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Post Reply Is there a family member you don't love but also don't hate as well?
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qualeshia3 wrote:


ImpureThoughts wrote:

Just because someone is related by blood, doesn't make them family.

I don't really hate any of my own family members. I hate the family members of people I know though.

My parents have their own way of doing things, as do I, so I can't "hate" them when we disagree on certain matters.



Interesting comment. How do you define the word family?


That's a tough one since I'd imagine everyone has a different definition of what a family should be. To me, a family member is someone you can rely on in times of need, and accepts you for who you are, the good with the bad.
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Good definition.
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My kids... blood sucking, dream destroying, money using leeches. I can't wait til they are all 18 and start moving out.
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My kids... blood sucking, dream destroying, money using leeches. I can't wait til they are all 18 and start moving out.


Ouch.
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madmejis wrote:

My kids... blood sucking, dream destroying, money using leeches. I can't wait til they are all 18 and start moving out.


That's kind of fucked up.
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I think it depends on up to a certain level with family such?

Sadly.... I don't get along well with most of the women in family and on both sides. I wish I did. But my mother is.... somewhat abusive, my sister doesn't really about anyone unless they give her things and attention only to her, and my grandmother is a bitter, selfish lady who is mean to everyone. I will always be there to help them but I would rather avoid them all in necessary.
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Sakura_Moon15 wrote:

I think it depends on up to a certain level with family such?

Sadly.... I don't get along well with most of the women in family and on both sides. I wish I did. But my mother is.... somewhat abusive, my sister doesn't really about anyone unless they give her things and attention only to her, and my grandmother is a bitter, selfish lady who is mean to everyone. I will always be there to help them but I would rather avoid them all in necessary.


What about the men in your family?
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My late father. He was abusive to both me, my younger and especially my older half-sister, and my mother (whom she finally divorced). He was an alcoholic and a womanizing cheater, and after a certain point, he washed his hands of us and we never saw him, then when I was 14 I found out he passed on. Apparently he was raking leaves into a ditch to burn them and he got burned up instead. It was a closed casket ceremony. Why does it seem like everyone comes out of the woodwork to someone's funeral but they never had anything to do with them in life? I'll never understand that.. My younger sister doesn't remember him , but I've made my peace with him...after all he was my parent and I wouldn't be here if he hadn't existed and he wasn't perfect but he was my father. Its complicated

Who do I love more than anyone in my family? My mother. Like my father I wouldn't be here if it weren't for her, and she alone raised us, my sisters and I. She's a wonderful person and I don't like words could do her justice.

I had a friend I envied because she got to go on distant trips to see relatives, and I recall as a little girl I wanted to go with her, but couldn't.


"Apparently he was raking leaves into a ditch to burn them and he got burned up instead"

Do you mean "leafs"
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My mom was abusive and my dad worked all day and didn't care. My older siblings wasted my dads money until the economy hit. Now that he's in debt they scattered away to our relatives for money, while I, the youngest, am the only one that works for the things I have.

1) Do you have that one family member you love more than everyone else in your family? My grandpa, but he passed on. He was always happy no matter what the situation, the type that gave you good vibes every time you talked to him.

2) How well do you get along with your parents? Not at all, they can go kick rocks. They aren't the type of people you want your kids to be with.

3) Do you hate your family yet envy your friend's family? I envy all my friends parents. They have no idea how lucky they are and how much they take for granted.
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Main question: No.
Bonus Question 1: No.
Bonus Question 2: We get along alright, although the whole time I'm cursing them in my mind.
Bonus Question 3: I do despise my whole family, and I don't have any friends.
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You mean a family member we feel indifferent towards?
Yes. The only family I care about are my sisters and my mother.
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Everyone in my family except for my parents
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I don't hate anyone or feel neutral towards anyone in my family. I love my mom and grandma the most...my brothers and sister...they all have flaws like myself but I care for them, if something happens to any of them, no matter how much we fight, I would be so sad.

However, there is one I don't consider part of my family and I don't care for him...the man I used to call 'dad' and my stepfather...I don't hate them but I don't love them...I just don't care for them.
Posted 9/16/14
that's me. I neither like or dislike my family members; I just don't feel connected to any of them (including my parents).



Posted 9/16/14
The only person in my family I feel a connection to is my little sister.
Shes practically my daughter and I do treat her as such sometimes.
My parents they're pretty cool though kinda fucking retarded at times and I don't see my friends families all too much they don't care about their families so they don't even bother showing them to me....
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