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Posted 10/18/14

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Idk, I don't get along with girls so much for some reason they hate me.... not all just some. I can't stand cattiness. I am a very friendly person and willing to be friends but I get that "omg look at that girl" look and they talk about me. Meh it's all good though I have other friends and it's their loss not mine. Maybe it's jealousy? Idk what there is to be jealous of me o.o ah also I don't hate someone unless they have done something to me or to one of my friends regardless of gender. I also only have a hand full of friends that are girl but known them since 4th grade
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having or showing a desire to cause someone pain or suffering for the sheer enjoyment of it <a catty remark that served its only purpose: to make someone cry>
Synonyms bad [slang], bitchy

interesting....

My recollection of jr high was like a replay of Mean Girls. From my "real life" experiences I have seen more women acting "catty" than men. However, on the internet I see more men acting catty. Consequence?
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Posted 10/20/14
Women are scary..

Even I'm afraid to talk to girls ... heh heh
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I've been around the block a few times and honestly I think most women are just inherently mean but not just for the sake of being mean. Many that I've met are just incredibly defensive and theres little to no chance for platonic bonding. For girls another girl you click with will probably become one of your best friends and for guys i've ended up dateing almost all of my really good female friends. Women. Fuckin mystery
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Posted 10/21/14
Not being female last I checked, I can't say anything first-hand as to whether women tend to hate other women or not.

However, per my recollection, women do statistically find it to be more stressful and difficult working directly under other women. Possibly due to the so-called, "Queen Bee Syndrome". http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queen_bee_syndrome
Posted 10/21/14
Even the most shrill and evil woman can love her mother more deeply than herself.
Posted 10/21/14 , edited 10/21/14
I wouldn't call it hate.

Perhaps it's more like intense competitiveness... to the point where underhanded tactics become absolute necessity.
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Posted 10/21/14
Men gossip too, and sometimes even more than women. I've seen it go down.
It's a matter of clashing personalities and feeling threatened in one way or another; whether you're a man or woman. Sometimes for women it's a feeling of a girl trying to take the guy you like, just like with men it may be a matter of some better specimen (looks, smarts, strength, etc.) lowering your chances of getting the girls.
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Posted 10/21/14
Girls in my school are scary, at least to me. They always scowl and look at me funny like I'm some sort of intruder.
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Its not an action that you can easily put an end into
Its addicting! I think of it as a ritual of becoming more mature!


And no one asked me about it................................................................................
Posted 10/21/14
I think the phrase, "Bitches be crazy" applies to this thread.
Seriously sometimes I'll be just taking my lunch break at work and a female coworker will come over to me, start talking shit about other coworkers, and then she'll leave or start saying 'don't you agree?' and I'm just over here thinking. " I just wanna eat my lunch in peace...
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Yeah, I tend to stay away from those kind of girls. I mean, I know a few of them, but they're not my friends, so yeah. And I don't think all women hate each other.
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Posted 10/21/14
In the male world I've seen untold examples of men trying to climb the ladder of success by brown-nosing bosses and putting others down. They tend to exhibit aggressive behavior. A classic example of this would be a political campaign. My observation of the female world would be that women do the same thing, but using different means. I read someplace that women tend to try to look beautiful to impress other women, instead of trying to impress men. If you want anime examples of this just watch Kimi ni Todke (on Crunchyroll). Another example was Peach Girl, where the girl was persecuted because she had a tan. Gossiping and jealousy would be other examples of such behavior.

When you get older you tend to see that such negative behavior probably doesn't get you where you want to be. Beauty may attract the person you want, but to keep them your personality and behavior count for a LOT more. Have you looked at current pictures of older beauty queens? Just remember, time wounds all heels. (leaves thread before he gets rotten eggs thrown at him.)
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I think there are two branches of women; Those that get caught up with petty things that they feel define womanhood and those that can be themselves and aren't interested in the pettiness. I am the latter.

For me, I've always gotten along better with men, so I enjoy working in a male dominated profession. I enjoy dirty jokes, I can't imagine spending more than $100 on a purse and I enjoy football. I like being around men because you know where you stand with them. With many women, they'll be kind to your face but then talk smack about you when you're not around. In this area, I behave more like a guy and I'd rather tell someone I can't stand them as opposed to doing that behind their back. Or I simply don't say anything. In my immediate department, I work with two other women, both of whom I really don't care for as they're incredibly petty. One is obsessed with everything about the Briish royal family and the other likes the Kardashians and wishing bodily harm to opposing football teams. It's kind of amusing that the other men in my department compliment me on being a good fan and just enjoying the game for what it is instead of hoping that other teams lose and players get hurt.

I've never understood why many women can't get along. There are those that view work and dating like a competition and they'll do all sorts of things to get ahead. I've never been like that though. Better to die with honor surrounded by those who love you for who you are than to die with that sort of shame, surrounded by those who are only there for your money.
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Posted 10/21/14
I think HATE is a strong word. Someone would have to do something really hurtful to hate them truly. As for me I stayed away from women in general. It was always hard to get close too them probably because I dint fancy bitchiness, shallowness and gossip. I don't hate other women even the ones that were meanies but il always avoid being around them. My life is easier that way I come to learn
Posted 10/21/14
Well, it seems that most women on CR are not like those "OTHER" females. Lol.. I love it.

I will admit that although I don't gossip because I think it's too much work (although I do love listening to other people gossip because it's very interesting), I AM the type to be extremely hostile/bitchy to other people (women mostly) whose existence I find annoying. In my opinion it's a lot better than being fake. If I don't like you you'll know. And you either have to deal with me and my attitude or you stay far enough away to not trigger it. It's a bit of a territorial thing, I guess. I don't like annoyingly stupid and extremely fake people to share the same space with me. The ones I can't stand the most are the ones who try way too hard groveling for people's attention. It's unsightly. Hence I do my best to scare them off.

I guess that's why I have such few female acquaintances.

Actually, I guess that's why I have such few acquaintances in general.. Lol
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Posted 10/21/14
First off, not all women are the same. Second, I do not think all women hate each other. I do know however there are ones that have the "I hate you all" mentality or harbor negative adjectives that describe the nature of them. And yes, gossip is irritating at times. Especially when you're dragged into it for just being nearby. I personally find that everyone can be irritating in some way, it's more of a matter of letting them bother you or not.
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