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decayingkitten wrote:

It was pretty akward. He just stared at me and asked if i was feeling well. After I told him, that I couldn't deal with a relationship anymore. He walked out of the room without saying anything. Idk what happened, but that was the end of that. Never talked to him again. Tho, my friend tells me he still stalks me on facebook.


thats kind of funny and sad at the same time.
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Phersu wrote:

How do you get over the person you break up with?



and the other question, how do you know when you're over someone? I'm still not sure.
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ThtGy wrote:

and the other question, how do you know when you're over someone? I'm still not sure.


Because you're in front of them. Leap frog isn't hard.
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Posted 10/31/14 , edited 1/8/15

Phersu wrote:


Because you're in front of them. Leap frog isn't hard.


Instructions unclear: dick caught in ceiling fan
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Posted 10/31/14

ThtGy wrote:

Instructions unclear: dick caught in ceiling fan


Close enough.
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Posted 10/31/14
It sucks unless you're truly heartless. Takes time to move on too (that is unless you're heartless).

Everybody is different though.
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Posted 10/31/14
Never.
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Posted 10/31/14 , edited 1/6/15
Well i just broke up with my BF we had been together for awhile but the relationship just seemed to be going no where. I had to think about what i wanted and what i wanted in life. It wasnt an easy decision but i finally got enough courage to say good bye. Im sad but im moving on its been three weeks. I live each day to the fullest knowing that something or someone will come along. And if they dont then at least i would have known love than not to have loved at all.
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Posted 10/31/14 , edited 10/31/14
For some, breaking up can be more devastating than grieving over a deceased loved one. It can take a week to get over it, it can take years. There isn't a proper time frame to process a loss, if you view the breakup as such. There isn't an instruction manual that I know of, but there is a bunch of resources and support out there for people if they look.
Posted 10/31/14

Phersu wrote:

How do you get over the person you break up with?



they both look happy.
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Posted 10/31/14
Break-ups are hard. If they're easy, then the relationship was 'doomed from the start', but if they're easy that means there were no feeling either one way or both...
I've never broken up with someone because I never liked making them sad/angry, but I've been broken up with plenty of times.
Though there was only one relationship where it hit me so hard, I didn't date for a long while.

It's all on you, what do you want to do, and what do they wanna do.

Ask some questions like ; 'Do you think this will go anywhere?' or something like that.
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Posted 10/31/14

ThtGy wrote:


Phersu wrote:


Because you're in front of them. Leap frog isn't hard.


Instructions unclear: dick caught in ceiling fan


How did you get down? Was the fan moving so that it got cut off?

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Posted 10/31/14
I've been through a few breakups. It really depended on the person and on my own level of maturity. The first couple relationships I had were the toughest because I was freshly out of high school and I had just started dating (was too involved with friends and band and whatnot in school to even have thought about trying to date anyone). I acted like a young child with the first one, and the second one was obviously no good for me but I stayed with the guy for three years through a lot of dumb shit before I finally got the balls to break it off.

Since then it's been pretty easy. If it's obvious that things aren't really heading in any direction or that the feelings aren't there as much anymore then I just break it off. Sometimes the other person has broken it off. I don't let it get to me since there are tons of people out there and there's bound to be someone that works really well with me at some point. Right now I feel like the guy I'm dating could be a person like that (and he has been so far in the past months), but I won't hold my breath. If I'd let myself get too into/invested too soon then it'd just spell destruction on my mental state if it were to end, so instead I just coast and enjoy the ride.
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Posted 10/31/14 , edited 10/31/14
Broken to pieces :'-) Dumped through text twice in a row.. and man were those the dark days. I'm probably just a terrible bf xD
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This is difficult but necessary sometimes for both people.
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