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Guy Kills Himself After Breakup[Old Thread]
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Posted 7/24/14
Someone like that probably wasn't a great contribution to society and we should be glad he choose to kill himself rather than go on a rampage killing innocents.

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A breakup certainly is no reason for suicide but if you decide to do it at least don't bother others Jumping from the 14th floor could have killed others and even crashing on a car will be bothersome for the car owner so take that into account when choosing the method.
Posted 7/24/14
I will never understand why some people take that route....but it's not my place to judge if I have never been in their shoes...

A love so strong that you would kill yourself.....
Posted 7/24/14 , edited 7/24/14
Ok. I admit it. I'm a terrible person. While forcing my way through that the only thing I could think of is that he could have spent a bit more time polishing up his last message to the world. I seriously think I don't care as much just because of how badly it was done. I'm not asking for it to be perfect but can we at least use "you" instead of "u" and stuff when it's the last thing the world will see of you? Give it a once over and do a little editing? Proper sentences? Please?

Also, to continue to show how bad of a person I am.... If you can't even spend some time to make a quality last message to the world, since it was posted on facebook and pretty much guaranteed to get a lot of attention, maybe that is why your relationship didn't work out. They do take work and commitment after all.
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kirika202 wrote:

I will never understand why some people take that route....but it's not my place to judge if I have never been in their shoes...

A love so strong that you would kill yourself.....


Commiting suicide is way to selfish to qualify as love.
Posted 7/24/14

Doomedfox wrote:


Commiting suicide is way to selfish to qualify as love.


Well, I don't know what love is....in real life I'm aromantic I actually agree with everything you said before but since I have no clue what it is to love someone...I really can't judge, that's how I feel.
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Posted 7/24/14

kirika202 wrote:


Doomedfox wrote:


Commiting suicide is way to selfish to qualify as love.


Well, I don't know what love is....in real life I'm aromantic I actually agree with everything you said before but since I have no clue what it is to love someone...I really can't judge, that's how I feel.


lol well i suppose in the end everyone has a different definition about love anyways.
However in the very least love should always mean to care about the person you love and i don't think anyway would put a suicide on a person he/she really cares for.
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Posted 7/24/14 , edited 7/24/14
Cutting is one thing that's far, but this is to much.
I hate to say this, but cutting/suicide just shows that you're weak and dramatic.
It's sounds really rude, sorry about that :/ But I just had to let that opinion out.
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Posted 7/24/14
I think it's stupid to kill your self because of a break up..... just move on, there's plenty of girls out there even better than her
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justanotherguy_2005 wrote:

Ok. I admit it. I'm a terrible person. While forcing my way through that the only thing I could think of is that he could have spent a bit more time polishing up his last message to the world. I seriously think I don't care as much just because of how badly it was done. I'm not asking for it to be perfect but can we at least use "you" instead of "u" and stuff when it's the last thing the world will see of you? Give it a once over and do a little editing? Proper sentences? Please?

Also, to continue to show how bad of a person I am.... If you can't even spend some time to make a quality last message to the world, since it was posted on facebook and pretty much guaranteed to get a lot of attention, maybe that is why your relationship didn't work out. They do take work and commitment after all.


It's because he wrote from his heart.
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Posted 7/24/14
I have never understood why people can't handle breakups. My cousin's boyfriend burned her house down because she didn't want to be with him no more. Now the idiot is doing 20 years in jail.
Posted 7/24/14

Thfelese wrote:


justanotherguy_2005 wrote:

Ok. I admit it. I'm a terrible person. While forcing my way through that the only thing I could think of is that he could have spent a bit more time polishing up his last message to the world. I seriously think I don't care as much just because of how badly it was done. I'm not asking for it to be perfect but can we at least use "you" instead of "u" and stuff when it's the last thing the world will see of you? Give it a once over and do a little editing? Proper sentences? Please?

Also, to continue to show how bad of a person I am.... If you can't even spend some time to make a quality last message to the world, since it was posted on facebook and pretty much guaranteed to get a lot of attention, maybe that is why your relationship didn't work out. They do take work and commitment after all.


It's because he wrote from his heart.


No. I don't believe it was at all. It was just someone being stupid. I used to be suicidal and everything too and looking back on it now I know it wasn't ever about love. You don't do things like that when it will only hurt the one you supposedly love. If there was real love there it would have been the first thing he thought of when the idea even came to mind. It was pure selfishness. He was only thinking about himself in the present and didn't care about anyone else. He might have thought he loved her and other people but my guess, from my experience, is that he only loved the idea of being in love with her.

If any of that makes sense anyway. I'm not having the best time thinking clearly right now.
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Uhm... yeah asking people out doesn't work all the time... no reason to go suicidal over it.

People break up... also no reason to go suicidal over it.

If I had suicidal thoughts after each failed asking out of girls or break up... i'd probably be insane.
Posted 7/24/14

Otaku-ish wrote:

Cutting is one thing that's far, but this is to much.
I hate to say this, but cutting/suicide just shows that you're weak and dramatic.
It's sounds really rude, sorry about that :/ But I just had to let that opinion out.


I agree with you. It's an unpopular opinion that gets a lot of backlash from society but not everyone is going to see things the same way.


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Uhm... yeah asking people out doesn't work all the time... no reason to go suicidal over it.

People break up... also no reason to go suicidal over it.

If I had suicidal thoughts after each failed asking out of girls or break up... i'd probably be insane.


I think one of the biggest problems in society today is that we try to protect kids from every little issue they could ever face and they never develop proper coping skills for things like this. It might seem mean but kids have to face reality sooner rather than later so they can grow stronger from it. =\
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Life is too short to be worried about someone who won't date you. Obviously for him, it was way short. Humor absolutely not intended, I swear, but honestly. You have to move on. They're not the one for you if they don't love you back. Easier said than done, I KNOW. But in order to be content and happy, moving on is the best solution. And time will heal.
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Posted 7/24/14
That's pretty damn selfish. Imagine the guilt his ex-girlfriend feels knowing that their breakup caused him to commit suicide.
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