Compliment her on some clothing and ask her where she got it from. Say you'll buy it later for some female family relative. She would probably ask about that family member if she has a decent heart.
DONT EVER DO THAT IF YOU DONT WANT HER TO THINK YOU'RE WEIRD!!!
This is the kind of conversation you would have with your girlfriend not your potentiel boyfriend!!
what i would like to recommend you is to be natural, just be yourself !!
IF you're too prepared or you think too much you will just mess up everything.
i recently found out that the best way to get someone to open up and talk is to talk about yourself first and then in between ask her about herself and you will see that everything will flow naturally.
DONT THInk TOO MUCH
nb: everyone is in a way akward when it comes to someone they are not used to or they dnt know (including that girl!!). just do like everybody else act confident and natural
It's really hard if the girl is shy. Even if you're talking to her naturally, she'll start to avoid you.... That's what I gained by experience.
I stare at her with deep dark eyes until she says something.
That's when the conversation starts.
Lol are u the guy that was walking with me on the road yesterday morning at 7.20/30 am?
Gosh.. ppl dont do that, unless u have a 'style of staring' thats not creepy.
Sometimes we girls may say something, whilst othertimes we think... first 'stare back... is he okay? turns to look back... so he doesnt say anything... then im just thinking 'uhh okay, maybe not.. hez not saying anything... then uhh whyz he still looking, this is awkward... 'about to say sumthing (sometimes u do) othertimes ... 'actually nah, hez the one staring if he wants sumthing he can say... ugh... 'cross the road n walk off' (if im still walking in that direction n dint have to cross i probs wudve said something, but my approach wouldnt be that nice. trust me.
With all that staring into my face its like somone barging into ur mental privacy 'nice walk to work and thinking time, or telling u uve got something in ur face that they are amused about.
SAY SOMETHING soon before we get an impression of u, yet dont jump in all impatient with random compliments either. hard to tell if ur sincere, if u wanna know someone just talk to them.
Ive got to admit tho, i tend to meet a few guys like this, at first i was oblivious to it, till it happened a few times, n figured maybe it was a guys trick? U tell me....
One time it did catch me thinking not 'creep' but rather 'Haha Cute'
Essay of my life v
When they say, excuse me im lost (people have always done that ugh)
can u tell me where..? i try, if i dk i normally tellem im bad with bad directions so i may getem lost but if they are like ahh ok sorry to bother, then look lost and come back saying, can u show me 'something near the place ur at'
(a well known food place tbh...'only one guy did that' when they used the lost thing)
So here i went to walk him, and then we spoke like he said 'thanks i was a nice person (rather coming off as a cheap compliment it came as and appreciation. I stayed kinda quiet, i was just like its cool, happz to help.
But he carried on talking,
like where he worked...
and asked in return... when i dint answer at first,
he said 'he was sorry not to worry about it ,just he was curious' made me feel like the bad guy and he dint come across as pushy.
Its okay to come across a bit nervous, he was confident enuf to talk so the nervousness just made him seem considerate of me...
So i then told him, its just a harmless conversation after all? 'i think he did that on purpose'
Then when we got near the food place, he asked if i was hungry... so i told him i was taking him to the place cuz 'HE' was lost right? he laughed and said, well maybe but he'll have to buy me lunch anyway 'his treat' as thanks... i was quite surprised and rather had to laugh at it thinking, omg i just walked u all the way here for u to buy me lunch.
The other lost people were creepy/annoying they did the whole 'i have no friends will u be my first friend here, n they just kept saying why why? by that time anyway i figured they wernt lost and it was a trick cuz they happily walked off to somewhere wwhich wasnt the place i was showing them ~_~
Its funny how often its been used to atleast start a convo, cuz most of the time i dont like to think 'aww theyr here to chat me up' they could actually be lost... until it goes as far to asking details about 'me' than the 'place' they wanna go. which is nice in a convo, if u new here n bored untill wether i have a man or not matters to u. No dont do that.
In school, u can use that for classrooms, or the 'canteen' if u could sit next to the person cuz ur waiting on sumone...
just a friendly normal hello always works, if the person is nice and openminded, girls dont always think 'oh random guys here to chat me up' well i hope not anyway, most of the time we think, ''ooh hello @u@'' if ur just being nice.
Yeah, a normal Hello works. But if you stare at them, that'll get you farther, you can later explain why you stared at her with a creepy look. Which makes her laugh and like you more. Win, win.
It always works if ur 'skilled at staring' ^_~
But the creepy look? lmfao....
Haha u never know u myt be right, <3 if she digs that kinda thing, yhh! i totally see it <3
To all yee Americans, Happy Thanksgiving x