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Why do guys or girl cheat? or lie over small things?
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Posted 9/12/14
Only time I'd see myself lying which i try really hard not too Is to avoid a major confrontation. I can admit fault and mistakes no problem,never have lied to hide those. I just lie to avoid some conversation or event i don't feel like having or happening.

I have never cheated but that's because if i feel like i myself am getting this need or urge to be with someone else i end it with whoever i am with at that time. I don't wait or play game's i end it and move on until i find the one.
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lol depends on the person.

(i have not cheated on anyone) But i tend to get bored of people sexually and emotionally after a short period lol
so i tend to break up with people pretty fast (unless you are really special and you really flip my ecchi switch)

i guess some people just cant be bothered with only being with one person
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Well then. I was going to assume this was just about people lying and cheating just in nature and not in relationships.

The reason why someone would cheat and do that is because depending on their relationship and how that person is. Sometimes they do it because they are scared of their reaction. They don't want to quit the relationship but feel unhappy being in it. The list goes on. I think you gotta understand the person or at least try to on why they would do that. Its always best to talk to your significant other so it won't happen again or if you two want to learn in the future if you break up and go back to being a relationship.
Posted 9/13/14
Fun. Life is short. Desires, impulses.
Posted 9/13/14
no such thing
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I think lying has just become embedded into human nature. Babies cry at a very young age and check to see if there parent is looking. So I think people lie over small things because they are used to that being in their nature which kinds of falls in the category of cheating. It's mainly lust that drives people to cheating, out of the 3 Girlfriends I've had, they all cheated on me and they never really told me a reason why. I'm not 100% sure of another reason to why people cheat other than lust, they see someone or something they want and they get it, that's it.
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It's easy to make all cheaters look bad if you've never been in their shoes. But, trust me, it's much harder to think they are 100% evil if you step into their minds and try to understand why. Of course, I am not encouraging rampant cheating. I am just saying people each have their reasons for doing something. Like doing drugs, you really need to just do it once to understand where the other side is coming from. I have friends who hated the idea of cheaters and thought they all deserved to he tortured until they were thrust into a situation in which they cheated. It turned them upside down and made them think about why they did it and challenged their beliefs and made them more flexible, more open minded. Regardless of how terribly I thought they acted, I was still there for them and they could come to me to talk and share burdens. When your beliefs are truly challenged, you begin to realize that people are often too rigid and narrow in their beliefs.

Undoubtedly, there are lots of people in faithful relationships who are cruel to their significant others, who pretend to care when they actually don't.

Sometimes, situations are just thrust upon you and the circumstances (and your state of mind) make it easy for you to do certain things. Later, you think back and want to hit yourself. Sometimes, you look back and you feel no guilt. Each case is different and people have various ways of justifying what they do.

People are a product of circumstance. Their choices might be bad or good or in between, but the people themselves cannot usually be classified as such simply based on their outward actions.
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i dont know.....i dont understand it at all

what do you even do when you happen upon a message and your significant other is telling the other person they want to sleep with them?
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allierose wrote:

i dont know.....i dont understand it at all

what do you even do when you happen upon a message and your significant other is telling the other person they want to sleep with them?


Call me for some revenge.
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MrChamploo wrote:


allierose wrote:

i dont know.....i dont understand it at all

what do you even do when you happen upon a message and your significant other is telling the other person they want to sleep with them?


Call me for some revenge.


o_o n-no...thats okay

he'll come home eventually and he can explain himself and probably leave...
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No idea, but future word of advice. If you feel like you can't trust your significant other you might not be in a healthy relationship. One of my exes I could never trust, but I could never pinpoint the reason (it was instincts I guess). Turns out she was cheating on me. I have had other relationships since, but only with women that I can feel like I can trust, if I can't histoy has taught me that thereis probably something wrong
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I never really understood cheating. If you are done with someone dump them before seeing other people. If you don't want to be in a committed relationship, stay single and fool around with any other single you want, there is nothing wrong with that. I don't understand people who get in committed relationships and cheat time and time again, why bother?
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Posted 9/13/14

allierose wrote:


MrChamploo wrote:


allierose wrote:

i dont know.....i dont understand it at all

what do you even do when you happen upon a message and your significant other is telling the other person they want to sleep with them?


Call me for some revenge.


o_o n-no...thats okay

he'll come home eventually and he can explain himself and probably leave...


Suit yourself. Prepare yourself.
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Posted 9/13/14

MrChamploo wrote:


allierose wrote:


MrChamploo wrote:


allierose wrote:

i dont know.....i dont understand it at all

what do you even do when you happen upon a message and your significant other is telling the other person they want to sleep with them?


Call me for some revenge.


o_o n-no...thats okay

he'll come home eventually and he can explain himself and probably leave...


Suit yourself. Prepare yourself.


...for?
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26 / M / Chicago,IL
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Posted 9/13/14

allierose wrote:


MrChamploo wrote:


allierose wrote:


MrChamploo wrote:


allierose wrote:

i dont know.....i dont understand it at all

what do you even do when you happen upon a message and your significant other is telling the other person they want to sleep with them?


Call me for some revenge.


o_o n-no...thats okay

he'll come home eventually and he can explain himself and probably leave...


Suit yourself. Prepare yourself.


...for?


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