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Are you afraid to fall in love, date, or just make friends?
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20 / M / Tokyo/Seoul Bound
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Posted 7/14/14
Yupp, and its like you can't go back to that regular friendship or other relationship with one another you once had if it goes bad.
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Posted 7/14/14 , edited 7/14/14
Stop trying to get into my head, I DON'T KNOW YOU!
Some random stalker trying to ask me about how I feel about the lovingsnessessess of all my people!
WELCOME TO THE CORNER OF LONELY STREET AND DEPRESSION AVENUE!
Shush, Why are you forcing these people to tell you this stuff that nobody has witnessed before?!?!?!?!
STOP EXPERIMENTING ON ME, RAWR!
I'm PERFECTLY fine in my ice cold room with nothing but a cup of coffee and my anime!
SHOOOOOOOOOSH, WHAT DID I EVER DO TO YOU, PSYCHO STALKER 3.0!?!??!

(^Has nothing to do with anything you said. Just made for attention, lol)











Yeah, I like people, and have friends <3 <3 <3
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18 / F / Croatia
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Posted 7/14/14
Yeah. I'm afraid they won't like me the way I really am.
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25 / F / New Jersey, USA
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Oh okay.
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23 / F / NYC
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Being honest with myself I'm not sure I'm girlfriend material, for the simple reason I have too many issues of my own to help you out with yours especially when you've done something wrong towards me. I feel happiest alone sometimes and its really hard for me to even make friends because of the person I am. I'm reserved because I've opened myself up and been crushed a lot.
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27 / M / ATL - GA
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Posted 7/15/14
I'm not really afraid of any of these things, I don't think. Dating intimidated me when I was an awkward teenager, but I've been through several relationships since then and have been with my most recent girlfriend for over three years now. If we ever broke up for whatever reason I think I'd be more lost than anything else. I've found that, in the modern working world, after college... it's really hard to meet people. Like, I have a few really good friends, but I haven't actually made any new ones since college :/
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20 / M / moe australia
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Posted 7/16/14
No its a complete waste of time. Just emulate cats because friends or a relationship don't mean shit unless they are feeding you or its a temporary mate for reproduction purposes
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25 / F / New Jersey, USA
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Posted 7/16/14

Larliet wrote:

Being honest with myself I'm not sure I'm girlfriend material, for the simple reason I have too many issues of my own to help you out with yours especially when you've done something wrong towards me. I feel happiest alone sometimes and its really hard for me to even make friends because of the person I am. I'm reserved because I've opened myself up and been crushed a lot.



I've felt that way.
Posted 7/16/14 , edited 7/16/14
i'm not afraid of anything. i also find it extremely hard to like someone without knowing them for a long time

it's not hard to gain my affection, it's just hard to keep a spot in my heart.
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25 / F / New Jersey, USA
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Posted 7/16/14

severticas wrote:

i'm not afraid of anything. i also find it extremely hard to like someone without knowing them for a long time

it's not hard to gain my affection, it's just hard to keep a spot in my heart.



Ah, I see.
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16 / F / America
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Posted 7/16/14
In real life I'm a little shy. I'd love to make some real friends but people are way to judge mental, so I don't really talk around anyone. I can't seem to bring myself to talk nicely to any guy anymore. I can't seem to be able to talk unless talked to. I don't really like people, but I really want to get to know them. I find myself trying to talk myself into talking to people and then I miss my chance or I run away. So, in answer to your first question, yes I am afraid to date, fall in love or just make friends.
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Posted 7/17/14
dating is something i'm not afraid of (if i know the person i'm dating really well)... but making friends is something i am. for some reason i think that people just wouldn't be interested in being friends with someone like me, but that's just my social anxiety i guess
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Posted 7/19/14 , edited 7/19/14
yess im so afraid actually..
i'm more afraid of romantic relationships because like......you're either gonna marry that person or it's gonna end up in a break up that's probably gonna be painful for both or just one of you.... unless you're lucky and you both just lost interest or something.
i'm afraid of friendships because i'm afraid they won't like me (and pretend to like me) or backstab me
i'm also afraid of both because what if the friend/romantic partner ends up being abusive/manipulative? idk man i'm just afraid of everything honestly
Posted 7/19/14
The intentions of people scare me.
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24 / F
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Posted 7/19/14
Right now, it's making friends that makes me the most nervous. I'm going to a con soon, and there are a few people I keep running into at other cons that I want to try to get to know better...but I've been too busy to really make an effort to go to their events, and at the last con I met up with some people I hadn't seen in a really long time, so I couldn't hang out with them and I think they might get the impression I'm not interested when I am. I'm just extremely awkward. Also, I am the type that likes to be alone a lot, and I only really ever see my friends at cons and/or concerts, but people who don't know me (and even those that do) might get the wrong idea.
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