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Post Reply Is there a family member you don't love but also don't hate as well?
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25 / F / New Jersey, USA
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Posted 9/15/14
Let me know if a thread like this one exist or not.
Thanks a bunches.


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Bonus Questions:

1) Do you have that one family member you love more than everyone else in your family?

2) How well do you get along with your parents?

3) Do you hate your family yet envy your friend's family?

Enjoy!!!
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I don't hate my family, there are times I just don't particularly get along with them. And yes sometimes I do envy my friend's family, but then I can't help but love my family even more.
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zero1200 wrote:

I don't hate my family, there are times I just don't particularly get along with them. And yes sometimes I do envy my friend's family, but then I can't help but love my family even more.


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Posted 9/15/14
1) my Grandma and my grandpa (when he was alive RIP) they are my parents as they raised me until I was 12 c:
2) My mom- mean never got along and was never there growing up and decided to get remarried to a douche so I moved away at 15..... My real "dad" was never around in and out of jail and they divorced when I was really young.
3) yes I hate my family as they are full of liars and judgmental a**holes, just drama, drama, drama, that is one of the reasons I moved 3 hours away. I envy my friends families yes as they were fortunate to have a loving caring family unlike mine.
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i don't love or hate pretty much everyone outside of my immediate family. i don't know them very well..

i love my mom more than anyone else in my family

my parents are both disappointed in me because i'm a failure

my dad resents me because i'm a girl. my mom said that she wishes i was never born because she didn't think that hard about having kids but she loves me dearly regardless of the fact that she didn't give it much thought. basically my family doesn't love me but somehow they love me or something i don't fucking know

i don't necessarily "hate" my family, but i'm envious of the families that are so close and go on trips together and get along amazingly.
Posted 9/15/14

My late father. He was abusive to both me, my younger and especially my older half-sister, and my mother (whom she finally divorced). He was an alcoholic and a womanizing cheater, and after a certain point, he washed his hands of us and we never saw him, then when I was 14 I found out he passed on. Apparently he was raking leaves into a ditch to burn them and he got burned up instead. It was a closed casket ceremony. Why does it seem like everyone comes out of the woodwork to someone's funeral but they never had anything to do with them in life? I'll never understand that.. My younger sister doesn't remember him , but I've made my peace with him...after all he was my parent and I wouldn't be here if he hadn't existed and he wasn't perfect but he was my father. Its complicated

Who do I love more than anyone in my family? My mother. Like my father I wouldn't be here if it weren't for her, and she alone raised us, my sisters and I. She's a wonderful person and I don't like words could do her justice.

I had a friend I envied because she got to go on distant trips to see relatives, and I recall as a little girl I wanted to go with her, but couldn't.
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Yeah, all my EXTRA family in Emporia. I don't really like their get togethers. They are SO boring. But, I don't hate any of my family members except my despicable aunt. My favorite family member is my cousin. He is an avid gamer and he "likes" anime. I put it in quotes because all he watches is Naruto and One Piece. We've been close since we were babies, so he is by far my favorite family member. My parents are awesome. Every once in a while, my mom will watch anime with me (only dubs for her) so that automatically shoots her up to the awesome parent list. My dad pays sports games with me from time to time (I even got him to play Little Big Planet 1 and 2) so my parents are awesome.
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Umm probably my father and my grandma. They dont really give me the emotional support I need. My grandmother is pretty biased and if I say something that goes against what she thinks, she makes me feel like i'm stupid and I dont know what i'm talking about. I probably love my mom the most cause shes the only one who tries to understand what i'm feeling. I dont get along much with my parents overall, I cant really tell them what I'm feeling because they wont understand it.I dont hate my family I just wish my family could be more open to my opinions on things and give me more emotional support.
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Posted 9/15/14 , edited 9/15/14
Just because someone is related by blood, doesn't make them family.

I don't really hate any of my own family members. I hate the family members of people I know though.

My parents have their own way of doing things, as do I, so I can't "hate" them when we disagree on certain matters.
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A family member I don't like nor dislike... Hmm. There isn't any in my family. It's black or white for me.

1. The one family member I adore and love above all others is my granma.
2. I've always had a single mother and we are as different as night and day. Sometimes we get along, other times, not so much.
3. I prefer my family becase they are easy going and humorous. I look at my friend's family and think, "Damn, do they have a stick shoved up their asses or what?" I like my family just the way they are.
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24 / M / Iowa >.>
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my father (when he was still alive) he was an ass at times and even hated me liking anime/manga (hell that might be why I like it so much) but he's not around anymore so I can now enjoy it anytime I want
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The only people I love in my family are my grandparents, because they're awesome.

My parents kinda suck. My mom and dad's choices have fucked me over a lot, and I would definitely argue that because of it, the chances that I would be successful are lower than others. Lucky for me though, I turned out to be extremely intelligent. My mom is honestly a failure, unintelligent, and can be a bitch. And I haven't seen my dad in a few years. But I don't hate them, just can't say I love them.

My brothers are stupid, completely unmotivated, useless, rude, annoying, even more selfish than I, a little crazy, have anger issues, and everything else. Seriously like they are awful brothers to have. I don't like my brothers, and I don't hate them either, but I don't give many fucks about them. If someone talked to me and told me he wanted to kick my brother's ass, I would probably let him, depending on the person and the situation.

My family's pretty fucked up, but I don't hate them, as I can't say I really hate anybody. I don't really like anybody besides my grandparents though and maybe a cousin.
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24 / F / Johnstown, PA, USA
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Posted 9/15/14
Yes, I have many relatives that I hardly know.

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1) Yes. My mother. An explanation isn't necessary, I believe.
2) I get along with my mom and stepdad pretty well. I'm awkward around my paternity, though. I'd rather not associate with him. Family drama. His personality can be summed up with "selfish, petty, and greedy."
3) No.
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23 / M / Texas
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Posted 9/15/14
Pretty much every one outside my initial family, like those who i never met or hardly ever see.
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Posted 9/15/14 , edited 9/15/14
So a family member I feel neutral about then? Yeah I guess there are some, mainly just cousins I barely know.
1. Yes, it would be my mom.
2. My dad died when I was still a baby and my mom never remarried. So as for my dad I can't say, but I get along great with my mom.I also get along great with the other members of my family. However there are times I may not get along with a family member, but they are still my family and butting heads is normal.
3.No.
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