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Posted 12/26/16 , edited 12/27/16
Breakups and Revenge

Revenge Your Ex

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like "Get Revenge On Your Ex"
for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge.

So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
nude photos of her and so on.

The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It's much
better to show you are indifferent and don't care.

According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
helping men find young beautiful foreign women, "The best revenge is to date
or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
or more successful.

I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
Russia." says Agee, "The client told me that two days on our tour was better
than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.

I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
pounds. I don't look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
who saved me from my ex and years of suffering." This is the best a revenge
when you win without lowering yourself.

Other sites like "Get Over Her Now" give practical advice and tips for
getting over a past relationship.

Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:

Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.

Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.

Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your

Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don't let a break up effect
your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
and help attract better quality women.

Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off.

Don't start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
something, don't drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.

Don't sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be

Don't binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
attracted to.

Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!
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Posted 12/28/16 , edited 12/28/16
crie for like 3 months straight, then get over them. spend 2-5 months trying not to check up on them.
giving up halfway and actually stalk them. then cry again. Q AQ
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Posted 12/28/16 , edited 12/28/16
Face to face. Kept it honest and short, then let the silence take sometime before I walked away. Not sure if she ever cried about it. But in secret, I did cry about it afterwards, never ever told anyone that. Kind of wierd because the break up was my idea.
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Posted 12/28/16 , edited 12/28/16
hello guys. it is nice to meet you all. can i kindly ask for some advice? ;w;
Posted 12/28/16 , edited 12/28/16

qualeshia3 wrote:

Never had a relationship to begin with.

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Posted 1/2/17 , edited 1/3/17

yes It was hard to accept at first but things happen for a reason. In my case, I know I deserve better.. I learned to love myself even more and to love my life.. life goes on. keep ya head up and just keep moving forward.
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23 / Earth 616
Posted 1/2/17 , edited 1/3/17
First, I would send the victim some flowers.
To signify how beautiful our relationship was.

Some time later, I send them a rabbit.
The rabbit symbolizes the sex life we led.

I cook them a fabulous dinner accompanied with baiser de la mort wine.
And that will be the death of them.

At the end of the night, I leave their body with a love letter.
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27 / M / San Diego, CA
Posted 1/3/17 , edited 1/4/17
My last serious relationship was years ago when I found out my GF was going to school across the country I ended it. Didn't want to hold her back or worry if she was getting the dick from someone else. It sucked for a couple of months but got over it. Enjoyed all the extra money I had all of a sudden that I haven't had a girlfriend since just random flings :D.
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Posted 1/3/17 , edited 1/4/17
Yup - I don't like being replaced or have competition or not be some sort of priority, so I dump before I get dumped. The past, handling it seemed pretty easy. I pretty much try to forget them, but annoyingly, they come back to stalk me or have high hopes of rekindling (which I take pleasure in shooting down). It doesn't help that I'm all over social media, so it's easy for them to follow me around..
Posted 1/3/17 , edited 1/4/17
I don't really count the online relationships, since i never met them, nor did they last very long. But yeah, i suppose i'm used to break ups. I think most of the time i was the one that was dumped, doesn't bother me though. From what i've learned though, online relationships are nothing but torture in my opinion, and aren't any better than being single.
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36 / M / SoFlo
Posted 1/3/17 , edited 1/4/17
My 1st break up went so-so. I did it face to face and I was completely honest with her. She was a great gf, we didn't argue much, sex was good, but I just knew she wasn't the one for me. We were together for 2 years and in your teens that's like a lifetime. I was going off to college and knew the relationship wouldn't last long distance. I knew I would be tempted by college girls and eventually cheat on her. I broke it off a month before I left. She took it pretty bad. She cried a lot and said she thought we where going to get married. I just wanted to leave the little town I grew up in and start fresh in the "big city".

She got a rebound boy friend in like a week. That made me kinda angry that she moved on so quickly after we had a good thing for 2 years. Then I saw a picture of the guy and he was some tobacco chewing, redneck construction worker. She was just fishing for anything.

But it looks like I made the right decisions in breaking up with her, instead of fooling myself into thinking it would last once I left. I literally hooked up my first day.
Posted 1/3/17 , edited 1/4/17
I broke up with best friend from high school. We decided to give dating a try, and ended up dating for half a year. After a while though, it just didn't feel right to me. I mean I liked her and all, but I couldn't see us being more than friends.

So one day, I told her to meet me because I needed to talk to her. I basically told her that I couldn't see her and I being more than friends. Well.....that got her crying instantly. She kept asking why, and what did she do wrong. It was pretty tough. Then she asked if we could still be friends, and I told her yeah but it may be a bit awkward at first. Believe me, it was. To this day though, we're still friends. We just don't talk as often anymore and she does have a son now.
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Posted 1/3/17 , edited 1/4/17
I love break ups, always feel good when you get you're freedom nam. My last gf broke up with me.. should of see the look on her face when I went to asia for 6 months lol
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38 / M / Shanghai China
Posted 1/3/17 , edited 1/4/17
The first time it hurts but after it happens a lot it doesn't hurt no more and you don't care and you are like whatever your lost
Posted 1/3/17 , edited 1/4/17
I've only had two serious relationships, and I ended both of them.

The first one, was with a guy who was older than me by about five years. We were actually really good together. Both mature, had goals, high paying jobs with stable hours, etc. Except for he never let me see my family. I could definitely see his, but when it came to mine. I was only able to spend about thirty minutes with them before I could go home. I went two years without talking to my family. Until one day, I just got up and moved in with my mom because she was crying, telling me to come home. So I did, and never looked back, was really happy. But he would drive by and call me, until like two weeks later, he hated my guts, hahaha, idgaf.

Second one, was with a guy that was the same age as me. We had different motives though. I was focused on school and work, with stable hours and shit. And he was pretty sheltered, worked like less than part time and weren't stable hours, didn't try in school. He was a great guy, I think that if he were to mature up or atleast show some initiative that he's trying to push to be a better version, and wasn't super content with where he's at right now. We would have probably worked out. My family loved him, and his family loved me. We were able to act immature with each other, but ya know, we can't be like that all the time...

I'm single now, and in no rush, I will find the one eventually. And we'll have two dogs, one named crispy and the other named donut. And kids eventually, with a house, etc.
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