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Posted 10/6/14 , edited 10/6/14
So, what do you think of S&M? Like it? Love it? Hate it? In a relationship like it? Sticks and stones may break your bones but chains and whips excite you?

Personally, it seems appealing to me. Dominating or being dominated by a woman I love....

Keep it PG-13.

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I've read 50 Shades of Grey.
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Shrapnel893 wrote:

I've read 50 Shades of Grey.


The survivors support group is two doors down.
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I'm into it.

For my 2 cents on the Fifty Shades of Gray crap though, that stuff is awful. There's a consensual, loving BDSM relationship, and then there's abuse. THAT was abuse. And it's also terrible writing based off of another really horrible series that's ALSO formed on abuse and obsession. Just no. JUST NO.
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I'm not really into it but that might be because i haven't properly tried it. If i did i would probably be the dominant one since i have a form of power fetish
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I'm fairly positive I'll never be into it. I certainly won't judge other people for liking it, but I'm the type who can't stand being treated as anything but an equal, so it's very much not my cup of tea.
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Hmm.. I'm kinda half and half..
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Posted 10/7/14 , edited 10/7/14
Meh. It's a bit too complicated for my tastes, with all the rules, procedures, and much-needed patience. Also, it doesn't seem to be quite my style, anyway. Mind you, I've only read about it.

Bavalt In modern BDSM, inequality is highly frowned upon, especially sub abuse. The "Submissives" are supposed to be the ones actually in charge of most of what goes on, with Doms only doing what the Subs want and can handle. Getting caught breaking that code can result in the offenders being kicked out of BDSM communities and blacklisted.
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supre_candii wrote:

I'm super freaky.


Fixed.


aeb0717 wrote:

Meh. It's a bit too complicated for my tastes, with all the rules, procedures, and much-needed patience. Also, it doesn't seem to be quite my style, anyway. Mind you, I've only read about it.

Bavalt In modern BDSM, inequality is highly frowned upon, especially sub abuse. The "Submissives" are supposed to be the ones actually in charge of most of what goes on, with Doms only doing what the Subs want and can handle. Getting caught breaking that code can result in the offenders being kicked out of BDSM communities and blacklisted.


I didn't see Bavalt's post, so it must've been deleted. Yay!
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aeb0717 wrote:

Meh. It's a bit too complicated for my tastes, with all the rules, procedures, and much-needed patience. Also, it doesn't seem to be quite my style, anyway. Mind you, I've only read about it.

Bavalt In modern BDSM, inequality is highly frowned upon, especially sub abuse. The "Submissives" are supposed to be the ones actually in charge of most of what goes on, with Doms only doing what the Subs want and can handle. Getting caught breaking that code can result in the offenders being kicked out of BDSM communities and blacklisted.


Sorry, I didn't mean to imply that I believed there's usually an actual unbalanced power structure in these types of relationships. I'm aware that it's mainly a type of roleplay and not intended to seriously take advantage of anyone. My point is just that, being a person who feels so strongly about being treated as an equal, I just don't see the appeal of pretending to be on uneven footing.

I used to date someone who was very much into being dominated, and while she'd sometimes convince me to go along with it, it tended to ruin the mood for me. The whole thing just seems too tedious and political. I prefer my contact with other people to be simple and straightforward, at all times. I don't enjoy the metrics and maneuvers of social interaction: I'm the type that says my piece and gets a response, and is happy with the elegance of the exchange. Again, I've got nothing against people who like to make it more complicated (as long as they leave me out of it); but I just can't relate to that desire.
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I always keep spare whips and chains on hand, at the ready. You never know when the opportunity arises. Always come prepared.
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I wish to be whipped by a Tsun Loli Oujosama. Being stepped on by one seems pleasant as well.
I'm particularly fond of most types of physical pain, so pretty sure I'd enjoy receiving such from someone I love. Although emotional pain is a big no for me.

Now, I am also fond of teasing others, and enjoy seeing Tsun Lolis flustered, so that might make me slightly S, not sure.
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Phersu wrote:


supre_candii wrote:

I'm supre freaky.


Fixed.


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