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Posted 10/31/14

TheOmegaForce70941 wrote:

Have you ever broken up with someone? If so, how did you handle it?


I remember I wrote a poem

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Posted 10/31/14


He's such a dork. I would give him another chance, but I honestly don't have time for a relationship.
Idek I'll think about it.
Posted 10/31/14

It was so akward. I felt like I was in some sort of soap opera, tho subtract the drama.
So it was just ...blank? He never even answered my "i'm sorry it had to end this way" text. SMH
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I had been divorced.
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I've broken up with a girl before and I really wish I had handled better. I found out she was cheating on me, but I was in so much denial that i had been trailing her to see her with her new "guy friend" even though I knew they were sleeping around. In the end, it became very messy as I wish I had been more mature and handled it calmly. But regardless of this messy disastrous breakup, it taught me a lot, and showed me many things, the dos and the don'ts.

I can only hope to move forward thinking positively, and with the mindset that, I won't ever let something like that happen again.
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ive ended things myself 4/7 times. its best to just be a man about it, like ripping a old band aid off
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Never been in a relationship so idk, but since I am "the mom" out of my group of friends I got to be on the hearing end of many a conversation (if a girl sobbing and making incoherent sounds counts as a conversation?) about them. They seem like a hassle imo BUT most of the times necessary =\
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Kinda shaking since he cheated on me, and had to find out by his other girlfriend. Just did it on the spot.
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I didn't handle it.


I still haven't.
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Posted 10/31/14

decayingkitten wrote:


It was so akward. I felt like I was in some sort of soap opera, tho subtract the drama.
So it was just ...blank? He never even answered my "i'm sorry it had to end this way" text. SMH


Lol. i guess he didnt kno what to respond.
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To be honest, most of my breakups were handled pretty well. I didn't take it to the extreme or anything. I just realized it was time to move on.

The only one that really "stung" painfully if you will, was when I was friends with this one girl. We technically weren't even dating, but we knew we liked each other. We talked everyday, all night. Our convos were very intimate, and it felt like at any moment one of us was going to give in to our emotions.

But then it happened. One day, she randomly blocked me on everything and avoided me for a month out of the blue. I freaked out pretty badly because I had no idea what just happened. I e-mailed her, texted her, asking her what wth happened? A month later she eventually responded to me and told me she was sorry, but I never really got a legit answer. It wasn't until 2 years later that she came clean and told me that she freaked out because she realized she had fallen for me. She had just gotten out of a serious relationship and was too scared to jump into another one.

It took me a while to get over that one, but now I look back and am thankful that it happened instead of sad that our time passed by. We're still friends til this day.

It's funny how the one girl I didn't actually date, was the one that stung the most.
Posted 10/31/14 , edited 1/12/15
I felt free. I was really happy that I can hang out with my friends and do whatever single people can do.
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Posted 11/2/14

Atheyon wrote:

I didn't handle it.


I still haven't.


Well then, how do you wish you handled it?
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Posted 11/2/14
in all of my relationships, the person i broke up with couldn't respect it and tried to guilt trip me into coming back to them and stuff like that and i'd end up thinking i did something wrong when really they were assholes
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Uh, they started crying and I felt like shit. I don't really believe in the 'friends' after dating, but I think you can still be nice to them and give 'em space kind of thing.
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