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There was one girl who I actually joined Crunchyroll to find after the previous time she disappeared. I had originally met her on an MMO, and apparently brought her to her realization that she was not, in fact, a lesbian. Later, though, she left me over a misunderstanding. Sadly she seems to have abandoned the internet shortly after blocking me on MSN because she thought I had blocked her. I'll never forget her though.



never lost a girlfriend because of something as stupid as that, but lost a friend. Was in an elevator in San Fran when we were disconnected. He immediately took that as I hung up on him, and decided that I was a psychopath and stopped talking to me.

Mind you, I was in San Fran hunting for a place to live after he totally ditched me a month before I had told my work and landlord at the time that I was planning to move across the country, and this was all due to his desires to move back out west, except... haha.. as I said, he at the last minute decided not to.... f**ker.

And it wasn't the first time he had pulled that shit on me. Once we just didn't speak for two years because he got a bug up his ass.. And his damned phone calls.. Kept me on the phone longer than my girlfriend at the time.

*sigh*

I just didn't care really. By then I had been through such emotional turmoil with women that would cheat, lie, and take advantage of my kindness so much (seriously... I put up with soooooooo much crap back then... now just see someone interested in me and it's like, "Ok, what are you REALLY after? is it because you think I'm "OMFG AMAZING" and really it's you looking up to me and mistaking it for love, or is it becase you mistake helping you out and being kind to you as somethiong to love, or what else... Rarely does someone see me for just being a person)

Anyway, I was over it. Inside I felt very tired and weary and had already decided hated pursuing people for any reason. Love, friendship, money, etc... I don't kick anyone out, but the choice to leave is always their own.Meanwhile, I don't really have much love left to give. Or rather, give to a singular person, anymore.
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I'm close friends with this girl, we talk to each other everyday. Long story short, she says she isn't looking for a relationship because she wants to focus on school and I respect that. She still wants to talk to me and be close with me though, so I got that going.
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I know, I completely stopped talking to my co-worker (she's a beauty) because I don't want to be distracted in the middle of work nor fall in love with her.
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I already have my waifu.


Posted 11/13/14
I don't think I fell in love.. maybe it was a crush.

I have done what you stated above. I don't even know why I do it. :/
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Posted 11/13/14

DudeItsMark wrote:

I'm close friends with this girl, we talk to each other everyday. Long story short, she says she isn't looking for a relationship because she wants to focus on school and I respect that. She still wants to talk to me and be close with me though, so I got that going.


just curious, why are you holding out for it when she's turned you down? It's not like after she graduates, "VOILA!!!" she has time and wants to date you. And chances are she'll find someone she's interested in enough that that reason just isn't enough. I'm asking in honesty, not trying to be a downer. Just.. why?
Posted 11/13/14 , edited 11/13/14

Yuikitty204 wrote:

I had a crush on this guy in my freshman year of high school. He was so adorable nice sweet..... , I MEAN! ER..... anyway... i was the tsundere girl... i would not know how to react when he calls me cute or talks to me. So i just say an insult, walk away, and then fangirl over it.


Omfg, I DO THIS. I don't know why I do this but I do this.. and then, he gets the wrong idea and we stop talking My fault for being a 'tsundere' though.


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One: My dumb self didn't stay in touch.
Two: Learned she was crazy then I ran away.
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I had a crush back an high school. Got over it, later. Meh.. I got other things to worry about anyway. lol.
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I was told that I was 'leading him' and was a 'tease' I had no idea what had just happened so this was me:



I had always thought that we were best franz and shit. After I recouped from the shock I thought it would be a good idea to actually give it a try and then he responded saying that "he couldn't take it anymore" and just stopped talking to me...



Boyz are confusing too :|

Posted 11/13/14
Had a girl I talked to for 3 years. Actually liked her and she knew that. At one point she said she liked me too but it was long distance and she kept dating other guys and I am just not a normal person I guess. I can't make a girls needs. So I gave up on girls at that point.
She was the only person I found that was similar too me.
Females man..
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its hard for a guy to be 'just friends' .

friends may be friends to you, but the first step to a relationship to him.

just my .02
Posted 11/13/14

nemoskull wrote:

its hard for a guy to be 'just friends' .

friends may be friends to you, but the first step to a relationship to him.

just my .02


quoted for the god damn truth
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Of course. It's called moving on instead of looking back at your ex.
We were dating for half a year and right when the school year ends, she decides to end everything. I do have to admit it was a sad ending. And that following year, I heard she wish she had the friendship that we once had back again. Not say, but she led me on, I just dealt with it but when the break happened, I just let it happen.

Another one was the year after with one of my crushes, I couldn't stop thinking about her even after getting rejected by her, although we went to prom together. And the week before prom, I confronted her saying that, "I still haven't given up my affection for you. And you probably have but I just want to say, after prom, I want to break all emotional ties with each other so I can move on." We were still friends after and still talked. But not as much.
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madly in love
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Posted 11/13/14 , edited 11/13/14

nemoskull wrote:

its hard for a guy to be 'just friends' .

friends may be friends to you, but the first step to a relationship to him.

just my .02


Totally disagree. It happens to guys with girls as well. I could practically live a harem anime...
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