Ask if she has any (whatever ethnicity you are) in her. If she says no, say Do you want some? If she says yes, say Do you want some more?

Say "hello" and smile, gently smile please.. don't look like you want to eat her.

Compliments are good. Cheesy pick-up lines are a down fall.. least in my opinion. Make her laugh, once she does that you'll be less nervous, but if she doesn't laugh............. RUN!!!

There's my advice c:

"Your balls are showing."

gawd, pick up lines are such a turn-off; please dont use them, they just make the situation awkward for both of you and she'll brush you off as a loser.

If you've never talked/met her before start with a polite greeting; "excuse me Miss..." and insert a sweet compliment. make sure you use that compliment as an opening and use it to start a convo otherwise it'll get awkward and she'll have her gaurd up around you from then on.

If you know her somewhat just start off talking about something you know she was involved in recently, like a work/school project, or just ask her if she can help you with something your having trouble with like a homework question. Its good to be a little flirty and fun while you're at it, but dont come off too strong. Small talk can be the best way to start a relationship.

Just be yourself and remember to smile!

No way!

Probably the oldest yet the best tip ever

Talk to her the same way you talk to men... Also, look down on her and slap her a little when she starts to get flirty.

What's so hard in starting a conversation? just say hi and everything will take it's natural course.

Let it come to you naturally. Don't start off with a compliment, that rather signals that your interested and tends to make the girl uncomfortable. Don't act cocky just take everyone's advice and be yourself.

Interesting....

why would you start a conversation? Why doesn't she start thee god damn conversation?

Are you kidding me?! Pick up lines are an excellent way to start a conversation; they're almost always terrible, but they always get a laugh. In my experience, if you can get anyone to laugh, conversation comes easy because they've subconsciously lowered their guard. Smiling and eye contact really help because it provides a false sense of security, and shows that your interest is directed towards them.

Honestly, I would say you can't really come up with a strategy on how to talk to girls.. all girls are different

If you generally have problems talking to girls, try to start and go more out with your female friends, which you never could consider going out with/date. that way you get a better feeling of talking to girls. And you don't have to be nervous. If you don't have any, try to make some female friends like that.

And secondly, don't go and say "hey sexy, you look gorgeous" straight away.. compliments shouldn't come too easy. Guys looking up pick-up lines on Internet and going to super expensive courses often fail. Be natural, be simple, it doesn't have to be complicated. opening with something "Hi there, I saw you sitting (or w.e she is doing) and I think you're cute/look interesting/have a nice smile etc. (not overdoing it) and felt for introducing myself to you.

Then you can continue to talk about something related to the place you are "great club, isn't it ? what brought you here?" ask questions. Don't be totally boring, as asking "do you love star wars ? you see, I collect action figures". Maybe you end up having a little discussion about something that interest you both, and in the discussion you end proving her right ? which proves you can challenge her, that is good.

The first time you talk to her doesn't have to be too complicated, all you wanna do is make contact and get a number. And don't sit there for like four hours, talking and talking.. If you really get along, then suggest that you two get out of there ? or that you have to leave, for some reason.


But again, I can't give you any answers saying "This is how it is", you just got to get to know her and find who she really is. She might be the one for you, maybe not. If not, don't be frightened.. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

hmm.. maybe its just me. I've played along with most pick up lines, as awkward as they were, but the guys never really went anywhere interesting after they spit them out or just failed outright. I know every guy is different, but still. I guess im just the kind of girl who'd rather have a straight forward, "hey, whats up." But it seems you know your game. maybe you have what it takes to start something with a pick up line, if so, kudos; you should offer lessons. lmao (:

grow a pair n say hi