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I'd like 7+ kids, but it's going to be a while before that happens. Hopefully I can find a wife who shares my ambition in that regard.
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Overyodel wrote:

I don't really want kids. I can't stand the way they tend to act in public.


That would be -mainly- the fault of bad parenting depending on the age.

And I would like to at some point, probably in my later 20's once I finish college.


My brother was a horrible kid I'm told by my mom often, he would cuss at strangers and doctors, throw tantrums in public, throw his snot teachers wanted to quit their jobs because of him, but he is the most successful man besides my mom in my entire family right now he's living it up in long beach, thanks to my moms bad parenting and his dad never being in his life he is a vibrant popular successful person and an annoying older brother who I can't stand but treats me to restaurants occasionally
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I literally can't. It's one of the great embarrassments of My Life...


I know it's not any consolation but I feel for you man!!!


Thank You, My Friend....What I regret the most is that I'm unable to give My Parents; My Father specifically, a Grandchild. And My Brother who is 11 Years older than Me will never have a Child either. But that's just Him being a fucking moron. Too obsessed with Drugs to even worry about what goes on in the Real World. So My Dad's name...His legacy, will End with Me and moron. It tears Me to pieces. I just wish I could find a Lady already with Child(ren) so I could...at the very most, be a Stepfather...I'd love them just as if they were Mine. And I just don't want to be alone...Once a Lady would find Out that I'm incapable of having intimate relations, they would run away faster than a Cat on a hot Tin roof. I know that Sex is only ONE issue in a Relationship. But lets face it : It IS something within couples that is of absolute importance...If You are unable to sexually please Your partner...like I'm not able to do...She, or He WILL, and DESERVE to find somehow to have their honest, carnal Human needs fulfilled...either with, or without You. And that would leave Me broken. But She would deserve it...It would be unfair of Me to keep Her from having Her rational NEEDS met...HOWEVER it may be that She goes about having to accomplish, or carry Out...

I don't know....It just HURTS. I'm the loneliest Person You've ever met. PLEASE don't think this is a Post asking for "pity"...I simply wrote what I was feeling. I hope the rest of My fellow Crunchyrollers NEVER have to deal with an issue like this of Mine....All the while, having to experience it at an Age of that of Mine. Sigh...I've run Out of things to say...
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I can't see myself having any kids, either. Maybe, but definitely not until I have my life straightened out. Which probably won't be for a long time, too, so. But if I do, I want to adopt a son and name him Elliot. I love that name.
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Posted 8/3/14

Arielgirl375 wrote:


Arcsol wrote:


Overyodel wrote:

I don't really want kids. I can't stand the way they tend to act in public.


That would be -mainly- the fault of bad parenting depending on the age.

And I would like to at some point, probably in my later 20's once I finish college.


My brother was a horrible kid I'm told by my mom often, he would cuss at strangers and doctors, throw tantrums in public, throw his snot teachers wanted to quit their jobs because of him, but he is the most successful man besides my mom in my entire family right now he's living it up in long beach, thanks to my moms bad parenting and his dad never being in his life he is a vibrant popular successful person and an annoying older brother who I can't stand but treats me to restaurants occasionally


Exactly why I said mainly lol. Anything could happen be it the person themselves, the surroundings or family. I was a tyrant as a kid but am doing pretty good now. (Though it was mainly because my parents were alcoholics and I wanted to be the opposite...)
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My first--and only--marriage is my wife's second. She already had four children when we met, and we had two more, so we reared six. Our youngest just moved out this past week, on his way to college, so six kids later we've just hit empty nest status. Parenting is the most grueling, terrifying, and gloriously beautiful experience I've ever had, with marriage being a close second (hey, marriage only requires me to keep up with one person!). I wasn't ready, and don't see how any sane person ever could be. You just figure it out while remaining forever grateful to the folks who help you through. And let me tell you about my grandkids. . .! It's definitely been worth all the struggle and heartache, absolutely.
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I don't want any kids now but I love kids and will have some in the future. I would love to have 3, but if I want more than I will adopt.
Posted 8/4/14 , edited 8/4/14
Let's make some babies. ;)

Jokes.

If my boyfriend wants children, then I've got nothing against it.

I'll bear the pain of childbirth.
Posted 8/4/14

HuastecoOtaku wrote:

Such interesting responses !
I don't thnk I would make a good dad. I have a terrible temper and I'm very stubborn. Unfortunately my grandparents think I'm gay because I haven't had a baby yet.


Your grandparents sound like my mother.

"When are you going to get married?" She says everytime I'm over for dinner.
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I'd like to have children, but I really don't want to have children. From what my mother told me, childbirth is painful, and I'm too much of a wimp to find out if I can handle it. If I do have kids, they may end up being adopted. But either way, I will only have 2, and they will have to be close together in age.
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Kira0309 wrote:

I said the same thing once....then I turned 22....now all I want is kids.....I just have to find someone to make them with......


Great way to make most guys run away.

If a guy runs away cause a girl wants to have babies, he's not the right guy


x-Cellar_Door-x wrote:

I literally can't. It's one of the great embarrassments of My Life...

I know I've told you this before, but don't be embarrassed. There's, frankly, nothing you can do about it and there are so many ways you can parent in life through adoption or if you just wanted to be a role model to youth through a Big Brothers/Big Sisters type organization. You could also be a foster parent later in life. There are options to help fill that void for children.

As for me, I have 4 kids. They're 5, 3, and twin girls who are just over 2 weeks old. So yea, I did want kids & I have them now!
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I would want to have kids,but 3 is the max. Though not anytime soon, because I want to live my life before I decide to settle down and start a family.


This but in a nut shell I don't want to "live life" I guess I grew up fast and hard so "clubing and sleeping with a new person each weekend" did really get my rocks off for me. I guess I am a old soul like that but 3 and taking one in is my goal.
Posted 8/4/14
I just want 2, a boy and a girl c:
Posted 8/4/14

mdmrn wrote:


justanotherguy_2005 wrote:


Kira0309 wrote:

I said the same thing once....then I turned 22....now all I want is kids.....I just have to find someone to make them with......


Great way to make most guys run away.

If a guy runs away cause a girl wants to have babies, he's not the right guy


She never said she was looking for the right guy. Her statement makes it seem like just any guy will do as she does not mention raising them with him...only making them with him. Girls, not necessarily the one I quoted, can be crazy and just find and trap random guys. So by her statement any sane guy would run.
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MadameNoir wrote:

If my boyfriend wants children, then I've got nothing against it.

I'll bear the pain of childbirth.


Haha! Could not have said it better myself, exactly how I feel!
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