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Some guy in my class was stalking me. I had no idea who is is though. Last day of school he just went up to me and kissed me. Scared me half to death and now I'm dreading to go back the next coming school year.

Not sure if this would count as a first kiss though, because I wasn't the one who kissed him.....
Posted 7/13/14

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Some guy in my class was stalking me. I had no idea who is is though. Last day of school he just went up to me and kissed me. Scared me half to death and now I'm dreading to go back the next coming school year.

Not sure if this would count as a first kiss though, because I wasn't the one who kissed him.....


Did you let any teachers or your parents know about it? Even telling some friends who can help look out for you would help. Creepy people like that need to be dealt with as soon as possible.
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It's been a while... it's not particularly great when there isn't any feeling behind it... even moreso when you get ambushed by it with someone wearing chapstick that makes you gag! Anyway... I would rather forget lol... I look forward to one with feeling that would replace such a meh memory.
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Did you let any teachers or your parents know about it? Even telling some friends who can help look out for you would help. Creepy people like that need to be dealt with as soon as possible.


The only person I told was my family and they don't really think that it was a big problem.....
Posted 7/13/14 , edited 7/13/14

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Did you let any teachers or your parents know about it? Even telling some friends who can help look out for you would help. Creepy people like that need to be dealt with as soon as possible.


The only person I told was my family and they don't really think that it was a big problem.....


People always downplay things when it's safer not to. I mean, nobody has to go crazy with it but it definitely needs to be watched to see if it's possible it might escalate into something bigger. You already said that you are worried about going back now. That alone should make people want to help because nobody should have to feel that way about it.
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Pai_Here wrote:




Did you let any teachers or your parents know about it? Even telling some friends who can help look out for you would help. Creepy people like that need to be dealt with as soon as possible.


The only person I told was my family and they don't really think that it was a big problem.....


People always downplay things when it's safer not to. I mean, nobody has to go crazy with it but it definitely needs to be watched to see if it's possible it might escalate into something bigger. You already said that you are worried about going back now. That alone should make people want to help because nobody should have to feel that way about it.


I agree, I even considered dropping out of school because of it, because I'm afraid of something worse happening. But if I'm to talk to someone about it, how can I do so? My family isn't too worried about it, and I'm guessing that teachers at the school would think it's not a big issue as well
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Posted 7/13/14

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justanotherguy_2005 wrote:


Pai_Here wrote:




Did you let any teachers or your parents know about it? Even telling some friends who can help look out for you would help. Creepy people like that need to be dealt with as soon as possible.


The only person I told was my family and they don't really think that it was a big problem.....


People always downplay things when it's safer not to. I mean, nobody has to go crazy with it but it definitely needs to be watched to see if it's possible it might escalate into something bigger. You already said that you are worried about going back now. That alone should make people want to help because nobody should have to feel that way about it.


I agree, I even considered dropping out of school because of it, because I'm afraid of something worse happening. But if I'm to talk to someone about it, how can I do so? My family isn't too worried about it, and I'm guessing that teachers at the school would think it's not a big issue as well


Wouldn't that count as a form of sexual harassment?
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Posted 7/13/14

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Pai_Here wrote:


justanotherguy_2005 wrote:


Pai_Here wrote:




Did you let any teachers or your parents know about it? Even telling some friends who can help look out for you would help. Creepy people like that need to be dealt with as soon as possible.


The only person I told was my family and they don't really think that it was a big problem.....


People always downplay things when it's safer not to. I mean, nobody has to go crazy with it but it definitely needs to be watched to see if it's possible it might escalate into something bigger. You already said that you are worried about going back now. That alone should make people want to help because nobody should have to feel that way about it.


I agree, I even considered dropping out of school because of it, because I'm afraid of something worse happening. But if I'm to talk to someone about it, how can I do so? My family isn't too worried about it, and I'm guessing that teachers at the school would think it's not a big issue as well


Wouldn't that count as a form of sexual harassment?


Indeed so, indeed so.....
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I agree, I even considered dropping out of school because of it, because I'm afraid of something worse happening. But if I'm to talk to someone about it, how can I do so? My family isn't too worried about it, and I'm guessing that teachers at the school would think it's not a big issue as well


Well at least bringing it up to parents and teachers/counselors etc. sets up the fact that if it does continue or gets worse it will have been something already reported in the past and that they can look back at and see that it is ongoing and not just a more minor incident even if they don't do anything at the time. Beyond that I would just say try to let friends know and make it so you are alone as little as possible to either deter it or at least have someone who can verify what is going on.
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I was at a sleepover with a friend when we decided to meet up with some of our guy friends. The boy I liked and I separated from the group for a while because it was nearly sunrise and we found this hill to sit on and watch it rise and then he looked at me, complimented the necklace I was wearing, and proceeded to kiss me. I can't remember how the kiss itself was because I was fourteen, but I'd say it was just mediocre. At least the scenery was pretty.
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Well at least bringing it up to parents and teachers/counselors etc. sets up the fact that if it does continue or gets worse it will have been something already reported in the past and that they can look back at and see that it is ongoing and not just a more minor incident even if they don't do anything at the time. Beyond that I would just say try to let friends know and make it so you are alone as little as possible to either deter it or at least have someone who can verify what is going on.


Hmm I guess I should learn to not be the socially awkward loner and not be shy so I can make friends.....so should I tell one of the counselors once I get back to school then? Last day of school was a half day and I had no chance to tell anyone that time.
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Well at least bringing it up to parents and teachers/counselors etc. sets up the fact that if it does continue or gets worse it will have been something already reported in the past and that they can look back at and see that it is ongoing and not just a more minor incident even if they don't do anything at the time. Beyond that I would just say try to let friends know and make it so you are alone as little as possible to either deter it or at least have someone who can verify what is going on.


Hmm I guess I should learn to not be the socially awkward loner and not be shy so I can make friends.....so should I tell one of the counselors once I get back to school then? Last day of school was a half day and I had no chance to tell anyone that time.


Yeah. Just talk to them and let them know it is bothering you and they will have their own advice that is of a more professional quality than mine. Just keep them in the loop about it if it does continue and hopefully you have good ones that will do what is needed.
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I was 18 and heading to my car at night in the parking lot and a co worker of mine was following me (didnt know he was) and my kiss was stolen from me i was like


then I said this while slapping him
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Posted 7/13/14

justanotherguy_2005 wrote:


Pai_Here wrote:


Well at least bringing it up to parents and teachers/counselors etc. sets up the fact that if it does continue or gets worse it will have been something already reported in the past and that they can look back at and see that it is ongoing and not just a more minor incident even if they don't do anything at the time. Beyond that I would just say try to let friends know and make it so you are alone as little as possible to either deter it or at least have someone who can verify what is going on.


Hmm I guess I should learn to not be the socially awkward loner and not be shy so I can make friends.....so should I tell one of the counselors once I get back to school then? Last day of school was a half day and I had no chance to tell anyone that time.


Yeah. Just talk to them and let them know it is bothering you and they will have their own advice that is of a more professional quality than mine. Just keep them in the loop about it if it does continue and hopefully you have good ones that will do what is needed.


Alright I'll do just that then when the time comes. Until then, I will try to enjoy the rest of my break without worry. Thanks for the help
Posted 7/13/14

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I was 18 and heading to my car at night in the parking lot and a co worker of mine was following me (didnt know he was) and my kiss was stolen from me i was like


then I said this while slapping him


Nice. The random kiss people deserve to get slapped. xD


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Alright I'll do just that then when the time comes. Until then, I will try to enjoy the rest of my break without worry. Thanks for the help :)


Np. Best of luck to you!
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