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Post Reply Marry with Kids or Marry with Debt?
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Posted 9/2/14
Marry with debt, the kids may be jerks or something could be wrong with them, to many variables.
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....Marry with kids. i dont want to grow poor :L and spent years collecting money and paying it off.
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21 / M / The Netherlands
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Marry with Debt
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20 / M / Tennessee
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Neither
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neither. marriage is just a dumb idea in general to me, especially the idea of tying yourself down with someone else's problems out of love. ew.
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24 / M / the bay
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neither. solo yolo
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17 / F / Basketball Court
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Neither of those. My mom is dating someone and I don't like him so if the person I'm dating has kids, they most likely will hate me too.
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Posted 9/12/14
Aren't they basically the same thing?

It's the same thing to me.
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Posted 9/12/14

Jaejun613 wrote:


Child support, divorce fees, teen pregnancies show immaturity, lack of responsibility at a young age. No one should be expected to pay for someone's foolish short comings except the parents who failed to discipline you properly.

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I disagree with this to a great extent since child support and divorce fees are not always in control and you should get more context. Fun fact if a man gets raped by a women and a child is created from this rape he can be sued by his rapist for child support. Child support and divorce fees still apply to people who's spouses cheated on them. Teen pregnancies you views are a bit harsh but fine.
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24 / M / Scotland
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Most of that debt doesn't apply in Scotland but I'd gladly accept step kids.
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Background doesn't matter when it comes to sex.
Posted 9/13/14
i'd raise kids that are not my own

but if you owe a lot of money, that's okay too because unless they take you to jail, you can continue not paying your debt as far as i'm concerned.

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marry with kids, cuz the debt will keep growing and the interest will be accruing. You will be paying that for the rest of your life till you die lol. I mean yeah the kids might be a pain in the ass, but I would like to believe that after a few months of living together, everyone will get along and figure out a good situation.

fuck the debt! I view that as more restricting than the kids even though they are not my one, we can still possibly make our kids
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Hmm.. you know I fail to see the difference to be honest. I really do.... either way you are going to be in a sink hole for one reason or another. I mean with straight debt you have to deal with interest and stuff. Then with Spawn you have to take care of them and give a crap.

Wait I figured on one main difference, Spawn can accumulate even more debt for you. At least with marrying into debt I have a small amount of say and control over the person in question. If I marry into debt I can at least take away the credit cards from the person in question and help pay back that debt. That way the only way the debt grows is over the course of interest. Plus should the relationship go south and I need to get a divorce. I am pretty sure that only debt incurred while I was married will transfer to me. I would make sure that if I marry someone all their debts remain their debts and I am just lending a helping hand.

As where with spawn, you have to cloth them, feed them, shelter them. Well I guess you do not need to do that but you invite lots of problems if you do not. Plus with spawn you can incur new more crippling debt like school loans increased rent from needing more bedrooms and of course needing to buy more food.

So I personally would tell someone that I think that marriage requires a fresh start for both of us. So if I were to marry some female I would insist that both of us be debt free before it happens. However, if I am forced to choose one side or the other I would choose debt. You know because I hate kids.
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Posted 2/9/15 , edited 2/9/15

anti-freeze wrote:

Hmm.. you know I fail to see the difference to be honest. I really do.... either way you are going to be in a sink hole for one reason or another. I mean with straight debt you have to deal with interest and stuff. Then with Spawn you have to take care of them and give a crap.

Wait I figured on one main difference, Spawn can accumulate even more debt for you. At least with marrying into debt I have a small amount of say and control over the person in question. If I marry into debt I can at least take away the credit cards from the person in question and help pay back that debt. That way the only way the debt grows is over the course of interest. Plus should the relationship go south and I need to get a divorce. I am pretty sure that only debt incurred while I was married will transfer to me. I would make sure that if I marry someone all their debts remain their debts and I am just lending a helping hand.

As where with spawn, you have to cloth them, feed them, shelter them. Well I guess you do not need to do that but you invite lots of problems if you do not. Plus with spawn you can incur new more crippling debt like school loans increased rent from needing more bedrooms and of course needing to buy more food.

So I personally would tell someone that I think that marriage requires a fresh start for both of us. So if I were to marry some female I would insist that both of us be debt free before it happens. However, if I am forced to choose one side or the other I would choose debt. You know because I hate kids.


You fail to see the potential in the spawn. Let say after they grow up and you struggle and put their ass through college and they become a genius and create like a groundbreaking invention and made a shit ton of money. You are going to benefit tremendously from it. There are mad parents who live vicariously off their kids and offspring like the entire Kardashian family for example, not a single one of them have any talent whatsoever. So you have to think about the long term benefits as well that the spawn can provide and the debt fails to, if anything it increases over a long term period lol
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