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Do you sometimes feel alone even though you have friends?
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Posted 11/4/14
the only time i don't feel alone is when i'm actually alone...
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Posted 11/4/14 , edited 11/4/14
Sometimes I can feel very lonely right after I leave from meeting a close friend, or stop voice chatting with them. It's like it hits me the same second I'm being alone... It's weird because I'm most of the time alone and I'm fine with it, but I hate the feeling I get sometimes. It seems to hit me the most at times when I'm sad or stressed about something.
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Posted 11/4/14
Yes, once in a blue moon. Even when talking to friends I feel that way.
I try my best to ignore it. I tend to be more independent and distant from others.
It doesn't bother me after I've come to realize that when you die you'll end up completely
alone so don't waste what you have.
Not the best thought ,but thats what gets me through it.

Often It has a positive effect on me. I tend to daydream a lot
or find new ideas this way. I rarely have to give myself a quick pep
talk about life,death, and loneliness.

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if you feel alone even if a crowd lives with you or are your friends then you might be suffering from clinical depression.seek help!
Posted 11/4/14
Friends are only temporary.
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Posted 11/4/14

perrandy wrote:

if you feel alone even if a crowd lives with you or are your friends then you might be suffering from clinical depression.seek help!


Clinical depression, huh?
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Posted 11/4/14 , edited 11/4/14
If any of you are into deeper astrology.. You'll understand the following statements pretty well if you read the spoiler.. If not into astrology, skip the spoiler lmao..

I probably feel most alone when I am surrounded by large groups of people.. Unless it is some type of festive gathering(lmao).. I've always felt like I was on the outside looking in.. I am someone who often feels isolated, yet never feel alone.. Lmao(yes, it is contradicting.. But if you've been there, you'll understand)
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22 / M / Chicago, IL
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Posted 11/4/14
I do, but not really. Though, I don't have any friends outside the internet. Sooooo...
Posted 11/5/14
I definitely do. There's only one friend I have that I actually don't feel alone with and I love her to death. I'm pretty positive she's my friend soulmate :).
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I do, but I think it's because I don't really open up to them as much as I could, and only communicate with them like every 6 months (I'm not exaggerating, I pretty much only contact them when there's something I really feel like doing). I also feel like we don't really connect on many levels, so even when I am with them it's like we have a lot of small things in common, but we're all at different places on the more important things.
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26 / M / California
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Posted 11/5/14
All the time.
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25 / F / New Jersey, USA
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Posted 11/5/14

ReadingTheStars95 wrote:

If any of you are into deeper astrology.. You'll understand the following statements pretty well if you read the spoiler.. If not into astrology, skip the spoiler lmao..

I probably feel most alone when I am surrounded by large groups of people.. Unless it is some type of festive gathering(lmao).. I've always felt like I was on the outside looking in.. I am someone who often feels isolated, yet never feel alone.. Lmao(yes, it is contradicting.. But if you've been there, you'll understand)


I'm a Sagittarius.
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Posted 11/5/14 , edited 11/6/14

SkullLeader001 wrote:

Your paragraph makes perfect sense to me. I'm the exact same way to be honest. I have a handful of friends that I'm super close with on top of being part of the best family I could have ever been able to have been a part of. However, despite having these wonderful people in my life I feel lonely. When I feel this way it gets me pretty down. The weirdest thing is that I feel lonely even when I'm around them. I don't know how to explain that phenomenon honestly being around someone and feeling alone. Maybe society demands too much of us sometimes. I mean that we see all these tv shows, movies, ads with people always having at least one person around enjoying themselves or people having fun in a group and just maybe this is giving us a false sense of what our live are supposed to be like. So when you're by yourself you feel like some sort of a failure. Maybe that's just me. Anyway, I can agree with you that it might have something to do with our self-esteem because mine of low as fudge.

I know this is off topic but that profile picture hilarious desu. xD
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24 / M / Iowa >.>
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Posted 11/5/14
sometimes, mostly because most of them are into different things than I am
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33 / M / Seattle
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Posted 11/6/14
For me, definitely. It's just that friends come and go, and that's where the loneliness comes from as far as I'm concerned and it's that day when the realization comes full circle when things go bad. And then there are the differences in interest that make it quite difficult for me to become full-fledged friends. Then there are activities that I do just to be with them, but not exactly stuff I get a kick out of doing, so there's that angle to consider as well.
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