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Punishment for Masochists?
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Posted 8/17/14 , edited 8/17/14

This guy is turned on by anything remotely painful.
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Class 2 Masochist here.
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Posted 8/17/14

Atheyon wrote:


This guy is turned on by anything remotely painful.


Class III the Shiro class xD
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Class III Sadist here



heck, I used to be a Class IV Sadist when I was younger, thinking of gross nonsense like removing limbs
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Posted 8/18/14
Looking at that class system I'd probably say I might be somewhere around class III in the area of Masochism.

To be fair, when I looked at this thread's name, it reminded me of a femdom hentai manga I may have seen at some point.
Which kinda says something.
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Posted 8/18/14
Just don't do anything to them to punish them, if they enjoy pain/etc... depriving them of that would be punishment.
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Posted 8/18/14
HAHAHAHA


Look at my status, it answers the question.

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Posted 8/18/14 , edited 8/25/14
Masochism has nothing to do with the pain itself. It is a psychological issue. It can be a bit of a "dirty" topic, so I will try to be as technical about it as I can. I have had a lot of life experiences. I have known rape victims who later delved into some depraved behavior as an escape. I have known others whom managed to function perfectly normally. Such experiences gave rise to a desire - a need even - to study the topic of rape and sadomasochistic psychology at length. Here is the short, short version of what I know:

All people like to feel good about themselves. Ego is a HUGE driving force for humanity.

To a real masochist, being fawned over (even if the attention is negative) fulfills the desire to be useful and accepted. A masochist who submits to someone else feels a sense of security and belonging. They do not have to worry as much about what they do day to day since things are controlled and decided for them. The fact that another person would take the time - even to punish them - shows the other person's level of interest. This can make a masochist feel cared for and therefore important. The physical aspects of masochism are partially derived from this sense of belonging, partially due to association of physical pain or discomfort with pleasure as the two have been mixed in the past, and partially due to biology. Pain can release endorphins which result in a natural high, and certain painful sexual stimulation (such as say, a spanking) can sensitize the skin, cause swelling, bring nerve clusters closer to the surface of the skin which allows followup caresses to be felt more intensely.

True sadists are MESSED UP and should be avoided at all costs. Sadists derive pleasure from harming others. Bullies, rapists, and their ilk are true sadists. Generally, the true sadist has been abused or in some way feels that they do not have control over their own lives. By abusing others in turn, the sadist feels superior to his (or her) victim and therefore powerful. It is the POWER, not the sexual gratification which drives a true sadist. This can also have a biochemical component, since the adrenaline and endorphin rush can be literally addictive. Very few rehabilitate, even with therapy. Those with criminal behaviors are almost always repeat offenders.

Sexually, S&M PLAY is completely different. There are many, many, perfectly healthy couples who play in such a manner. For example, I knew a girl whom happened to love rough and uncomfortable positions because it required more, and more intense, stimulation to reach orgasm. Allowing a partner to tie one up can be very intimate and shows a tremendous level of trust. Again, spankings and such can sensitize the skin allowing the following kisses and caresses to be felt more intensely. Someone who both cares for his partner and has a good understanding of physiology can play his partner's nerves like a musical instrument, resulting in a very intense and pleasing experience. Play of this sort, while considered "kinky" by some, is based on a sense of caring and play, not on a psychological shortcoming that requires one to take extreme measures to feel fulfillment.

To answer the question originally asked: One punishes a masochist the same way as anyone else. A masochist does not simply derive pleasure from ALL pain. One may inflict pain or remove joy in order to punish a masochist, the same way as anyone else. The only trick is finding what that individual finds unpleasant. A masochist may feel that being punished is, in itself, a validation of his existence. Ignoring the masochist may be the appropriate punishment. Finding a torture that is found unbearable may be the punishment. It depends on the person - just like everybody else.

Of course this is the short, short version and is generalized. In reality, I despise people that label themselves foolishly. "Sub," "Dom," "Masochist," "sadist," "pacifist," "liberal," "conservative," etc. are ALL labels which should only be used by other people after the fact. Humans are not always simple creatures and people may have conflicting ideas even within themselves. Shoehorning oneself into a label is the ultimate sign of a lazy mind. One who attempts to fit into a label, rather than try various things for themselves, will always miss out on life.

Posted 8/18/14 , edited 8/18/14
That'd be a sadomasochist, junior.
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Posted 8/21/14
Steel chairs and reverse ddt's off the top rope.
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Posted 8/21/14
It seems they are already getting "punishment" by their own means...Those deep scars don't go away; Physical AND Emotional...Trust Me.
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Posted 8/23/14 , edited 8/23/14
Just refuse to "punish them" and treat them super gently
so they practically dont feel anything.
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Posted 8/23/14

Pean-p wrote:

Just refuse to "punish them" and treat them super gently
so they practically dont feel anything.


So, how would you punish them if they've done something wrong? Feeling nothing is the same as not being able teach them a lesson or them being neutral on a casual day.
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Posted 8/23/14
so does this mean that those responsible for the new CR UI may actually be considered sadomasochists?
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