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Why do guys or girl cheat? or lie over small things?
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Posted 9/7/14
depends on the person.
but off hand id say, becuase they feel the relationship is lacking, either emtional or physical.

if some one cheats, there is ususal been a problem for a long time. cheating is step 500.
they are disatisfiyed with the relationship.

well, my .02
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I believe it's disrespect.
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Posted 9/7/14 , edited 9/7/14
Those are two very different things, but they often have a common theme, Honestly it has a great deal to do with being immature. When a man lies over small things either due to the truth being inconvenient or the lie promising some benefit they are choosing the easy and quick path which is not the path of the man but the the path traveled by a boy who feels entitled to more than he deserves. He is simply immature and until he grows up are faces some true challenges he will continue to feel entitled to do as he pleases taking the easy road and never Truly giving a second thought to who he hurts along the way.
As for why he would cheat its really very similar, again he feels he can do as he pleases when he pleases, hes inexperienced, and immature.
I am not telling you he is a bad person, nor am i saying that this person shouldn't be forgiven or even given another chance , i do not know their heart. However they will not truly realize the severity of their actions until they grow up an mature into a man that chooses the right path even when its hard or inconvenient with big things and small things, because that's what true men do, we face our challenges head on an we work for what we want.

I know this is geared towards the "guys" part of your question only but seeing as I am a male I can't even pretend to know why it is women do the same thing, it could be the same or similar reasons or something entirely different. I don't know for certain.
Posted 9/7/14

RedExodus wrote:


karyuikari wrote:


AiYumega wrote:

Lying is human nature.


One of my favorite quotes is from the show House, M.D. , "Everybody lies."


It's not just humans, insects and even single cellular organisms lie. I think it's safe to say that lying is everywhere.


Stop lying human!
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URGES, gotta control them before they get control over you.
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Lack of impulse control. Lack of empathy for the partner. Failure to move forward in a relationship. Failure to satisfy urges. I'm really abysmal for relationship advice, my college career has been a three year dry spell. >.<
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When Carnal desire takes over Reason...
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I'm really not sure why people cheat.. My girlfriend.. Well, my Ex cheated on me. It absolutely crushed me and to be honest it really broke me emotionally. I was genuinely in love with her, but that's how it goes at the end of the day.
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Human nature.
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Girls/guys cheating is more like them giving in to temptation. The VERY FIRST TIME is unintentional, but after that it just becomes too easy. Kind of like being addicted to something. People lie because well, all humans lie, even about very small things.

I've been cheated on, and yes it sucks. Sometimes asking your significant other straight up would get you an answer, but be careful because they may overreact and if they have a history of violence they may lash out....personal experience...and trust me it sucks >.<
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laviriot13 wrote:

Girls/guys cheating is more like them giving in to temptation. The VERY FIRST TIME is unintentional, but after that it just becomes too easy. Kind of like being addicted to something. People lie because well, all humans lie, even about very small things.

I've been cheated on, and yes it sucks. Sometimes asking your significant other straight up would get you an answer, but be careful because they may overreact and if they have a history of violence they may lash out....personal experience...and trust me it sucks >.<


Eh, you can never say first time to be unintentional, it's every time intentional but if you give into temptation it means you don't care about your partner enough to control yourself. And doing it drunk is just making an excuse to cheat. If you truly love someone, you won't cheat on him/her.

And why would you be in a relationship with a person where you need to be afraid of violence? That is fucked up from the start and can't ever end up well. Sooner or later he will have a bad day.
Posted 9/9/14 , edited 9/9/14
I asked my older sister and she said the following -

"People cheat not because they disrespect their significant other but because they disrespect themselves."


I liked her response.
Posted 9/9/14
what would cause me to cheat is... if someone who is extremely good looking initiate something with me. or if I don't feel satisfied in the bed room.

but if that happens to me, I would have the courtesy to break it off straight away with current partner as i'm not good at hiding things or living with a lie/guilt.

having said that, i'm a naturally faithful person. once i'm in love with somebody, I don't find anybody else attractive. I also don't expect anyone to have the same standard as me, because I understand that humans are not monogamous by nature.

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Fyk0 wrote:


laviriot13 wrote:

Girls/guys cheating is more like them giving in to temptation. The VERY FIRST TIME is unintentional, but after that it just becomes too easy. Kind of like being addicted to something. People lie because well, all humans lie, even about very small things.

I've been cheated on, and yes it sucks. Sometimes asking your significant other straight up would get you an answer, but be careful because they may overreact and if they have a history of violence they may lash out....personal experience...and trust me it sucks >.<


Eh, you can never say first time to be unintentional, it's every time intentional but if you give into temptation it means you don't care about your partner enough to control yourself. And doing it drunk is just making an excuse to cheat. If you truly love someone, you won't cheat on him/her.

And why would you be in a relationship with a person where you need to be afraid of violence? That is fucked up from the start and can't ever end up well. Sooner or later he will have a bad day.


there are times when you don't know the person is violent until it happens...
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laviriot13 wrote:

there are times when you don't know the person is violent until it happens...

Yes, that is true. When you mentioned it I thought it was known already
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