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23 / M / Los Angeles,Calif...
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im shy & dense as all hell
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22 / M / Canada
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Arcsol wrote:

I'm going to put this in the nerdiest way possible. I'm waiting for a random encounter, that is all lol.


^ this and I'm broke and I just don't like to like people in general..
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22 / F / Johnstown, PA, USA
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xFloyd wrote:

Yeah this is about it...


Meanwhile, Jeff Cohen (aka: "Chunk") grew up into:

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19 / M
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Because I want to be Single.
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1. closeted

2. very shy

3. picky
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25 / M / USA
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I took a really long break from the dating scene after splitting with my last ex in December 2011. A lot of complicated things happened between that split and coming to the realization that I'd been a serial monogamist in the worst way for about 8 years. It wasn't a healthy way to live, and I was essentially carrying the baggage of every single breakup I'd ever had... right into the next relationship down the line. I finally was ready to acknowledge that I needed time to recover from all the accumulated damage I hadn't let go of, and I've become a way better person these past few years.

I had a few things that looked promising, but even if something looks promising, it doesn't mean it's guaranteed. In my case, in all three of the times I considered dating again, things just didn't work out. Right now, I'd be happy to find someone but I think I still need a little time for me. I want to get certain aspects of my life together and I'm firmly believing that I'll find the right person once I'm ready. If they fall into my life before that, then I'm open to that, too, but dwelling on it will just hinder any kind of progress I make.
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For one, My Schedule...and for two, My ridiculous agoraphobia and panic disorder which I'm trying My best to conquer. ...Also, Me not being able to have Children I'm sure factors into it somewhere too...
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1: I have a career, and not to be selfish but tired of spending money on dates etc. etc.
2. Soul searching *may get flamed for this*. - My relationship with Jesus. Why be with someone when you cannot give 100%
3.Well, most ladies do not truly know what they want. They say they do, but don't. The same goes for Guys. But indecisiveness plays a major part on both sides.
4. Every GF I have had, has all had commitment issues.Why get in a committed relationship if every single one does not want commitment?
5. More important things to do, finish degrees, promotions in my company, and the sky is the limit.
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18 / M / IL
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Let's see, I am super shy, unattractive, and have a personality that makes it difficult to keep friends let alone a girlfriend unless they are as broken and cynical as I am.
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17 / M / US, SoCal
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haven't found the prize fish.
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24 / Louisiana
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toxxin wrote:

I've got plenty of my own problems to deal with, no need to drag anyone else into it. Maybe I'll start looking once I've settled a few of them.


^This

For me it was 4 issues:

1. I did not want distractions while doing physical training the past two years (I turned down everyone that was interested while I was working part time and temp retail jobs)
2. Poor financial situation
3. My new job and job for the long term has me around only men
4. No reliable transportation outside of work

I don't think many people would have put up with my bullshit at the time lol... but now I'm just not meeting people...
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25 / M / Northwest Florida
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1. I'm shy, not really comfortable around groups of people

2. Low self-esteem

3. I have no job therefore no cash

4. no transportation I don't even have a drivers license right now
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27 / M / Texas
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Posted 5/22/14 , edited 5/22/14
I'm a pretty decent looking guy, and other people seem to like my personality.
buuuuuuut when it comes to dating, I have a condition that I am very self-conscious about called hyperhydrosis; or over-active sweat glands.
there are different forms and severity levels of it, mine only affects the palms of my hands; I could be as far from feeling anxious or nervous as I want to and still have moist hands almost all the time (getting buzzed off alcohol helps but I don't use it as a crutch). this makes seemingly simple things like shaking someones hand or holding hands with a girl much more awkward than they ought to be, and unfortunately in a dating world where first impressions are important...it's one of those things that can't be avoided.
luckily, I'm not the kind of guy that needs that kind of attention all the time or it might bother me more being single.
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I'm with you, this is, 50% of my reason as well.
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