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Saving this up - what do you have to put up with
Posted 8/10/14
What personality trait or somethging in your partner/friend/parents/siblings etc., you have to put up with and deal with great tolerance to save the relationship?

Mine?

The INDECISIVENES.....


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Initiative.
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20 / M / Tennessee
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Jealousy and clingy...

Glad I broke it off
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Self centered, oblivious, and emotionally draining.


...And that was on a good day.
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x-Cellar_Door-x wrote:

Initiative.


As in, they keep anticipating your wishes and doing things without you having to ask them? It doesn't sound like that'd be difficult to put up with. I suppose it could be frustrating if you wanted to be able to actually ask them from time to time so that you feel they're listening to you rather than just "guessing". Although, if they were really good they'd be able to anticipate that too so when you do get a chance to ask something it might just feel like they're humouring you. Hmm, that person is annoying.

I'm not sure how to put my answer. I find that people often try to help me with things and like to offer suggestions for things that I could do but it's often advice that isn't suitable for the situation or that I'm quite aware of already. They are trying to help and acting with the best of intentions but on the other hand it's very frustrating and kind of insulting. Maybe I don't try hard enough to explain why the advice isn't helpful or just can't articulate it well enough. That said, I do often tell them to stop or simply try to ignore it and they never seem to get the message. Dealing with people is a pain.

That said, I have plenty of issues of my own. I'm the indecisive type (more often indifferent, I wouldn't mind going but I don't feel an overwhelming need to). I also tend to hide my feelings and put on a brave face so I feel bad when I'm annoyed at people acting as though I'm fine when I'm not (how should they know anyway)? Of course, I hide my feelings out of a desire to protect others from worrying about me but I can't tell them that and sometimes they worry because they think I'm keeping things from them. Then if I do tell people how I feel I get back to the "excessive and unhelpful attempts to help" thing. I'm not sure if I'm just entirely selfish or if I really do care about others. Dealing with people is a pain.

I might have gone off-topic here, not sure.
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20 / F / Australia
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Stubborness. I'm stubborn myself, but sometimes when others have a "I'm right, you're wrong" attitude, it bothers me, because I'm stubborn myself haha.
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26 / M / Houma
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Posted 8/10/14
Poor (or nonexistent) budgeting... there is always an excuse or flawed logic.
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Posted 8/10/14
noisiness
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Somewhere
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Posted 8/10/14

^this
Yeah this is definitely what I go through too.
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M / Baka Zone
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Posted 8/10/14 , edited 8/10/14
Annoying.
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Posted 8/10/14
Stubbornness, Wickedness, uh.. Annoyingness, Fearfulness, blames others, undependable..
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22 / M / the great canadia...
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Doesn't like Onions.
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102 / F / Southeastern US
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Ignorance.

I mean, you don't have to be the smartest person, but come on. Some common sense would be nice.
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21 / M / The Void
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Non-serious

For fuck sake, stop saying stupid shit!
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23 / M / Somewhere in rura...
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Posted 8/11/14
My father had money substituted for love, and so he is an unfeeling person who lacks social skills and has no sense of morality. He also is the financier for my college.
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