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Girl troubles
Posted 9/14/14 , edited 9/14/14

PeripheralVisionary wrote:

If you ever need confidence, watch 5 Centimeters per Second. Remember, not confessing to her will have you end up like that dude at the end.

Still, PeripheralVisionary speaks mostly of the truth. Just take the leap. If nothing comes from it - imagine her in another guy's arms in a few weeks. If it hurts then you shouldn't pretend to be her friend.
Posted 9/14/14 , edited 9/14/14
If you are good friends you should just ask her if you two have a chance at dating. Tell her you are interested in getting together. Here it is : If she says she just wants to be friends, move on. there are soooo many other great fun interesting girls out in the world. Don't sell yourself short. "Live, Love and Laugh." as they say..
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Posted 9/14/14 , edited 9/14/14

I think if you confess your feelings you should do so with the expectation that it's to get it off your chest and having it go nowhere (aside from possibly deepening the friendship). And if you don't think you can do it without it coming across with some bitterness or expectation that she'll dump her current boyfriend in response, then you're probably better off not doing it right now.

That said, I think you've received quite a bit of thoughtful advice here, and I'm going to close the thread because individual personal help/advice threads aren't allowed in the discussion forums. If you are still seeking additional advice, please post in The General Help/Advice Thread
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