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Posted 7/8/14

XXpoisonivyXX wrote:

im the shy quiet type, guys come up to me and make the first move, maybe one day I shall make the first move... one day....


hmm..is that so.. lol
Posted 7/8/14 , edited 7/8/14

imbrreezzy wrote:


XXpoisonivyXX wrote:

im the shy quiet type, guys come up to me and make the first move, maybe one day I shall make the first move... one day....


hmm..is that so.. lol


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when I see people get into relationships quite often I found its set up by mutual friends who know one likes the other or if they both like each other or they are just really good friends and they come to it on their own. I think by having some asking there's always a certain level of expectation for the answer which can actually put people under pressure and leads them to making a decision that they might regret.
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I've only been in love once and I didn't ask her and neater did she. Also, I have absolutely no idea if anyone has been in love whit me since.
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Posted 7/8/14

imbrreezzy wrote:


Augment wrote:

I'm that quiet guy in the back.

That guy who keeps to himself.

Guy who don't care much.

Who doesn't seem interested.

I'll take the second move just in case things don't go so well.


you fear rejection?


I don't fear it, but I don't want it. Precaution against an undesirable situation. However in exceptional circumstances I would make the first move and if it doesn't go as planned I wouldn't regret having tried, because if I took the risk to put myself in that situation it was worth it. I would rather be in a bad situation that regret having not made the choice and live with the possibility of having something I really wanted and not acted on it.
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Well you only live once so what have you got to lose? I haven't met or gotten to know a guy I'm interested in but hopefully one day
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Most of my girlfriends have asked me out, since I'm not much of a "playah" I just didn't notice them until they officially told me >.< I'm dense I know... But since there's always a new experience out of it I just said "Sure" and we had a good time! Nothing like a marriage or anything though, I've yet to reach that level! >;o
Posted 4/12/15
I rarely ever make the first move unless I've grown a strong interest to that person.
Posted 4/12/15
I've never confessed to anyone before.. well, until not too long ago. That was probably the first time I ever admitted / confessed to liking someone and it turned out pretty well, fortunately for me. Heh..
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I have almost always done the "confessing" but I don't like that word.

I always ask the grill out only if the signs are there and we are both feeling each other. If not I just move on.
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