then I don't know what is.

Oh I forgot to mention: my girlfriend is a tsundere. Though she wouldn't roundhouse kick me for accidentally (to be honest its no accident anymore) grabbing her boobs. She just has that tsun-tsun then eventually gets dere-dere. She even blushes like one too and gets angry sometimes when I compliment her (its pretty damn cute.) The best part is is that she has no clue what a tsundere is, so when I call her a tsundere she just gives me this stare and shakes her head.

I can understand why people are put off with relationships though. My current girlfriend is my 7th girlfriend. 5 out of 7 have cheated on me, one of the 5 cheated on me with 3 guys at once, and the other one broke it off because she never liked me in the first place said this: "You're weird, creepy, and you're a nerd. Who would want to date you anyways?" I've had my hardships with those 6 jerks and put up with a hell of a lot of heartbreak. I have trust issues of my own 'til this day because of all of this--but that didn't stop my current girlfriend. We developed a good friendship before we dated (its normal to do that, don't be stupid like me and jump into anything.) She has serious self-esteem issues and ADD and she (was) fat at the time. I didn't care at all, she was the first person to actually treat me like a friend should and showed me what it means to be a friend. Even so, I still found her tsundere traits to be really cute and even everything else, she has big boobs and a nice butt--so I think its silly whenever she gets down about her image--she's a beautiful woman to me and that's all that matters.

Something I look for is just acceptance. I'm so used to ridicule for being an otaku or a hardcore gamer. She doesn't care, so I don't care.
Simplicity is the best way to go.

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Posted 4/14/14
Live and let live...for now.
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Posted 4/14/14
It's been a long time for me. In my case, I've just been trying to get my life together before dating anyone. If the opportunity arose, great, as of yet, it has not. So I'm just chillin.
Posted 4/14/14
My shadow resembles my relationship to standing.
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Posted 4/15/14


Still got it.
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Posted 4/16/14

qualeshia3 wrote:




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Oh, well that's your own fault. There's plenty of ways to fix that, just need a little initiative and a desire to do so. You can just start working out to look better, also.. It's hard and it takes time- but at least it'l build your confidence and your body. Sorry if I seem like a dick- I'm just a blunt person.
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Posted 4/16/14

Khelgor1 wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:




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Oh, well that's your own fault. There's plenty of ways to fix that, just need a little initiative and a desire to do so. You can just start working out to look better, also.. It's hard and it takes time- but at least it'l build your confidence and your body. Sorry if I seem like a dick- I'm just a blunt person.


Yeah, you are blunt. But you know what you are right though. I'm too sensitive and hate myself TOO much.

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Posted 4/16/14

qualeshia3 wrote:


Khelgor1 wrote:


qualeshia3 wrote:




My Turn:



Oh, well that's your own fault. There's plenty of ways to fix that, just need a little initiative and a desire to do so. You can just start working out to look better, also.. It's hard and it takes time- but at least it'l build your confidence and your body. Sorry if I seem like a dick- I'm just a blunt person.


Yeah, you are blunt. But you know what you are right though. I'm too sensitive and hate myself TOO much.



Honestly I believe you just need to lift some weights.. Build some confidence and build some muscle. I think a little bit of self-confidence will carry you a long way.
FFS, I play Dungeons & Dragons and I'm still the best looking guy I know. Mostly exaggerated but all good.
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Posted 4/16/14


True. The good part is that I'm working on getting a job and it's going pretty well.
Posted 4/16/14

XelaRwar wrote:


Phersu wrote:


XelaRwar wrote:

Propose like a man.


Okay. -Knocks you out with a club and drags you off like a caveman.-




That was a really good one.
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