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Why do guys or girl cheat? or lie over small things?
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Posted 9/9/14
I don't know why people cheat.. if they want out of the relationship or to try something new, or to salvage the relationship, the time to talk is before they go out and stray, not after. Personally, I expect someone who cheats to do it again and perhaps to not even tell me all the times that they do, so I don't put up with it. A friend of mine who basically signed her life away to be a doormat put up with the cheating and subsequent demands of her bf and he finally brought home a venereal disease, which she caught, so now when she dates she has a lifetime to look forward to explaining why she has this disease and looking for someone else who is either willing to put up with the risk, catch it for her, or have the same thing to begin with. Not good options.
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Because lies are happiness.
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We cheat because it is in our nature to spread our offspring just like most of nature. Why do we lie over small things? It makes people happy and we rather have them happy than pissed off. We tell people what they want to hear, not what is true. Does this dress make me look fat? No. Does size matter? No. How was my cooking? Delicious.
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Posted 9/9/14 , edited 9/9/14
Lying: I think is more a 'case-by- case' type of thing as sometimes they're used to try to protect the other person or in some cases it can be related to something the lying party isn't comfortable with revealing. This particular area is a grey zone for me as I see the potential good in lying alongside the harm.

Cheating: The person that does it would have to be self-centered, have no libido control, and not have as much love/care for the relationship as thought. Unfortunately traits like 'loyalty' and 'devotion' aren't looked for thus you get more and more cheaters, since relationships are shifting more and more towards convenience (where the 'bored with relationship' or 'something missing in the relationship' concepts fall).
Posted 9/9/14
Because people suck.
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26 / M / Upper Darby,PA
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It's mostly because us guys don't always know what we have till we fuck up ,but in some cases the same can be said for women as well. As far as the lies goes everyone lies it can't be helped it what we as humans do from the the simple harmless white to the the massive cover up lie
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36 / M / Denver
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Society isn't so much about being a developed person, it's about not breaking the law and doing what society tells you to do. Really developing yourself is not required to succeed in any of these systems.

In other words, being a person of integrity, respect, or insight is rare - why would you expect them to be different in relationships? Anybody who doesn't spend that time with themselves is dysfunctional from the beginning, much less with another person.
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Posted 9/9/14
Cheating is fun. But then you gotta lie about it or you get caught and it sucks.
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Posted 9/9/14 , edited 9/9/14

karyuikari wrote:


AiYumega wrote:

Lying is human nature.


One of my favorite quotes is from the show House, M.D. , "Everybody lies."


One of my favorite song is by Jason Walker titled "Everybody Lies."
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Posted 9/10/14 , edited 9/10/14
When you say "over small things" you are implying it's an over-reaction.
and I think that would be your answer.

But I like to lie over small things, the smaller the better.
I like how people that know me personally accept that they don't know if I'm telling the truth or not but feel safe around me anyway.
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23 / M / Kaguya's Panties
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Posted 9/10/14
Because they're afraid someone will laugh at their small penis or breasts.
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18 / M / seattle (Rain city)
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Posted 9/10/14 , edited 9/14/14
i asked my dog if he pee-ed on the rug cause he looked suspicious but he said no, but later on i found that he did pee on the rug i think he was scared of having to have time out in his crate
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20 / M / England.
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Posted 9/10/14 , edited 9/10/14
because humans are fucking idiots.
Posted 9/12/14

Why do we say 'why' when we dont really want to know why?
Why do we spend time thinking about something n yet not think anything at all about things that really matter?
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22 / M / Chicago, IL
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Posted 9/12/14 , edited 9/12/14
Depends.. I sometimes lie just to get out of risk or stupid decisions. I don't do cheats. But I do break ups if this or that girl is too much for me to handle.
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