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Never truly being in love. I am trying to find that special some one.
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Love thread? Guardian of love? Where's nanikore2 when you need one?


I'm not needed in here because it's really an infatuation thread
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I have stopped talking to people who i felt were special to me before, and even now. Namely due to the feeling of it being hard for me to look someone in the eye with any, let alone the same, amount of love and respect when they could care less. My pattern of women isn't a flattering image, and as such has brought me to a point where i find myself not willing to open up as often. Contrary to my somewhat hyper extroverted tendencies, the metaphoric shell which is the oyster of my trust seems to be getting tighter and tighter as the years progress. So many former interests and even close friends have I just cut off from my life, so many.
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I'm close friends with this girl, we talk to each other everyday. Long story short, she says she isn't looking for a relationship because she wants to focus on school and I respect that. She still wants to talk to me and be close with me though, so I got that going.


just curious, why are you holding out for it when she's turned you down? It's not like after she graduates, "VOILA!!!" she has time and wants to date you. And chances are she'll find someone she's interested in enough that that reason just isn't enough. I'm asking in honesty, not trying to be a downer. Just.. why?


Well she did tell me "not yet" so I still have a chance. And she never had such a close guy friend (and she's the type to have mostly female friends) so I mean quite a bit to her. I didn't want to get into too much detail because I'd be writing a story. At least we have a mutual thing going on. Thing is, I'm also busy with college and football. So before we get into a committed relationship, we have time to succeed in the classroom and establish a future. But thanks for being curious? Haha.
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Posted 11/14/14

DudeItsMark wrote:


serifsansserif wrote:


DudeItsMark wrote:

I'm close friends with this girl, we talk to each other everyday. Long story short, she says she isn't looking for a relationship because she wants to focus on school and I respect that. She still wants to talk to me and be close with me though, so I got that going.


just curious, why are you holding out for it when she's turned you down? It's not like after she graduates, "VOILA!!!" she has time and wants to date you. And chances are she'll find someone she's interested in enough that that reason just isn't enough. I'm asking in honesty, not trying to be a downer. Just.. why?


Well she did tell me "not yet" so I still have a chance. And she never had such a close guy friend (and she's the type to have mostly female friends) so I mean quite a bit to her. I didn't want to get into too much detail because I'd be writing a story. At least we have a mutual thing going on. Thing is, I'm also busy with college and football. So before we get into a committed relationship, we have time to succeed in the classroom and establish a future. But thanks for being curious? Haha.


hmmmm... ok.... thanks for the answer.
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Posted 11/14/14

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its hard for a guy to be 'just friends' .

friends may be friends to you, but the first step to a relationship to him.

just my .02


Totally disagree. It happens to guys with girls as well. I could practically live a harem anime...


well, your 33 and im 31, things have definitly changed as i got older.
Posted 11/14/14

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"not yet"


I've said something like that to a few people before. I never meant it. I just didn't want to have to deal with the drama that comes after "No."
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Yep. She closed her Facebook account, so the best way we keep in "contact" is by liking each other's instagram pics, just to let each other know we still matter a bit to each other.
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Nope
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Someone I was in love with? No.

Someone I was interested in, yes. Only because they turned out to be rather creepy/stalker-ish.
Or caused too much drama.
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Well.. At first I loved him and cared about him, but I got a wee bit paranoid about him being..well, someone who could endanger me and I realized we didn't have much in common. I'm glad I did it, though. Not too long after breaking up with him I got together with my current boyfriend (who's the absolute love of my life, must I say).
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nemoskull wrote:


serifsansserif wrote:


nemoskull wrote:

its hard for a guy to be 'just friends' .

friends may be friends to you, but the first step to a relationship to him.

just my .02


Totally disagree. It happens to guys with girls as well. I could practically live a harem anime...


well, your 33 and im 31, things have definitly changed as i got older.


Lol.. I think somehow I misread that to mean it doesn't affect women. Which it totally does. And you're right it has to do with age.

Some women having a preference for older men plus some of the women our age having a biological clock ticking plus the rapid pairing off that happens throughout your 20's, plus the failed relationships that women are trying to bounce back from... Ungh... If you're not a complete a**hole and you sorta seem like you have your sh** in order, and you're average looking or better, you're golden in your early 30's.
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There's currently this very handsome guy, I don't know whether he's my age, younger or older, at my high school who looks like a cross between a musician and an actor, both very attractive themselves, expect in more of a … conventionally cute teen way. I've actually been crushing on his face for a while. And on the last day of school before winter break, well, he talked to me for a pretty damn long time, we were in the classroom playing Wii and SSBB and I was having fun trying to teach him and the other guys how to work the controls LOL. He treated me like a human being, unlike the majority of my classmates who act with scorn because I've had some stingy moments. we showed each other pictures of our dogs, selfies, and talked about gaming. He seemed like a real sweetie. Which is RARE AS FUCK WITH HIGH SCHOOL BOYS. He asked me about my future studies too! I got to finally tell someone I want to be a psychologist or be with animals! I was so unbelievably happy because I was talking to a tangible human being who listened to me and told me about what lied ahead scholastically, such as the novel question that everyone at my school has, "is the government class difficult". I was fluttering and floating because not only did a guy pay attention to me and not call me some rude name, but he talked to me like a person!!!!

Of course, now I came back after break only to find that he probably doesn't remember me well enough- given, we are in separate classes and he's approaching graduation, but I thought he'd remember. That's the most heart lurching thing to me. I swear he glimpses at me, but it may just be a retort if I accidentally end up staring at him, for all I know. Either way, it's humiliating, today I buried my head in my hands and sat at a desk in the lunchroom. And then I started thinking. Then my face essentially turned bright pink and I had to flee the room. I feel like I'm in middle school again, and I am as socially inept as ever and can't even say "hi" to a damn boy!! Ugh!!


Its a literal case of "notice me senpai", im just going to assume he's about 17-18… close enough. He's ahead of me in school at least.
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There's currently this very handsome guy, I don't know whether he's my age, younger or older, at my high school who looks like a cross between a musician and an actor, both very attractive themselves, expect in more of a … conventionally cute teen way. I've actually been crushing on his face for a while. And on the last day of school before winter break, well, he talked to me for a pretty damn long time, we were in the classroom playing Wii and SSBB and I was having fun trying to teach him and the other guys how to work the controls LOL. He treated me like a human being, unlike the majority of my classmates who act with scorn because I've had some stingy moments. we showed each other pictures of our dogs, selfies, and talked about gaming. He seemed like a real sweetie. Which is RARE AS FUCK WITH HIGH SCHOOL BOYS. He asked me about my future studies too! I got to finally tell someone I want to be a psychologist or be with animals! I was so unbelievably happy because I was talking to a tangible human being who listened to me and told me about what lied ahead scholastically, such as the novel question that everyone at my school has, "is the government class difficult". I was fluttering and floating because not only did a guy pay attention to me and not call me some rude name, but he talked to me like a person!!!!

Of course, now I came back after break only to find that he probably doesn't remember me well enough- given, we are in separate classes and he's approaching graduation, but I thought he'd remember. That's the most heart lurching thing to me. I swear he glimpses at me, but it may just be a retort if I accidentally end up staring at him, for all I know. Either way, it's humiliating, today I buried my head in my hands and sat at a desk in the lunchroom. And then I started thinking. Then my face essentially turned bright pink and I had to flee the room. I feel like I'm in middle school again, and I am as socially inept as ever and can't even say "hi" to a damn boy!! Ugh!!


Its a literal case of "notice me senpai", im just going to assume he's about 17-18… close enough. He's ahead of me in school at least.




That was nice to read! (almost like a shoujo story) maybe he is wondering the same thing as you? I'm also socially inept so I understand how hard it is to take the first step when it comes to approaching people but communication is the key to everything...it would be cool to see you take the first step and not let what could be a nice friendship die. Good luck!

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kirika202 wrote:

That was nice to read! (almost like a shoujo story) maybe he is wondering the same thing as you? I'm also socially inept so I understand how hard it is to take the first step when it comes to approaching people but communication is the key to everything...it would be cool to see you take the first step and not let what could be a nice friendship die. Good luck!




I have no idea, but I am very intrigued. He's actually far from the socialist of his friends himself but still pretty well known enough. He's so well behaved, my only fear is that he may be gay, while there's nothing wrong with that, it takes the "unobtainable" thing to a whole new level.
I still want him though. I just don't know where I can make the pounce. He's got a small dog and a cute car, I think I might just die if he even becomes friends with me.
We've actually bumped into each other by the bathrooms as well. Yeah I remember, after break, first or second day I almost plowed him over by the bathroom entrances- and kind of had to stagger back up to my feet after nearly falling, he just kind of looked at me with beiwlderment and apologized. I slinked away with my face hot as ever.

He also has the same name as my near middle school boyfriend. It's coincidential and kind of an odd coincidence if you ask me.

Still though…
I AM AN EMBARRASSING AND KLUTZY CHILD AND WHY DOESN'T ESP EXIST SO I CAN READ YOUR MIND, BOY?
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