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Posted 9/18/14

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My wifey is shy. Sometimes the things I say makes her blush. She has stage fright and talking to people in person. I am trying to help her overcome it. It is a slow and challenging process.


I think having a girlfriend/significant other like that would be fun, slowly bringing her out her shell and making her blush a lot.
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained. any fear you have is irrational, its not like she is gonna pull a knife on you. the trick is charm, be charming (in a very subtle and natural way) and you will likely exchange kind words, the first step. just remember, she isnt gonna flip a tit if you says "whats happening?" with a smile. nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Posted 9/18/14
She is fine talking to people over the Internet but when it comes to talking to people face to face, she gets anxiety attacks. My wish for her is to overcome it since it would really benefit her and her well being not me. I care about her very much, I intend to keep on trying. [sigh]
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badasspink wrote:

She is fine talking to people over the Internet but when it comes to talking to people face to face, she gets anxiety attacks. My wish for her is to overcome it since it would really benefit her and her well being not me. I care about her very much, I intend to keep on trying. [sigh]



That response was so cute.....
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You sit next to this girl in one of your college classes occasionally. She's attractive, she's cute, she's beautiful.....basically, seeing her makes your heart beat like a rabbit's and your stomach feels like you swallowed butterflies. What do you do?

Nothing.

You want to talk to her so bad it hurts, but you're too afraid, too cowardly, too shy to do anything. Oh, how you pine to do so, but it is as if a wall is put in front of you every time you want to, every time the chance appears. A wall of fear and self-loathing. So, finally, you force yourself to realize that this affection, this crush, this infatuation.....will be unrequited and focus on anything but it.

But it's still there. Perhaps not the feelings of longing, but the fear, and the self loathing for being too shy. Right in the back of your mind, scratching at the walls.

This is being painfully shy.



Have you been stalking me Phersu!? That explains my life right now Oh my goodness I'm painfully shy...sigh
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_0King0_ wrote:

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. any fear you have is irrational, its not like she is gonna pull a knife on you. the trick is charm, be charming (in a very subtle and natural way) and you will likely exchange kind words, the first step. just remember, she isnt gonna flip a tit if you says "whats happening?" with a smile. nothing ventured, nothing gained.


Eh, wait. Change 'girl' with punk rocker chick.

Now she might stab you.
Posted 9/18/14

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badasspink wrote:

She is fine talking to people over the Internet but when it comes to talking to people face to face, she gets anxiety attacks. My wish for her is to overcome it since it would really benefit her and her well being not me. I care about her very much, I intend to keep on trying. [sigh]



That response was so cute.....


I am mostly caring only because I find her brain super duper uber fascinating... wouldn't want to lose her/it, you know.
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Have you been stalking me Phersu!?


Yes. All the time. I watch you sleep. Stop touching yourself. It makes this relationship of ours awkward when you do.



badasspink wrote:

I am mostly caring only because I find her brain super duper uber fascinating... wouldn't want to lose her/it, you know.


That right there. I want to fall in love with a woman who I can say that about.
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Phersu wrote:


SockmyRock wrote:


Have you been stalking me Phersu!?


Yes. All the time. I watch you sleep. Stop touching yourself. It makes this relationship of ours awkward when you do.



I apologize Phersu I just.... I... just get lonely some nights...
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lol. well i doubt it, but hey, punk rocker chick likely means she will be atleast somewhat less stand-off-ish, and maybe less judgemental (not that it should matter to you, but if it makes you feel better). life is too short to let the opportunities pass you by bro, and know nothing scarring will come from a few hello's and exchanged words. i promise man.

and another trick, never let anyone make you feel small, if you ever get shot down, a wink and a smile back with a "thats okay", (and then be on your way) will bring any chick back down to your level as well as maintain your dignity.
Posted 9/18/14 , edited 9/18/14
making shy people squirm is fun
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Posted 9/18/14 , edited 10/5/14

SockmyRock wrote:


I apologize Phersu I just.... I... just get lonely some nights...





_0King0_ wrote:

lol. well i doubt it, but hey, punk rocker chick likely means she will be atleast somewhat less stand-off-ish, and maybe less judgemental (not that it should matter to you, but if it makes you feel better). life is too short to let the opportunities pass you by bro, and know nothing scarring will come from a few hello's and exchanged words. i promise man.

and another trick, never let anyone make you feel small, if you ever get shot down, a wink and a smile back with a "thats okay", (and then be on your way) will bring any chick back down to your level as well as maintain your dignity.


I can do it. I can do this. I can. I can. I CAN! RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

Posted 9/18/14

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I am mostly caring only because I find her brain super duper uber fascinating... wouldn't want to lose her/it, you know.


That right there. I want to fall in love with a woman who I can say that about.You will find her.

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Posted 9/18/14
FCKING RIGHT BRO!!! do it man!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted 9/18/14

_0King0_ wrote:

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. any fear you have is irrational, its not like she is gonna pull a knife on you. the trick is charm, be charming (in a very subtle and natural way) and you will likely exchange kind words, the first step. just remember, she isnt gonna flip a tit if you says "whats happening?" with a smile. nothing ventured, nothing gained.


You do make a very good point I should probably remember next time my painfully shy personality tries to shove me back to the wall.
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