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Posted 7/24/14

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Posted 7/24/14

XXpoisonivyXX wrote:


gintamaaa511 wrote:

Come over here and talk to some awesome people! And when i watch comedy shows or anime i forget about loneliness. Can't really know how so many people likes to be alone. I mean, sometimes it's good, but it ends up being a depressing environment. That's my opinion of course. Also go out and talk to people, make some friends!


I dont know about anyone else but speaking on my behalf only, I really love to be alone as being alone is the only thing I've known growing up I was very sheltered and wasnt allowed to have any friends or go to sleep overs or hang out :p I still socialize with friends and people IRL sometimes but mostly on the internet. But being alone I find comfort and happiness not depressing at all im entertained everyday plus it saves money for manga and games and my anime hahaha c: To each his own :p


I respect your opinion, but you can't really say that you're happier alone if you never tried to have a more active social life. I know when i feel lonely i feel depressed because i know the feeling of having friends around me and have someone to talk to. Also being alone makes me think of my past -_-
You can be alone and be happy of course, but you'll never be able to experience the emotions that you give and receive from other people. And over the internet is not the same. Although talking to some people over here makes my day happier, and if i can make someones day better i feel awesome. So i guess i could be happy "alone" but never in the same way. «To each is own» ^^
Posted 7/24/14


lmao its not like I dont go out and socialize with people, as for "active social life" I've had it after I moved out when I was 15 and I've made some really good close knit friends, I never said I didnt have an active social life. So no I dont only social on the internet I just choose to socialize now through technology. As I said going out and wanting to have fun the way I like to have fun cost money and I'd rather save money for my entertainment and College right now im more focused on myself and my Education rather than keeping up with an active social life.
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Posted 7/24/14 , edited 7/24/14
I feel lonely all the time. It sucks because I'm very shy and only have 2 friends and talk to them maybe 2 or 3 times a week. Sometimes Crying seems like an option but nothing comes out.
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Posted 7/24/14
loneliness is my only companion who has never left me, we've become real close
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Posted 7/24/14
Wow. So many people on here that I can actually relate to in some way or another. It's a good feeling.
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Posted 7/24/14 , edited 7/24/14
No, I have enough friends to go around. I am however, ' Lonely in Love"
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22 / M / New Jersey
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Posted 7/24/14
"Loneliness is a disease that can lead to death." - Holo.

"Because she learned about happiness, she feels lonely for the first time. And because she knows unhappiness, she understands happiness for the first time." - Yuu, Himura.

I thought those were relevant.
Posted 7/25/14
Being alone /= loneliness. Being alone can be a positive experience depending on what you choose to do with your time. I'm sure many of us here enjoy being alone from time to time (e.g. when playing single-player games, cooking, writing, etc). Loneliness is on the other hand is a "complex and usually unpleasant emotional response to isolation or lack of companionship".
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I don't like being lonely, but I can't help it......... if that makes any sense. I'm not so much as a boring person, but I can be a bit dull sometimes during conversations I have with people. It'd be a blessing if I could get rid of my current situation and make some friends whether it be online or offline, but at the same time I feel that people probably don't want to get to know me because either we're not on the same wavelength or that person already has their own group of friends. I was always under the impression that making friends online is 10x easier than offline, but that doesn't seem to be the case for me. Well, it isn't so bad nowadays ever since I can tolerate it, but whenever I think about it I start to feel like crap. Watching anime, playing video games, posting on the forums temporarily subdues this uneasiness though only because it helps my mind escape the reality I'm living in right now, but my sub-conscious constantly tells me that I'm a lonely loser that'll never make any friends and be single for the rest of my life. And I'm not surprised at this either since my facial features give off that "fuck off, leave me alone" vibe (I'm not just guessing this, a person I knew way back told me that I looked as if I hated him when I really didn't).

-sigh- That was a LOAD off my chest, even though it's quite depressing (sorry). I just really envy those of you that can easily make friends on the internet and those of you who already have good trusting friends to rely on. As for what I do when I feel lonely gets repetitive at times and I just end up lying down either staring off into space until I fall asleep. Maybe there's some secret to human interactions, because I seem to be missing the "friend-making" gene in my body.
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I've haven't experience loneliness, but I love being alone. It allows me to have time for myself and I do what I want on my own time. I rarely get to be alone completely so when I do it's a luxury.
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Posted 7/25/14
I think there is a difference between simply being alone and being lonely. I definitely hate feeling lonely but I don't always hate being alone because I use the time to reflect on life, think random thoughts, or simply just relax and do things without worrying about others being around. Now about being lonely, if I feel lonely, I would probably try to find something to do to distract myself from the feeling of loneliness or try to find some way to create opportunities for myself to make new or connect with old friends. That being said, I think I am pretty lucky to have great friends around me wherever I end up. It's just sad if I move somewhere I leave some friends behind, like in the present case that I will be moving to another state tomorrow for a new job.
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This is a weird because I live with my boyfriend and we can be completely quiet when were in the same room then laughing the next minute. I guess what I'm trying to say is, even if your in a long term relationship, you can still have your privacy and alone time. That's what I like about my relationship the best. Others have a hard time finding that balance.
Posted 7/25/14

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Posted 7/25/14 , edited 7/25/14
Well yeah, I mean us humans aren't really supposed to be isolated, I don't do anything different from when I'm with company, though.
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