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why we need a boyfriend/girlfriend
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Who else is gonna snuggle with youuu?
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dustymonster wrote:

Well, speaking from a younger male perspective (I'm 16). Guys need a girlfriend because we're horny. All the time.


He thinks that having a girlfriend will guarantee him sex
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Can be fun, but is not necessary. I think it's a good experience for folks to have eventually, but there are other things that are fun and fulfilling too.
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Jesus hahaha.
You don't "need" one. You "want" one out biological necessity. You have two functions to fulfill: survive and reproduce. That is it.
Gf/bf are just connotations we've attached to having a mate.

Just go get a FWB or a one night stand if you don't wanna hang with them afterwards. That's my usual go to option. It's really lame having to spend money on someone else and having to make compromises in life to fulfill their desires. Don't worry about a long term relationship until you've established yourself and what you want in life.
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Having someone by your side that you have absolute trust in can really go a long way to reduce stress levels which over time would have caused degrading levels of inflammation. There are many intangible benefits to look for with a partner but this really only applies with a balanced relationship where the trust flows both ways and they hold each other at an equal value.

I would worry more about the quality of a relationship rather than simply having one or not.
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Because the clones in society said so.
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melodyXXnur wrote:

I always wonder why we need a bf or gf . I need one too so that he will entertain me of course. Do anyone think that having bf or gf is exactly unnecessary???? I would like to know your opinion!


That's a great question :P! Most people want a boyfriend or girlfriend for intimacy and sharing their interest with someone they like. If you leave sex out of the equation, we want someone to share our inter most feelings with and want to not feel alone.. You probably know the story of Adam and Eve, but the hell I got time lol. Adam was alone on the garden of Eden, every animal but him add a partner, so he begged God for a partner, because he was Alone.. Sex didn't come still after they we're ejected from the garden. That's why I think people seek a relationship, not just with the opposite sex.. Any way, you're too young to be bored, that's a shit reason to have a boyfriend; sorry if you take offense..
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Love is a wonderful thing to feel - but it's by no means necessary for life. This is your decision.
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it has its ups and downs but the pro's definitely beats the cons so not necessary but recommended
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Love is merely an excuse to reproduce.

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I recently broke up with my girlfriend who was 13 and I think we dated for about 6-8 months. We ended up doing a lot of stuff in a short amount of time and it got spread around school really quickly. It's been about a month since then and I can't cope, people talk behind my back and spread rumors. I wouldn't bother with a relationship at a young age to be honest.
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I would like one that would take care of me while I'm watching anime and playing games and stuff
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tkayt wrote:


dustymonster wrote:

Well, speaking from a younger male perspective (I'm 16). Guys need a girlfriend because we're horny. All the time.


He thinks that having a girlfriend will guarantee him sex



This one cracked me up good
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Probably social pressure. I noticed when I was in summer break I didnt really care for one. But when I went to school, the first like I was feeling lonely.
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People want to love and be loved
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