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Posted 8/3/14
For me, I am still undecided...
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20 / F / Beyond the Boundary
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Posted 8/3/14
I honestly don't want any. Since I had to babysit my younger siblings nothing can make me wanna take care of more.
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17 / F / Canada
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Posted 8/3/14
maybe when i'm older it's a nicer thought, but right now i can't possibly think of devoting my life to babies who cry and whine and such.
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23 / M / AZ
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Posted 8/3/14
Such interesting responses !
I don't thnk I would make a good dad. I have a terrible temper and I'm very stubborn. Unfortunately my grandparents think I'm gay because I haven't had a baby yet.
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Posted 8/3/14
TWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWO CHILDRENNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

PREFERABLY DA 1 BOY 1 GIRL COMBO
Posted 8/3/14
hehe create a utopia from the start.. lol kidding. maybe 4?
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I would love to have kids, but I am going to need an incredible woman to balance me out. I cannot stand babies and young kids. All they do is eat, cry, poop, and vomit on all things valuable. I am coming up on the age where kids are something to consider. But I am still single, so until that changes kids aren't really in the picture. Unless I adopt.
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Posted 8/3/14
I would want to have kids,but 3 is the max. Though not anytime soon, because I want to live my life before I decide to settle down and start a family.
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Posted 8/3/14 , edited 8/3/14
I want more than 10 kids. I don't know why I want more than 10 kids since I'm not great with kids.
Posted 8/3/14
I would ideally like to have two.

Reality I probably would say none. I don't feel like I'm father material. On the other hand, I wouldn't want them to have the genes I have.

Guess the negativity comes from my experience of being abandoned for adoption. Some Asian societies have some conservative values that I despise.
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19 / M / California
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Posted 8/3/14 , edited 8/3/14
I don't get all of you honestly, having kids are probably one of the best things you can picture as a memory and thereof several years of your life assuming you'll find a really good partner, not like I have any experiences, rather I have a dream to have lots of princess & princes with my future wife

Oh and second note, I'd probably want as many as I can handle so probably 2-4 or a twin!

Wherever you are~ my future wife... I'm coming for you!
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Posted 8/3/14
I'm the second oldest in a family of 4 girls, & we were brought up Catholic (but I'm now atheist), so EVERYONE expected me to have kids! (we are all beyond child-bearing age now & only 1 of us, the third, had kids-2!). When I was in my twenties I thought I would probably have them at some time, but was in no hurry. I was determined that I would not have them unless I was in a position to give them everything I had growing up, & all the right opportunities. We were not wealthy, but we had everything we needed & a lot of what we wanted, including a good education, every extra-curricular activity we could think of & a stable, honest, educated & thoughtful upbringing. I never got to the stage that I felt comfortable being responsible for another human-beings growth & development, & never quite had everything I thought I needed to do it (financially & emotionally), but it was never something I yearned for & I am not at all disappointed that I didnt have kids - I have two gorgeous nieces who keep me in touch with my youth (haha), & I dont get blamed for their (few) faults! I only wish that more people would think about exactly what they are responsible for before they have kids, instead of the decision being based on 'just something everybody does.'
Anyhow, thts my rant, I didnt have kids - by design, not by accident, & I dont feel like I've missed out, I'm happy with that decision.!!
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23 / F / NYC
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Posted 8/3/14
To be honest.. I couldn't handle any right now or even 5 years from now from what I see.
I'll stick to my day job and only look after them for a few hours.
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24 / M / Freedomburgerland
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Posted 8/3/14
I don't really want kids. I can't stand the way they tend to act in public.
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23 / M / Somewhere in rura...
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Posted 8/3/14
Should my wife (ha, have to get one of those first) want them, then I will have kids. I'm kind of scared of what I might do to anyone I was responsible for, as my youth was pretty much either being raised irresponsibly or straight up abuse from almost the time I gained sentience until I went to college and my mother was forced to shape up or I would not come back. There were some good times in my childhood, and some times that were worse (I was treated in a fashion almost approximating a modern day slave in a former foster home), the "standard" involved alcohol, drugs, illegal weapons, theft, violence, and any mix of the former from my parents/foster parents. I, myself, was addicted to gambling at 11 years old (I've spent enough in the last 10 years to buy a semi decent car). Personally, if I thought at any point in the future I would be solely responsible for the child growing up to be a decent and well adjusted (I certainly am not) human, I would avoid kids and go play with my niece and nephew to remind myself I'm old.
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