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why we need a boyfriend/girlfriend
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Posted 10/5/14

thaknowhow wrote:


You're right, isn't my right.. We're different people. Don't try to sell me your story and I won't sell you mine.. Unless we become best buds there is no reason to have an argument; Let's agree to disagree. :)


Yeah, that didn't come out as I wanted it to.
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There's no need to have a girl/boyfriend. There's wanting but not needing. Most people like being alone and some wish to have someone with them. Its part of the human nature to want human contact, at least some time their lives.
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Posted 10/5/14

Ahhh with that we could become friends :P..
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Posted 10/5/14

melodyXXnur wrote:

I always wonder why we need a bf or gf . I need one too so that he will entertain me of course. Do anyone think that having bf or gf is exactly unnecessary???? I would like to know your opinion!


Over the years I have come to realize that what people are looking for is that special someone. A special someone that will come to feel that their world revolves around you and you alone. One of the biggest reasons why people get involved deeply I think is because it strokes your ego, makes you feel not alone and good about yourself.

Now, I would prefer to have best friends and even further a true friend. Best friends are someone that you can always turn to for most anything. A true friend is someone that will always be there for you as you are there for them. I have had one true friend in my life, someone that just would not give up on me. We were never sexually attracted, and would cheer one another on when we have an interest in someone. We would just support each other, and let the other know that they were loved and cared about.

I heard a long time ago, that if and when you do decided to get a mate. Have it be your best friend, this is some one that you already trust, can love, fight with and make up,

I lost my one true friend many years ago, and even today miss her very much. We were each others rock.

So to answer your question, I don't think we actually need a bf/gf, but we do need those people in our lives that support us and love us without asking anything in return.

Posted 10/5/14
After the mess i've been through I certainly don't. It's better to submerge yourself in friends, then to constantly worry about stuff like that. You have many years of possibility to come.
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Posted 10/5/14
so that you aren't sitting in front of your computer, drinking beer, and replaying the Tokyo Ghoul ED repeatedly, while feeling bad about yourself.

<-- me, of course.

In all seriousness though... I think too much, and most of the thoughts are not good. I think a SO for me would just be a kind of "safe harbor" to keep me in line.
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Posted 10/5/14
I don't think they're necessary. I'm content with or without one. It's not something I actively search for.
Posted 10/5/14
I want best friends more than I want a boyfriend.
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You don't *need* a bf/gf for the sake of having an SO, but everyone needs love. Also from experience, once you graduate you're pretty much SOL looking for a lifelong lover-all those people are already locked away. I agree with you, sex is colossally over-hyped and really not very important at all. (but still alot of fun lol)
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Posted 10/5/14
I NEED a girlfriend... it's been so long since I've felt the warmth of a woman's touch.

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Posted 10/5/14
Why wouldn't we want that special someone in our lives?
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Posted 10/6/14

melodyXXnur wrote:

I always wonder why we need a bf or gf . I need one too so that he will entertain me of course. Do anyone think that having bf or gf is exactly unnecessary???? I would like to know your opinion!

-----okay.ive received many comments that is good or bad, what I wanted to say is. I wasnt thinking about having sex at all at this age. For me, relationships is not just for having sex. Having sex at the age of 16?? Thats quite unimaginable for me. For men out there, I need love not only lust


I think it's necessary for everybody. I think a lot of the people who say it isn't are just making excuses. Everybody needs that special person to confide in and look after.
Posted 10/6/14

cianbratherton wrote:


melodyXXnur wrote:

I always wonder why we need a bf or gf . I need one too so that he will entertain me of course. Do anyone think that having bf or gf is exactly unnecessary???? I would like to know your opinion!

-----okay.ive received many comments that is good or bad, what I wanted to say is. I wasnt thinking about having sex at all at this age. For me, relationships is not just for having sex. Having sex at the age of 16?? Thats quite unimaginable for me. For men out there, I need love not only lust


I think it's necessary for everybody. I think a lot of the people who say it isn't are just making excuses. Everybody needs that special person to confide in and look after.


You're damn right. Who wants to be alone? Blehh--'
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Posted 10/6/14
Needing a girlfriend/boyfriend is necessary to some people depending on their values and necessities.
As for me, I am alone not because I want to but because I am painfully shy. I do not want to be alone but I am sure I am just making excuses...
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Posted 10/6/14
You dont need one, im happy with my waifu.
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