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Posted 10/12/14 , edited 10/12/14
There's been a few threads like this, but not asking the same question.


What are your thoughts on marriage? All kinds. Gay, straight, interracial, arranged. Is marriage something you want? Are you already married? Are you getting married soon?



Personally, I definitely see myself getting married. I usually tell people no when they ask me, just because it's easier to do that than explain why. But yeah I definitely do see myself getting married later on in my 20's, maybe 30's. You can't just whip up a soulmate in an E-Z Bake Oven and marry them, you have to meet them first. At this present time, I've yet to meet that woman so marriage is as far off as can be.My family has girls they want to set me up with and I'm always saying no, but not because I don't want to meet them, but because it honestly seems pathetic. I created an online dating profile, but after one day took it down because it just weird to me.

But, to answer the question, yes marriage is definitely "part of the plan".


Also, I see people only a few years older than me getting married and having kids and it honestly freaks me out/makes me depressed because failure.

TL: DR- Have guitar, will marry for food


v Lol I don't even know....Not a toaster like everyone gets....How about a katana for me and a kimono for my wife lol
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^ Better question: What kinds of gifts you expect your guests to be given to you and your spouse?
(e.g., toaster)
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I definitely want to get married. I'm also a fan of EVERYONE getting married. Talking about that, my state just legalized same-sex marriage. Go Virginia!
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Hopefully, someday. Although at the current rate I socialize and accomplish things, I'm not gonna be suited for marriage(or dating) for a long time... probably.

Also my thoughts on other people's marriages, go for it love who you want doesn't matter to me, just don't abuse your lover/significant other.
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I can't see myself getting married or being in a relationship. I can see myself living alone, with my various hobbies to keep me busy.
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Posted 10/12/14
if people want to get married then they should be allowed to get married no matter who they are


I am married, we got married in november




we have been together 6 years

^_^

We met at university thanks to the anime society haha

we both were presidents of the society too :P

I always wanted to get married and have a family

I didnt know if it would happen as I have a hereditary disorder which means my children could have it if I had children naturally. The options are try PGD IVF if that fails then adopt. I didnt know if I would find someone who would accept that, and accept me disability and all.

My husband is amazing
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Posted 10/12/14 , edited 10/12/14
Marriage is nice and all that, but you first have to make sure that you're 120% ready to make that kind of commitment. Not just the emotional aspects, but the financial as well (and all the rest that I can't think of). You know, have plans and backup plans in place before diving into anything. Most that tend to marry young divorce, and that causes a whole mess of headaches, you know?

As for myself--yes, in the future. Sometime. For children, I'd probably adopt. If I'm still single in the future, I'd still adopt--as long as I know I'm capable of caring for another. And, regarding interracial, same-sex, etc. I'm ok with them all.
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Posted 10/12/14
i'm all for gay marriage. why should straight people hve all the misery.
happily divorced myself
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It doesn't matter who you marry as long as both of you agree consent to it. No outside person should tell you who you can and can't marry.
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I draw the line at bestiality. Go ahead and marry an egg. Or yourself. To each their own.
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I would really like to get married in the future.
As for others, they can marry whoever they want.
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Posted 10/12/14

Aura-chan wrote:

if people want to get married then they should be allowed to get married no matter who they are


I am married, we got married in november




we have been together 6 years

^_^

We met at university thanks to the anime society haha

we both were presidents of the society too :P

I always wanted to get married and have a family

I didnt know if it would happen as I have a hereditary disorder which means my children could have it if I had children naturally. The options are try PGD IVF if that fails then adopt. I didnt know if I would find someone who would accept that, and accept me disability and all.

My husband is amazing

Did you invite all the members in your societies?

Was there a person that you definitely did not want to attend your wedding?
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Posted 10/12/14
It feels just as cliche as starting a family.
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Posted 10/12/14

onibrotonel wrote:


Aura-chan wrote:

if people want to get married then they should be allowed to get married no matter who they are


I am married, we got married in november




we have been together 6 years

^_^

We met at university thanks to the anime society haha

we both were presidents of the society too :P

I always wanted to get married and have a family

I didnt know if it would happen as I have a hereditary disorder which means my children could have it if I had children naturally. The options are try PGD IVF if that fails then adopt. I didnt know if I would find someone who would accept that, and accept me disability and all.

My husband is amazing

Did you invite all the members in your societies?

Was there a person that you definitely did not want to attend your wedding?


HAHA no no we had 30-40 members in our society couldnt invite them all 0_O

we invited some friends from the society and university

some friends from school and friends from activities and groups we are part of now.


Most of the guests were family. I have a BIG family and my dad works for some of the family members we wouldnt have choose to invite if we had the choice .....there were family members who have been horrible to me over the years that I had to invite because of the drama they would cause if we didnt >_<

We had a friend de-friend us and not speak to us until last month because he wasnt invited because we had to draw a line somewhere and couldnt afford to invite everyone... he said some very hurtful things and did this a week before the wedding...... >_<

however....

most people were awesome and lovely.

We really enjoyed our wedding and it flew by so fast!

we got married in winter because its much much cheaper.

We loved our venue and couldnt have afforded it in the summer months.
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Posted 10/12/14

AiYumega wrote:

There's been a few threads like this, but not asking the same question.


What are your thoughts on marriage? All kinds. Gay, straight, interracial, arranged. Is marriage something you want? Are you already married? Are you getting married soon?



Personally, I definitely see myself getting married. I usually tell people no when they ask me, just because it's easier to do that than explain why. But yeah I definitely do see myself getting married later on in my 20's, maybe 30's. You can't just whip up a soulmate in an E-Z Bake Oven and marry them, you have to meet them first. At this present time, I've yet to meet that woman so marriage is as far off as can be.My family has girls they want to set me up with and I'm always saying no, but not because I don't want to meet them, but because it honestly seems pathetic. I created an online dating profile, but after one day took it down because it just weird to me.

But, to answer the question, yes marriage is definitely "part of the plan".


Also, I see people only a few years older than me getting married and having kids and it honestly freaks me out/makes me depressed because failure.

TL: DR- Have guitar, will marry for food


v Lol I don't even know....Not a toaster like everyone gets....How about a katana for me and a kimono for my wife lol


Could you be a little more indecisive? I haven't vomited yet.


Either your real life shyness, your online shyness, or your loneliness has to be gotten over. Pick one or be a neurotic mess for the rest of your life. I will cheer for you bro, if it helps.

But pick one.


As for myself, I have no problem whatsoever devoting the rest of my life to the right girl. However, I don't have time to go looking, and I'm fine with that. See? Didja learn something? However, I'm not into large and expensive antiquated rituals of exchanging property. (Those are the roots of marriage, look it up).
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