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Are you afraid to fall in love, date, or just make friends?
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I almost didn't want to answer this, but it might help me out a bit anyway so here it goes.

For the past three years I've been 'gun-shy' about dating again after what my ex did to me. I was activated with the Air National Guard for over a year and while I was gone she met up with her former bf from high school (who was also married). They met on FB which led to them having an affair while I was in the sandbox. Of course it tore me up because I loved her dearly for 13 years prior to the affair, but still three years since the divorce I'm on my own and I'm having a difficult time wanting to get into another relationship, and falling in love. Now the problems are that I'm old and undesirable, and the few non-attached females my age have even greater issues than I do. This is really frustrating to me.
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mb67 wrote:

I almost didn't want to answer this, but it might help me out a bit anyway so here it goes.

For the past three years I've been 'gun-shy' about dating again after what my ex did to me. I was activated with the Air National Guard for over a year and while I was gone she met up with her former bf from high school (who was also married). They met on FB which led to them having an affair while I was in the sandbox. Of course it tore me up because I loved her dearly for 13 years prior to the affair, but still three years since the divorce I'm on my own and I'm having a difficult time wanting to get into another relationship, and falling in love. Now the problems are that I'm old and undesirable, and the few non-attached females my age have even greater issues than I do. This is really frustrating to me.



Sorry that happen.
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qualeshia3

Sorry that happen.


Thanks.

It's been an eye-opening experience that's for sure.
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You're welcome.

She was in the wrong for what she did.
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Are you afraid to fall in love, date, or just make friends?
NOPE!
How do you really feel about reality and hardships it brings?
I DON'T CARE
Are you single because you're scared to date, dislike people, or just got out of a relationship?
I DISLIKE PEOPLE MUAHAHA
Posted 8/7/14
Are you afraid to fall in love, date, or just make friends?
I am afraid to fall in love and date yes because of the lack of trust because of cheating. It's best if I am single to avoid being hurt. Just focusing on myself and my career and college ^-^. I welcome friends though c:
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Are you a misanthropist?
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