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Would you ever date someone in order to get closer to their friend/relative?
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Posted 2/1/08
try not to be judgmental of others on this thread, I want to hear everyone's honest opinion.

You always see on TV and in movies people will date someone just as a way to get closer to their sibling or their best friend or something like that. I was wondering whether this really happens or if it's just TV drama.

So would you? or would you not? Explain please.
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it's kinda using someone who cares for you. so that's pretty...bee-itchy.
but it happens.
idk if i would though...
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what hoes.
if i ever met somebody who did that, i'd seriously like
slap them.
hard.
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FoWarD_it wrote:

it's kinda using someone who cares for you. so that's pretty...bee-itchy.
but it happens.
idk if i would though...


that is really bitchy. i mean this person really cares about u, yet ur using them 2 get 2 a person close to them. chances are they'll hate u 4 it, and u'll have nothing

serves u right if u do it
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Karma will get back at you ^^
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These are the kind of responses I was expecting. I thought it was more of a hollywood thing, but they usually have at least some sort of basis for that.

Has anyone ever seen a case of someone else doing that? or suspected it?
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That's wrong. It's sort of manipulative and cruel.
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n_n303 wrote:


Tagi-chan wrote:

These are the kind of responses I was expecting. I thought it was more of a hollywood thing, but they usually have at least some sort of basis for that.

Has anyone ever seen a case of someone else doing that? or suspected it?


yes, the retard in my grade 10th science class. He had a crush on her little sister, and the older sister was butt ugly, but he was nice to her and everything just so she can introduce her to the little sis. what a fucktart i warned him, what happened was the older sis was too scared to introduce him to her sister because she was afraid that he might fall in love with her because she knew she wasnt that pretty. So at the end she ended up asking him out and he stupidly said yes. thats when i came in and busted his ass, told that older sister and dragged him out of that class before she beat the shit out of him


Just as the twat deserved.
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n_n303 wrote:


Tagi-chan wrote:

These are the kind of responses I was expecting. I thought it was more of a hollywood thing, but they usually have at least some sort of basis for that.

Has anyone ever seen a case of someone else doing that? or suspected it?


yes, the retard in my grade 10th science class. He had a crush on her little sister, and the older sister was butt ugly, but he was nice to her and everything just so she can introduce her to the little sis. what a fucktart i warned him, what happened was the older sis was too scared to introduce him to her sister because she was afraid that he might fall in love with her because she knew she wasnt that pretty. So at the end she ended up asking him out and he stupidly said yes. thats when i came in and busted his ass, told that older sister and dragged him out of that class before she beat the shit out of him


sheesh, what a moron. You were too merciful on him.
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Someone watching True Tears?...lol

Would I date someone to get closer to another? Not likely, since dating that person would make it hard to date the one you actually like.

and n_n303, it isn't always so easy to put yourself on the line like that talking to you one you care about
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no need for all this other crap.... YES
Posted 2/1/08
hmmm in this situation no, i wouldn't date someone i didn't like to get with someone that they knew that i do like.

However though i will probably be friends with someone, just to get the benefits from them, such as like being friends with a good doctor, to avoid paying alot of money. Of course i rarely do that, but if i need to then i will do it.
And i could also be friends with them first, but the other things that goes with them are extra goodies for me.

but most of the time, that isnt my reason to befriend someone
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hawtdawggy wrote:

hmmm in this situation no, i wouldn't date someone i didn't like to get with someone that they knew that i do like.

However though i will probably be friends with someone, just to get the benefits from them, such as like being friends with a good doctor, to avoid paying alot of money. Of course i rarely do that, but if i need to then i will do it.
And i could also be friends with them first, but the other things that goes with them are extra goodies for me.

but most of the time, that isnt my reason to befriend someone


well sometimes that kind of view can be seen as networking. I mean a lot of times kids in school try to befriend the smart kids of the class so they can get help with their work an such.
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30 / M / canada..........ehh
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Posted 2/1/08
naahhhh, thats kind of a asshole thign to do, but would be someones friend just to get closer to someone they know better
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Posted 2/1/08
that scenario be counter productive. therefore, no.


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