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Hard Luck with Women
Posted 9/28/14


The result of the discussion is a partial agreement on your part, but not in full. Without you being fully convinced, there is no clear victory for me, yet I am not so concerned with winning. You cited the flaw in my argument/claim, so it appears that perhaps you take away the victory through refutation, though it is a matter of perspective.

Nonetheless, I remain with my stance on women choosing strength over weakness. You would observe that all the time. Women shouldn't waste their time with very weak men. Weak men will lean on women so much that it frustrates them into leaving them. A strong man leans on no one unless he is in a bad enough position that it is acceptable. Showing a weakness and then resolving to face that is a sign of strength. Never recognizing weakness is a weakness and perilous to anyone.

You catch my drift. I won't press it any further. Take it or leave it.
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People are arguing.

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I can relate. It's never meant to be when I'm attracted to someone. I can treat them like any other human being, but I'll never end up in a relationship with them. I don't think I'm relationship material. Meh, I have my whole life to figure that out. I don't even want to be relationship material at the moment anyway.
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Posted 9/28/14

galaxiias wrote:

I can relate. It's never meant to be when I'm attracted to someone. I can treat them like any other human being, but I'll never end up in a relationship with them. I don't think I'm relationship material. Meh, I have my whole life to figure that out. I don't even want to be relationship material at the moment anyway.


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Your 20? Don't you have any past events with girls back in High School to remember?
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Posted 9/28/14 , edited 9/28/14

Phersu wrote:

There is one exception in my luck, however, and that is women. Now, just befriending women? Goes just fine. Hell, people tend to like me even though I give them no reason to. But when I'm attracted to a woman?


Here's an idea, from a woman.

1. Stop thinking of "getting a girlfriend" as a goal. The idea of obtaining a such a "thing" (girlfriend in this case) objectifies my gender. Not attractive. Live for the experience of it all, not the goal as much.
2. Be yourself and stop acting like someone else to try to find someone.
3. Be up front about your desire to date. Hooking up at a party isn't the same as dating and doesn't always lead to dating (it usually doesn't), and dating is not like in the movies, it usually starts with someone actually ASKING someone out, followed by a confession, people usually don't just kiss and realize they like one another--lol.
4. Try blind dates, speed dating, or online dating; in these settings, your intention is already clear, you don't need to confess it or try to find a place to do so.
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severticas wrote:


Sir_jamesalot wrote:


Phersu wrote:



Nobody asked you.


So instead of asking for advice, you automatically went into denial.


how do you do it? xD i bet tea


Yes, the answer is tea and not being ugly.
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Posted 9/28/14
3dpds are bad
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Yes
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More or less. I'm not trying to hit on people or anything, I think the singles club is fine, but things just sorta happen somehow. I dunno myself. (My charms even work on females which I think is sad (I know a lot of gay peeps, but I'm not gay))
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Posted 9/28/14

Flazedge wrote:

Your 20? Don't you have any past events with girls back in High School to remember?


Eldritch High was a lonely place for teen Phersu.


Jsybird2532 wrote:


Here's an idea, from a woman.

1. Stop thinking of "getting a girlfriend" as a goal. The idea of obtaining a such a "thing" (girlfriend in this case) objectifies my gender. Not attractive. Live for the experience of it all, not the goal as much.
2. Be yourself and stop acting like someone else to try to find someone.
3. Be up front about your desire to date. Hooking up at a party isn't the same as dating and doesn't always lead to dating (it usually doesn't), and dating is not like in the movies, it usually starts with someone actually ASKING someone out, followed by a confession, people usually don't just kiss and realize they like one another--lol.
4. Try blind dates, speed dating, or online dating; in these settings, your intention is already clear, you don't need to confess it or try to find a place to do so.


I don't actually want a girlfriend or anything like that. I just made this thread to watch people's reactions. So far, it's pretty amusing.
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You love doing this in all your relationship topics, don't you.
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Phersu wrote:
I don't actually want a girlfriend or anything like that. I just made this thread to watch people's reactions. So far, it's pretty amusing.


Knowing most males who prowl on forums like this on these topics, there's a rather high probability that ain't completely true.
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Phersu wrote:


Nobodyofimportance wrote:

I have. This is true.


I'd respond to you properly, but you're nobody of importance.

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Jsybird2532 wrote:


Phersu wrote:
I don't actually want a girlfriend or anything like that. I just made this thread to watch people's reactions. So far, it's pretty amusing.


Knowing most males who prowl on forums like this on these topics, there's a rather high probability that ain't completely true.
u...so...tsuki


I mean my reaction is always, hey look another one! This'll be good.
And then I look for the argument between the person saying all women ever look for is sexy rich professional bodybuilders who can't/don't love them and ignore the loving guy right next to them who cares for them and always asks them to play video games.
And all hot rich guys are evil and beat their wives/girlfriends.

and then the other side that argues against it and says something along the lines of "you can get a girl too, just follow these 5 steps!"

and then there's the guys who cry "forever alone"
the guys who comfort the guys who say "forever alone"

The guys who say they get all the girls

The white knights

and the girls who show up to offer their opinions, who usually fall into one of the above camps, excluding the first.

Sometimes some stragglers show up.

These threads are like ecchi, you know exactly what you're getting when you come to one.
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GoodGuyCap wrote:
You love doing this in all your relationship topics, don't you.


Yes. All this chaos and hatred fuels me.


Jsybird2532 wrote:

Knowing most males who prowl on forums like this on these topics, there's a rather high probability that ain't completely true.
u...so...tsuki


That's where you're wrong. I'm not male. I'm genderless. Eldritch for the win!


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#2 - Phersu
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I mean my reaction is always, hey look another one! This'll be good.
And then I look for the argument between the person saying all women ever look for is sexy rich professional bodybuilders who can't/don't love them and ignore the loving guy right next to them who cares for them and always asks them to play video games.
And all hot rich guys are evil and beat their wives/girlfriends.

and then the other side that argues against it and says something along the lines of "you can get a girl too, just follow these 5 steps!"

and then there's the guys who cry "forever alone"
the guys who comfort the guys who say "forever alone"

The guys who say they get all the girls

The white knights

and the girls who show up to offer their opinions, who usually fall into one of the above camps, excluding the first.

Sometimes some stragglers show up.

These threads are like ecchi, you know exactly what you're getting when you come to one.


First, what soul? Never had one, so you never captured it.

Second, I know. I know. Ain't it grand?

Third, I endorse this just like I endorse ecchi and world domination.
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