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Forever alone???
Posted 9/20/14
To quote the song title by Michael Jackson, "You are not alone". Though it must feel like it at times.

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Posted 9/20/14
The way my last girlfriend broke up with me, Rekt me, as a way of coping, I withdrew mostly from society, Now I long for a romantic relationship but I get scared. I am moreso introverted from the experience.
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33 / M / Finland- The Cave...
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Posted 9/20/14
Piff, who need's relationships when you can have tons of waifu's ! *har har* 2-d bansai ! *cough* =)
Posted 9/20/14 , edited 9/20/14
alone.. my middle names is alone..

but I had never had a b/f .. i dont need 1, if i ever fall
in love then thats that, if he love me back then good. i be the happyish
girl in the world if I ever find a guy that love me, of who i am.. (that never going 2 happen)
if he doesnt, i dont know want ill do, i hadnt been in love with some1 b4..

but being alone 4eva .. no way r maybe
yes way.. seen lot of crazy, a*s O, guys
i really hate lot of them, my father is in the list,
but i really dont hate him, just


let me just say, my mothers relationshipss they were so
not good, other 2 a other 2 other, she had
never find her right 1, all were all rotten f ...





and thatz, that.. and u just 19 .. u did had 1 5yr ago right?
Posted 9/20/14
Not forever, maybe 40 years or so more.
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17 / M / Ireland
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Posted 9/20/14
Well I haven't found a girlfriend yet but I never think to myself that I never will find someone. But I think it'll probably be after I finish school that I get into a serious relationship, I can't see myself with any of the girls in my school for one reason or the other.
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30 / M / Central KY.
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Posted 9/20/14
I'd like to HOPE not.....
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Posted 9/20/14 , edited 9/20/14

Doomdancer wrote:

Piff, who need's relationships when you can have tons of waifu's ! *har har* 2-d bansai ! *cough* =)


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31 / M / Chicago
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Posted 9/20/14
Man... threads like this can be super depressing. 90% of you are still extremely young whether you want to see it that way or not and are already deciding they're on the path to forever alone. I skipped most of this but if you want some real advice rather than the coddling I usually see around here go work on yourself. If you're in school work on finishing that and spend the rest of your time working on yourself. Hit the gym, take a hike or whatever suits your fancy for getting a bit of cardio in. Looks aren't always everything but when you feel better and are more confident in yourself people see that and you yourself are willing to do more. If you're not in school work on getting a job. Everyone wants to be able to go out and do something if they actually get a date.

Get out there. Go to a class for something, a convention or just places you like and don't be afraid to make the move. Talk to girls/guys and don't be afraid of rejection. It sucks a lot sure but you always get over it and hey look there's another cute one over there! I'm not advocating being a man whore just not to be afraid of taking a chance and not to get down on yourself if it doesn't work out.

We are our own worst enemies. If you're forever alone it's mostly our own fault for not putting ourselves out there or expecting something that's just not there. Like everything else in life finding the one is work and keeping the one is work too. Work on you and be good with yourself and when that happens it makes it a whole hell of a lot easier to go out there and find the one that wants you too.
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Posted 9/20/14
I try to stay away from relationships as much as I can, right now, even though I've been falling for people in the past 3 years, but my history of relationship has been a disappointed one from another. I've dated different range of ages and some I had to dump them.

For one reason or another I once ended up with someone who was 10 years younger than me, to be honest I got in the relationship without knowing her age, but that girl was too sexual strange as her fantasy was being raped. That raised all the red flags and I had to eventually dump her, even though I kept telling her not to, and that was actually the worst thing she could ever wish for, she did not listen.

Later on I dated someone who was 10 years older than me, she was too clingy and she dropped all her friends because of me, and I told her that it was fine to love someone, but not to that extend. She refused to do so, and I had to dump her, she was not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, as she was hoping that being with someone will solve all her problems and that she only needed one person in her life.

But among others, the relationships were even worst, my first relationship ended as I discovered my girlfriend was seeing other four guys at the same time. And the last relationship I had was probably the worst, she lied to me and I gave her all my money, sold many things that I possessed and were limited edition, just so she could go see her lover in the UK and she dumped me as I was questioning her.

So being forever alone isn't actually the worst thing you can end up with, there is always something more terrifying than being alone.

So I'm off relationships, until I can gain some confidence or something, or dunno.

Also, I don't mind open relationships, I got tired of being cheated on, so I had once a girlfriend who was giving me hints about it, she said she didn't wanted to, but I found out about her and dumped her. I don't really mind as long as they inform me, let me know and don't lie to me. When someone is honest with me, I can't get mad at them, but if I found out I was lied to, it will be hard for me to forgive them.
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Posted 9/20/14

Fuddbender wrote:


Steffiekun wrote:

Almost 22 here and still no girlfriend. By now, i already gave up and planning to be a wizard.


You can be Gandalf I'll be saruman




Yeah, forever alone.

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23 / M / San Jose
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Posted 9/20/14
After my first one went terribly, and seeing how the majority of girls are in college... I am waiting till I graduate to get into a relationship and not even going to force it then. Let life unravel!
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27 / F / tennessee
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Posted 9/20/14
i feel like ill be the crazy cat lady forever v_v
Posted 9/20/14

bigmakk wrote:

After my first one went terribly, and seeing how the majority of girls are in college... I am waiting till I graduate to get into a relationship and not even going to force it then. Let life unravel!


You have your act together. I wouldn't be surprised if love suddenly struck!
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Posted 9/20/14

VannilaZero wrote:

You guys ever have that feeling you will never find that romantic relationship that you have been yearning for?


yes because this isn't Disney lol once i saw a quote that said "Disney gives unrealistic ideas about men" and that was totally right 'cuz as a child i dreamed of a kind prince who rode a white horse lol
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