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Is there such thing as meant for one another ?
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Posted 9/7/14

GayAsianBoy wrote:

I don't really have that kind of mentality/belief.

I don't want to go into details, because I feel like I ramble a lot. But the reason I don't believe in the "there is one person for you/other half" is because I think polyamorous relationships are just as legitimate as monogamous relationships.

I'm a flexible person, I don't mind either one. I wouldn't be against it if my partner says he's in love with another person too.


This guy. He knows what's going on.

Also? Yes. It's fated. Predestined. Meant to be. This moment in time is all those things. As I close into you, my lovely little morsel, and say....

"Crap. They didn't give me enough curry sauce with my chicken and rice."
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I do believe there is someone meant for everyone but yeah.... You can have a child whom they raise and care for, living to that devotion of family love. But this is about romantic love so in the end, its different for everyone. You can have two people you see that is your significant other(s). There are some people who like living alone. Like the company of animals or find that their significant is just someone to have around. You can be with someone you whole live as well. It all goes down to you and how you are with that person.
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Posted 9/8/14

Phersu wrote:


GayAsianBoy wrote:

I don't really have that kind of mentality/belief.

I don't want to go into details, because I feel like I ramble a lot. But the reason I don't believe in the "there is one person for you/other half" is because I think polyamorous relationships are just as legitimate as monogamous relationships.

I'm a flexible person, I don't mind either one. I wouldn't be against it if my partner says he's in love with another person too.


This guy. He knows what's going on.

Also? Yes. It's fated. Predestined. Meant to be. This moment in time is all those things. As I close into you, my lovely little morsel, and say....

"Crap. They didn't give me enough curry sauce with my chicken and rice."


That last sentence though. You have won the internet today, sir.
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Posted 9/8/14
Short answer: No
Long answer: No, there isn't

Some people get along with each other better than others, and may be a "perfect match", but there are 7 billion other people and many of them could also be a "perfect match". There is no such thing as a predetermined destiny so if you find "the one" be happy, but if it doesn't work out don't let it get you down because there are plenty more "the one's" if you keep looking.
Posted 9/12/14
Oh whyyyy .
Posted 9/12/14
I think a handful of people can be the one. Let's say your significant other is seemingly perfect - say a 99.0% your ideal partner. Say you were with said person for half a decade. Would you throw away that rather great person because someone that is 99.1% your ideal partner you imagined came along?


I know when people throw numbers in the conversation about soul mates things get strange, but --- if you absolutely need to find the absolute one - you'll probably be looking for the rest of your life. Settling down with 0.990 is 0.010 off of 1.0! Round up!

To put it without numbers, if you accept another's flaws instead of just tolerate them then they are as much "the one" as some robot "the one." Settling is only bad when someone isn't even close to "1.0"! Pick fundamental traits - and don't compromise on those. If you're into kind people (hopefully you are) - only seek a kind person, ect. Those core things should take you to at least 0.89!

Good luck on your quest for the 1.0 (+/-.05 or wherever you set your error)
Posted 9/12/14
♬ You're one in a million, You're once in a lifetime, You made me discover one of the stars above us ♬... sorry had to heh someone mentioned one in a million and made me think if Miss Congeniality :p anywhos ^^ yes I believe in meant for each other c: again my opinion, my view :p
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Posted 9/12/14
I hope there is, namely because I have lived far too long to enjoy the prospect of spending another 40-60 years being the person who is separate from the population. I say all that as someone who dislikes the very concept of belief, as it leads humanity into so many evil and idiotic situations.
Posted 9/13/14
Is there a Santa Claus? He delivers you happiness and relationships.

Obviously you have to conquer and build it yourself. Help not being negligible.
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Posted 9/13/14
I know I'm too young to know anything like that, but I don't think there's such thing as "meant for one another". They aren't "the one" before you meet them, instead they become "the one" the more you get to know each other. Or at least, that's what I choose to believe.
Posted 9/13/14
lock them up in the basement
Posted 9/13/14
We live on a planet with 7 billion people. You're telling me, there's not one single person in the planet who'd be my wife? Come on now, this isn't magic, this is statistics I am talking about.

In other words, I don't believe in some divine being and fate and all that. I believe....in CHANCE!


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Posted 9/13/14
Sure why not.
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Posted 9/13/14
I do believe that everyone has a soulmate out there.
Posted 9/13/14
of course (:
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