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Would you date someone that doesn't like anime?
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Posted 10/1/14

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Throw away my anime collection? I'LL THROW AWAY YOUR SPORTS COLLECTION.

But I have both an anime and a sports collection.

OT: Sure, why not? Though I may make an attempt or two to introduce her to anime.
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I would date someone who doesn't like anime. However when that person has a problem with you liking it and goes throught the steps to make sure that you don't watch it then I have a problem. Those people just are not supposed to be in your life.
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I wouldnt mind, i have dated guys that were not into anime and video games. As long as they respect me and my hobbies no problem.
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i have and its no big deal if she tells u to not watch anime or games just do it anyway lol but dont move in with her cuz then ur screwed
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Posted 10/1/14
Who would want to marry someone like that?
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Posted 10/1/14 , edited 10/1/14
lol?

most of the people i know dont even like anime, why should i care if i date someone that doesnt like anime?

I couldnt care less, of course, if she likes anime, thats great, if she doesnt i dont care
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On the one hand, I'd hope they liked anime, since it is one of my major interests, and a shared interest is a great way to meet people, bond, etc.
On the other, if they didn't, I assume we'd have something else in common in order to meet and start dating.

But yeah, actively denying your significant other something they enjoy just seems wrong to me.
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Posted 10/1/14 , edited 10/2/14
Would I ever date a woman who dislikes/hates anime? Yes I have and wouldn't hesitate to do it again.

Would I ever date a self-important she-witch who cares more about her public appearance than things that make me happy? No. The minute that ugly face shows it's over for me. Dated a girl who laughed at me when she found out I still collected comic books. That was my last date with her. She never even was interested in the why. My late father and I used to collect them and read them together since I was age 3. They were part of me but to her and was just me refusing to conform to what she thought I should be to look better in her friends' eyes.
Posted 10/1/14
Not someone controlling - as in banning things. Those things, I imagine, would be about accepting each other. If there was someone that absolutely hated anime, but "let me" watch a few airing shows or a re-watch then that is fine.

Context would be needed - do they not like certain aspects of it -- because I'd agree with the pervy stuff not being acceptable (and as a single person, fan service has killed a few shows for me -- really no problem). If they hate it because they saw a post about anime on reddit ---- then we'd have problems. If they like very few things and hate anime in general -- that would be ideal. I think I fall in there, anyways.
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Posted 10/1/14
It's okay to not be a fan of it, but blindly hating on it and having all those negative preconceptions is not okay. As long as you're chill with me liking anime, everything's good.
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I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend or whatnot didn't like anime. but if he is controlling me not to do what i like to do...well...deal with it.
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Not having the same interests as me is fine, I'm not looking to date myself lol. But if they can't handle me just being me then dating them was never an option.
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Posted 10/1/14
i could deal with it but if they make active steps to stop me from it then no. thats possessive and controlling and i wont stand for it. im watching a show im not shooting up in an alleyway.
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20 / M / California
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Posted 10/1/14
Well, ehh, you're questions weird. If you're asking it in if my partner just doesn't like them, then I wouldn't mind that. Not everyone has the same likes and dislikes.

If you're asking it in if my partner forbids me to do something I like, like watch anime, then no. The thing is, why would you marry someone that forbids you from doing something you like?
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