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Posted 2/5/08 , edited 4/21/08
If possible, I will keep the child.
Everyone has the right to live. No 1 is allowed to take away anyone's life. Much less say it's your own blood.
Whether to live or die, I think the choice is up to the child, not the parents.

If I ever have any deformed offspring, I admit tt I may not look upon it as a normal human @ first.
Given enough time, I will still have to accept tt it is fate brought us together & the responsibility behind it.
When u get in contact wif the child more, u will be bonded & u definitely will view the child, as a child.

I mean, tt's wat I believe. Of cos, we all hope tt our child will be a smooth delivery & grow up healthily =)
Posted 2/5/08 , edited 4/21/08
If I had a baby born deformed or diseased, I will reject it because I want a normal child. Why put through living everyday wishing your child didn't deserve to be born like this? I wouldn't want that in my life. Don't quote me saying I'm a heartless human being it's just me.
Posted 2/5/08 , edited 4/21/08
They are just unique from others =)

We= common human
Deform offspring= Unique from others

Why not just accept them?
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um2456 wrote:

dude one word


is that real?
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If I know my child will be deform, sadly to say I will have an abortion. I want my kid to be able to enjoy life and be healthy and do the same things as every other kids do. Having a deform kid, yes I will be willing to love them, but I know the world will look at my kid differently, and im pretty sure my kid will not want that kind of attention from people, and it nothing hurt more than your child not happy and sad.
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I think this is the type of things that can't really be assessed until it happens.

I'd love to say that I would love and cherish my monster baby despite all, but when push comes to shove, how the hell do I know what it would be like to give birth to a monster baby? After all the excitement (I hope) that you go through waiting and buying clothes and cribs and getting ready to take pictures galore.. to give birth to a severely deformed baby would probably break my heart. everyone has expectations of what it will be like, and no one (that I've ever met) meets with failed expectations well.

If it were to happen to me, I don't know what I would do... And there is a very good chance that, if I knew about it before it was too late, I would get the abortion rather than trying to live with the pain of knowing that my monster baby might not get the love that it deserves. It is still a child after all...

Posted 2/5/08 , edited 4/21/08
People..abortion...D:.....is a solution..
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It all depends on the severity of the abnormality. Even if I'm able to love the kid, love isn't always enough especially when it has to go through all the physical and mental torture. Honestly I would be really distraught and any decision I had to make would be painful. It's not like I want a perfect child or anything but I want my child to not suffer more than a normal human being would.
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i agree nobody want ugly offspring
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n_n303 wrote:


kyocool wrote:

If i had a deformed child i would have it killed. I would refuse to acknowledge it as my own and have it put to sleep like an animal.

Trevor (OP)



you could go to jail for that...for murder..
i say just "pretend" you lost it, and leave it downtown somewhere in the middle of the night


Good point 10k if you drive a clean car and drop the baby off in Mexico and return by yourself


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coreyb49127 wrote:

why cant he marry his hand i mean cmon if 2 guys can marry why cant a guy marry his hand?


because he doesnt HAVE to marry his hand. his hand is already there with him since he was born. Plus i'm not paying thousands and thousands of money for a wedding where my son is going to marry his hand (>______>);


Unless his deformity was being born without hands... Then he'd be screwed.
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Posted 2/5/08 , edited 4/21/08

takane_rena wrote:


um2456 wrote:

dude one word


is that real?


It is true. Its Brian Peppers. Of course, police pictures always make you look bad. This one was particulary horrible for him. There is a better one:


The guy have arpert's syndrom( http://www.craniofacial.net/aperts_syndrome.htm ) or crouzon's syndrom ( http://www.craniofacial.net/crouzons_syndrome.htm ) or something like that.

He is a sexual offender, i think he slept with someone's else wife or harrassed her. I dont remember but i dont think he raped anyone. There is also a little saga over wikipedia because the article about him been erased by the wikipedia admisnitration (or something like that) about 6 times already, saying it wasnt something "important" to be kept or so. Many hoax and urbans legends run about this guy.

Anyway, i think it make my point.

Would i ever have my kids being pointed at and have people looking at him the way YOU look at Brian Peppers?

The answer is no.

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I'd be pained to know my child wouldn't be 'normal' like everyone else, and that they'd have to go through millions of hardships to gain acceptance. But as long as it's not an autistic child, I think I'd be fine. I couldn't stand having an autistic child, there's not a deep enough love they can give in return to the parent.
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