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25 / M / Los Angeles, CA
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Posted 6/16/14
I have yet to fall in love. They've all been crushes so far.
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You could say so. After meeting my first love, I tried to be friends with her, considering I felt that we had a connection. We both hanged out together, watching anime regardless of anybody else's opinions. I felt happy when I constantly talked to her everyday, because she could make my worries go away with her beautiful smiles. The painful thing was I had to eventually move away, never seeing her again. Soon after, I fell into a deep depression and I painfully got over it. 5 Centimeters per Second, huh?

Posted 6/16/14
5+ years together then </3
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my first crush ever was on a childhood friend, i think i was like 3 or 4? and we used to play together all the time and we pretended to be a married couple a lot and id stay over his house a lot. i moved away, and then his family happened to move to the same place a little later, too. coincidence huh? but then we moved away again and that was the last time i saw him.
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If the feeling had to be mutual then, nope never had a first love, if not then you mean a crush?, yeah, I remember, got ripped off for a tidy sum because of it to, so it went badly I guess.
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I've had a lot of crushes and small romances, but my first real person I have ever loved was and still is my best friend. He's always been there for me, I've grown up with him, and he's always spoiled me. Even as a kid I would follow him around a lot, and he'd take care of my like my older brother that I'd never had. Even as we grew older he still looks out for me, even with him in college he is still the nicest person, and I regret not saying anything when I had a chance, and now with him in a college out of state I won't get that chance :/ Life sucks like that.
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heart-wrenching.

he kept me in the loop... he was afraid to tell me he didn't like me. so then I had to be the one to say goodbye (even though I liked him)... and it wasn't easy.
sometimes it's better if someone just dumps you directly instead of keeping you in the unknown... instead of leaving you questioning if he does like you back, or doesn't.

the song "say something" describes my situation perfectly.
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Posted 6/16/14
I don't think I've had my first love yet, but as for my first serious crush, he tried to confess to me in 6th grade but he was too nervous so his friend did instead. I didn't want anyone else to know that I felt the same so I turned him down and he cried. It's awkward because his older sister attended the same high school as me (she is 2 years older) and the same college (although, thankfully a different campus, but I did run into her here and there). I still feel bad, but I think it was all for the best.
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I dunno about love, but my first major crush was way back in Kindergarten... lol. It was this one girl with long straight jet-black hair, snow white skin, and a bubbly personality. She almost had this exotic look to her like she was mixed with Asian or Hispanic. I remember that at the end of school we both would wait for our parents to pick us up in the same spot every day. I used to love spending time with her at that spot. I remember how nervous I'd get when it'd be just the two of us there, haha.
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Never had one.
Can't even remember if I've had a crush before. I don't think I have. But maybe? D8
Sogno- 
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since this is titled "love" and not "crush", imma go with the first guy i dated at 16. didn't work out, but had its fun moments.

later learned he was bi & i'd called his ex-boyfriend (who i knew was gay) for advice not knowing he was his ex lol yeah...weird times
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17 / M / Los Angeles
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Posted 6/16/14
This year. It turned out horribly and she cheated on me. Not going to be having another girlfriend anytime soon.
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26 / M / Atlantic Beach, NC
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My first love was about 6 years ago. It ended fucking terribly.

She used me like her plaything and slept around with a grand total of 5 guys behind my back. I was really naive and gullible, and since she was the first girl I really had that strong of feelings for, she was definitely very crafty in how she manipulated me.

The emotional scars I got from that relationship still show, so much to the point that a girl can actually confess to my face (albeit drunkenly) and I reject the notion that she could be attracted to me. It obliterated my self confidence and while I've come a long way since then, I hate to admit that I still get really pissed at her and myself over the whole ordeal.

I'll readily admit that I wasn't even in love with her either. I just thought I was, and while she is still the girl I've ever felt the most strongly towards, it wasn't love. At least, that's what I want to believe anyway.
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40 / M / End of Nowhere
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Kurodenki wrote:

It must have been in preschool or elementary. Can't remember. Definitely not as dramatic as in anime.


How sad. We fought and destroyed evil. Between naps and lessons on how to spell. <3. Preschool was such an innocent and fun time. I still do not know how the neighborhood managed to survive all of that destruction. Clearly there were other mysterious forces at work.

The experience did definitely change me though. I came to the conclusion early on that any girl I go out with must be able to help destroy evil and chase down evil doers with me. Lacking that desire, I find it hard to take any relationship seriously.

More seriously it also taught me that if a boy and a girl can be friends and get close when they are in preschool, then it proves that there are few barriers to love. Other than those that we make for ourselves. I would not trade any of my relationships, even those that did not end well, for anything. Each has given me many happy memories, even if there are some sad ones too, but they also helped me learn how to make these things work. And that if nothing else, as long as we keep breathing, there is always another chance tomorrow.

Being willing to get into a giant robot and fight evil with me though is still a major +1.
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20 / F / Australia
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Posted 6/16/14
I've had some small crushes in the past 5 years, but none of them were "love".
If anything, my current boyfriend of a year is my "first love".
We met last year at a metal gig (already a common interest between us the moment we met). I literally decided to go last minute because I originally planned to bail because I wasn't feeling up for being around people. If I hadn't gone, I probably would've never met him.
We're still going strong so I can't comment on anything further, but - despite being in relationships prior - this somehow feels like a "first time" for me.
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