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Painfully Shy
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Posted 9/18/14

badasspink wrote:

You will find her.



Hopefully.
Posted 9/18/14
She may not come quickly or be the first or second you come across. But she does exist and you will have her.
Posted 9/18/14 , edited 9/18/14
Yupp I am extremely shy in person I can't make eye contact especially when it's a cute guy I look away or look down :c If they happen to talk to me, not much comes out of my mouth I just nod or have one word replies.

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Posted 9/18/14

badasspink wrote:


Hopefully.
She may not come quickly or be the first or second you come across. But she does exist and you will have her.

That last part sounded ominous.


XXpoisonivyXX wrote:

Yupp I am extremely shy in person I can't make eye contact especially when it's a cute guy I look away or look down :c If they happen to talk to me, not much comes out of my mouth I just nod or have one word replies.



Awwwwh. So cute.
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I'm introverted, quiet, but I tend to be an actor in discussions. Well, until today in my religious studies class. I'm usually extremely deadpan, but at the term "Mormon" followed by "Christian Scientist" today, I busted out in uncontrollable laughter, to the point I had to think back to my days in foster care and bite my lip almost bloody to calm myself. I got a minor lecture about empathy afterward, though my professor did see the humor (look up the history of Mormonism and google Faith Healing if you wish to see why I couldn't keep a straight face).
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Not at all. I wouldn't find her first, swap her brain and force your love at first sight to happen. I am not God... [snickers]
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KP_Wrath wrote:

I'm introverted, quiet, but I tend to be an actor in discussions. Well, until today in my religious studies class. I'm usually extremely deadpan, but at the term "Mormon" followed by "Christian Scientist" today, I busted out in uncontrollable laughter, to the point I had to think back to my days in foster care and bite my lip almost bloody to calm myself. I got a minor lecture about empathy afterward, though my professor did see the humor (look up the history of Mormonism and google Faith Healing if you wish to see why I couldn't keep a straight face).


Empathy, eh? I wouldn't be surprised if a professor confronted me one day about (my lack of) that.


badasspink wrote:

Not at all. I wouldn't find her first, swap her brain and force your love at first sight to happen. I am not God... [snickers]


......Sounds legit.
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I wouldn't say shy but I do have social anxiety. Its hard to approach someone and I try to get myself to be around people. Or when I want to.

Towards your question on what I would I do: say hello. Even if its a quick hello, she could say hello back and seem to be nice.
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One way to overcome my shyness is to not over think, stay calm and natural. I sometimes takes a deep breath to loose my hesitation too. Sometimes my strategy works, sometimes it can be a big fail. But hey.. It's natural to be socially awkward. I just got to come out of my shell more.
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Got a crush Phersu? Wish you luck with that.

I've known painfully shy people. I was semi-shy for a long time, but not painfully so. I think I'm attracted to them because there's something very sweet about someone who is almost afraid to ask for something good to happen to them, and because I like giving that something. If it's a guy, I find it endearing like they're a little brother and I have to help them become better adjusted.
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Haha, I might use that from now on, it's at least better than what I mumble about now.
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Posted 9/19/14
a crush is a magical thing.....makes you feel alive.
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If you are shy and have no friends. Come talk, I won't bite.
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severticas wrote:

i can attract both gender but find it hard to make new friends because i don't know/have anything to say half the time

them: hey, how are you?
me: i'm good, how about you?
them: i'm aright, so, did you have a good night?
me; yes, did you?
them: i did -starts talking about what they did-
me: cool -looks away-
i can't really remember the details of the day before and listening isn't my strong point



I'm the same way, and that is with my friend. I'm Tomoko level shy when it comes to talking with strangers.
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