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Hard Luck with Women
Posted 9/28/14 , edited 9/28/14
You make your own luck, as they say.

If you are a pushover, women walk allover you. This is because you don't have the balls to be a man and show whatever woman that you aren't so easily toppled. It doesn't always have to be about sex or even flirting. There are others ways to sway women for other reasons. For instance, you have a woman for a boss of some company, and she is a difficult nut to crack. You go in for a job interview and make whatever impression to her of yourself you do and see what happens. If you went in as the best version of yourself possible, then that fucking job may very well be yours. Why? You showed her that you have your shit together and that the other people who applied for the same job aren't going to cut it.

So, if you come off as weak in too many ways, you look like shit and display yourself as being shit, women don't give a flying fuck about you or your so-called ambitions. You are traction to women that are proactive, asskicking doers, whereas you may just be the inactive don'ter that gets his lily ass stomped everywhere you go.

Fix your game and see what that gets you. Or keep being a little douchey pussy that doesn't recognize his own weaknesses so he can overcome them.

Done.
Posted 9/28/14
Yes.

But its not due to luck.

Already know objectively what my downfalls are....
Posted 9/28/14 , edited 9/28/14

Sir_jamesalot wrote:


Phersu wrote:



Nobody asked you.


So instead of asking for advice, you automatically went into denial.


how do you do it? xD i bet tea
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Posted 9/28/14
its ok... ive never been with a woman v_v you've probably had more luck than i ever had
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allierose wrote:

its ok... ive never been with a woman v_v you've probably had more luck than i ever had


I'm dissapointed...
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Posted 9/28/14 , edited 9/28/14

innerdemons wrote:

You make your own luck, as they say.

If you are a pushover, women walk allover you. This is because you don't have the balls to be a man and show whatever woman that you aren't so easily toppled. It doesn't always have to be about sex or even flirting. There are others ways to sway women for other reasons. For instance, you have a woman for a boss of some company, and she is a difficult nut to crack. You go in for a job interview and make whatever impression to her of yourself you do and see what happens. If you went in as the best version of yourself possible, then that fucking job may very well be yours. Why? You showed her that you have your shit together and that the other people who applied for the same job aren't going to cut it.

So, if you come off as weak in too many ways, you look like shit and display yourself as being shit, women don't give a flying fuck about you or your so-called ambitions. You are traction to women that are proactive, asskicking doers, whereas you may just be the inactive don'ter that gets his lily ass stomped everywhere you go.

Fix your game and see what that gets you. Or keep being a little douchey pussy that doesn't recognize his own weaknesses so he can overcome them.

Done.


I love how you seem to know what billions of women want, that's some ridiculous generalizing.
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Posted 9/28/14 , edited 9/28/14
Heh, this thread... Of all the sites for this to be on... Allow me to possibly clarify for the hopeful and hopelessly confuse the rest. I'm not sure what the OP intended with his use of the word "Luck" in terms of women. If the op intended this to be a place to offer advice for getting hook up success rate to increase. The logic is pretty simple and misguided much like the shallow goal. I assume most users here are around college age, therefore my scenarios may not apply specifically to other age groups. Let me also clarify, that taking advantage of drunk girls is not a technique. It is not cool and will probably hurt your future prospects more. For increased hook up success rate, first make friends with girls you have no intention of hooking up with, establish a trust bond if necessary. Next, accompany/take them to social events with mixed company from both friend groups. Select target, get introduced, talk bullshit and get a feel for what she is like, improvise an ideal match of character. Use techniques like mirroring, mutual objective setting and humor if applicable. Never be pushy, always be polite (unless she is the aggressive challenger personality type) and accept that some nights it doesn't work out. But, even a night that doesn't work out improves your odds next time.

Damn, this is getting really long... Why am I writing this? Maybe now that I have graduated I have some type of hole in my life left by all the response papers that I used to have to write for GEs. Honestly, being a wingman was my FAVORITE friday night activity. I guess I just enjoy the chase and watching people succeed.
Posted 9/28/14 , edited 9/28/14

MarkyD73 wrote:


innerdemons wrote:

You make your own luck, as they say.

If you are a pushover, women walk allover you. This is because you don't have the balls to be a man and show whatever woman that you aren't so easily toppled. It doesn't always have to be about sex or even flirting. There are others ways to sway women for other reasons. For instance, you have a woman for a boss of some company, and she is a difficult nut to crack. You go in for a job interview and make whatever impression to her of yourself you do and see what happens. If you went in as the best version of yourself possible, then that fucking job may very well be yours. Why? You showed her that you have your shit together and that the other people who applied for the same job aren't going to cut it.

So, if you come off as weak in too many ways, you look like shit and display yourself as being shit, women don't give a flying fuck about you or your so-called ambitions. You are traction to women that are proactive, asskicking doers, whereas you may just be the inactive don'ter that gets his lily ass stomped everywhere you go.

Fix your game and see what that gets you. Or keep being a little douchey pussy that doesn't recognize his own weaknesses so he can overcome them.

Done.


I love how you seem to know what billions of women want, that's some ridiculous generalizing.


So you got a better idea? Do women chose sissies? No, they don't, really. If they appear to, that's must have been the old confusion between love and pity.

Let's see how you meditate on the subject.
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Posted 9/28/14
I think you and I are a lot alike. I too am fairly lucky and have success with little effort (yeah for us). Women are a whole different ball game. I have two long-term relationships and I ended up getting the raw end of the deal both times. So yeah...women and my luck are not compatible (yet). Now its been a few years since I pursued a relationship maybe things have changed xD
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Kind of.
It boils down to the same thing, they want me to rescue them from their loan/credit-card debt and when I inform them that it is to be a "mutual" thing....ie; we pool our resources and we pay off our debts together, they run so fast that I don't have to warn them not to let the door hit them in the ass on the way out.

I just have a knack for picking flakes.

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Posted 9/28/14

innerdemons wrote:


MarkyD73 wrote:


innerdemons wrote:

You make your own luck, as they say.

If you are a pushover, women walk allover you. This is because you don't have the balls to be a man and show whatever woman that you aren't so easily toppled. It doesn't always have to be about sex or even flirting. There are others ways to sway women for other reasons. For instance, you have a woman for a boss of some company, and she is a difficult nut to crack. You go in for a job interview and make whatever impression to her of yourself you do and see what happens. If you went in as the best version of yourself possible, then that fucking job may very well be yours. Why? You showed her that you have your shit together and that the other people who applied for the same job aren't going to cut it.

So, if you come off as weak in too many ways, you look like shit and display yourself as being shit, women don't give a flying fuck about you or your so-called ambitions. You are traction to women that are proactive, asskicking doers, whereas you may just be the inactive don'ter that gets his lily ass stomped everywhere you go.

Fix your game and see what that gets you. Or keep being a little douchey pussy that doesn't recognize his own weaknesses so he can overcome them.

Done.


I love how you seem to know what billions of women want, that's some ridiculous generalizing.


So you got a better idea? Do women chose sissies? No, they don't, really. If they appear to, that's must have been the old confusion between love and pity.

Let's see how you meditate on the subject.


Some probably do, I know it's probably a minority I just feel you made an unnecessary generalization.

I do see where you are coming from however about the impression, that is true.
Posted 9/28/14

MarkyD73 wrote:


innerdemons wrote:


MarkyD73 wrote:


innerdemons wrote:

You make your own luck, as they say.

If you are a pushover, women walk allover you. This is because you don't have the balls to be a man and show whatever woman that you aren't so easily toppled. It doesn't always have to be about sex or even flirting. There are others ways to sway women for other reasons. For instance, you have a woman for a boss of some company, and she is a difficult nut to crack. You go in for a job interview and make whatever impression to her of yourself you do and see what happens. If you went in as the best version of yourself possible, then that fucking job may very well be yours. Why? You showed her that you have your shit together and that the other people who applied for the same job aren't going to cut it.

So, if you come off as weak in too many ways, you look like shit and display yourself as being shit, women don't give a flying fuck about you or your so-called ambitions. You are traction to women that are proactive, asskicking doers, whereas you may just be the inactive don'ter that gets his lily ass stomped everywhere you go.

Fix your game and see what that gets you. Or keep being a little douchey pussy that doesn't recognize his own weaknesses so he can overcome them.

Done.


I love how you seem to know what billions of women want, that's some ridiculous generalizing.


So you got a better idea? Do women chose sissies? No, they don't, really. If they appear to, that's must have been the old confusion between love and pity.

Let's see how you meditate on the subject.


Some probably do, I know it's probably a minority I just feel you made an unnecessary generalization.

I do see where you are coming from however about the impression, that is true.


Blanket statements are very common. But think of it this way; among choosing a mate, do we seek strengths or weaknesses? This shows up in genetics. A genetically bad specimen has a very small chance of finding a mate. It can be different in humans, as we have the capacity to love unconditionally. This may supersede weaknesses, but only to a point. If all a person is is weak, then what reason is there to chose them for the purpose of romance and procreation? Maybe desperation, but that is just insane. I speak along the lines of sane and rational choices. Not the messed ones made by people who feels attraction to i.e. filthy bums that reek like an open sewer or other vagrants that are so enamored in pathetic traits that no one with a sound mind would chose them.
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Posted 9/28/14
lets just say i try to be considerate and it comes back to bite me in the ass. (them thinking im an asshole so i just give up on that individual and file her away in the "not going to happen section")

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Posted 9/28/14

innerdemons wrote:


MarkyD73 wrote:


innerdemons wrote:


MarkyD73 wrote:


innerdemons wrote:

You make your own luck, as they say.

If you are a pushover, women walk allover you. This is because you don't have the balls to be a man and show whatever woman that you aren't so easily toppled. It doesn't always have to be about sex or even flirting. There are others ways to sway women for other reasons. For instance, you have a woman for a boss of some company, and she is a difficult nut to crack. You go in for a job interview and make whatever impression to her of yourself you do and see what happens. If you went in as the best version of yourself possible, then that fucking job may very well be yours. Why? You showed her that you have your shit together and that the other people who applied for the same job aren't going to cut it.

So, if you come off as weak in too many ways, you look like shit and display yourself as being shit, women don't give a flying fuck about you or your so-called ambitions. You are traction to women that are proactive, asskicking doers, whereas you may just be the inactive don'ter that gets his lily ass stomped everywhere you go.

Fix your game and see what that gets you. Or keep being a little douchey pussy that doesn't recognize his own weaknesses so he can overcome them.

Done.


I love how you seem to know what billions of women want, that's some ridiculous generalizing.


So you got a better idea? Do women chose sissies? No, they don't, really. If they appear to, that's must have been the old confusion between love and pity.

Let's see how you meditate on the subject.


Some probably do, I know it's probably a minority I just feel you made an unnecessary generalization.

I do see where you are coming from however about the impression, that is true.


Blanket statements are very common. But think of it this way; among choosing a mate, do we seek strengths or weaknesses? This shows up in genetics. A genetically bad specimen has a very small chance of finding a mate. It can be different in humans, as we have the capacity to love unconditionally. This may supersede weaknesses, but only to a point. If all a person is is weak, then what reason is there to chose them for the purpose of romance and procreation? Maybe desperation, but that is just insane. I speak along the lines of sane and rational choices. Not the messed ones made by people who feels attraction to i.e. filthy bums that reek like an open sewer or other vagrants that are so enamored in pathetic traits that no one with a sound mind would chose them.


The thing is I agree with a lot of things you are saying all I wanted to do was point out about the generalization, otherwise you are correct when it comes to most people.
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Nobodyofimportance wrote:

I have. This is true.


I'd respond to you properly, but you're nobody of importance.


Sir_jamesalot wrote:

So instead of asking for advice, you automatically went into denial.


Denial ain't just a river in Egypt, my friend.
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