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piratequeen369 wrote:

:) Thank you for whatever you were trying to do, though, much appreciated ;)


well, i did want to tell you that you are one. but that's telling and won't make you see it. that part does not have to coexist with success. the wanting and trying makes up the bulk of it.


I want to say that you're wrong but I really don't know. Wouldn't it be really pointless to live lots of years just to find out that your trying and believing will not ever help you?

That sounds really depressing but that's seriously how I think I will end up. That thought really scares me but I think it's a possibility.
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I want to say that you're wrong but I really don't know. Wouldn't it be really pointless to live lots of years just to find out that your trying and believing will not ever help you?

That sounds really depressing but that's seriously how I think I will end up. That thought really scares me but I think it's a possibility.


no, somehow along the way you start to see that it's not worth it and you never cared about it as much as you'd liked to think it was worth.
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severticas wrote:


piratequeen369 wrote:

I want to say that you're wrong but I really don't know. Wouldn't it be really pointless to live lots of years just to find out that your trying and believing will not ever help you?

That sounds really depressing but that's seriously how I think I will end up. That thought really scares me but I think it's a possibility.


no, somehow along the way you start to see that it's not worth it and you never cared about it as much as you'd liked to think it was worth.


I really hope you believe the words you're saying
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I really hope you believe the words you're saying


you don't find those words comforting? nyah? T-T i want my mommy.
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you don't find those words comforting? nyah? T-T i want my mommy.


What?
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someones hips told me the same, and we all know hips dont lie.
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Im proud of who I am :D
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piratequeen369 wrote:


Zachary765 wrote:

I wish that was something I could help you with that but I feel there isn't much someone else can do for someone in that situation. I guess it's something you learn as you go through life. The only thing I can say is do what makes you happy. I feel as long as your happy with yourself and life then It attracts happiness.


Right, thanks, I was sort of hoping someone would say they know a fool-proof way to be yourself but I guess it doesn't exist. Nice avatar by the way, One Piece is awesome :)


I wish there was :/ but hey I'm very glad you decided to come to the thread and let me know what your thoughts are about it all! Also One Piece is so amazing!




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Who I am absolutely sucks though.


I'm sure your not As bad as you make yourself out to be try to stay positive!




jcrnich wrote:

Not many seem to understand this but being present and accepting of yourself is the key to your problems. I've noticed that failing to be myself is one of the biggest triggers to my anxiety and some bad habits. I've struggled a lot with reconciling my true nature and it can be a painful process; but through accepting our present moment emotions a whole new word opens up. Resistance to what is, is one of the greatest sources of pain. I'm a painfully awkward person as well, but it wasn't until I accepted that I've found peace and even a few friends and lovers. I know what it feels like to feel bad about yourself but you gotta learn from those feelings and try to not get stuck into any emotionally damaging habits or thinking patterns. I am lonely sometimes too and for anyone else who is, you are not alone. I think acceptance of yourself (even the bad) and reaching out really help with these things. I think loneliness stems from feeling no one really knows you, hence why it is so important to be yourself. You gotta love yourself for true, fulfilling change to occur.


We'll said! Once you have accepted who you are I feel it leads to nothing but happiness!
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You don't know me bro.
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You don't know me bro.



This is true but I'm still sure that your not as bad as you make yourself out to be. Talking bad about. Yourself doesn't help anything.
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This is true but I'm still sure that your not as bad as you make yourself out to be. Talking bad about. Yourself doesn't help anything.


One of many of my terrible traits is how self- depreciating I am. Usually just annoys people.
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haikinka wrote:


Zachary765 wrote:

This is true but I'm still sure that your not as bad as you make yourself out to be. Talking bad about. Yourself doesn't help anything.


One of many of my terrible traits is how self- depreciating I am. Usually just annoys people.



Well I may not like to see it because despite what you say I'm sure your a very likable person. I hope someday you'll change how you feel about yourself and I'd be glad to add you to my buddy list and talk. That's obviously only if you want to. I love meeting new people and love to help people in anyway I can.
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Well I may not like to see it because despite what you say I'm sure your a very likable person. I hope someday you'll change how you feel about yourself and I'd be glad to add you to my buddy list and talk. That's obviously only if you want to. I love meeting new people and love to help people in anyway I can.


You're a good man.
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haikinka wrote:


Zachary765 wrote:

Well I may not like to see it because despite what you say I'm sure your a very likable person. I hope someday you'll change how you feel about yourself and I'd be glad to add you to my buddy list and talk. That's obviously only if you want to. I love meeting new people and love to help people in anyway I can.


You're a good man.


Thank you, that means a lot. I'm glad you decided to comment on my thread. Feel free to add me or message me if you ever want to talk! :)
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Proud to be Asian! Proud to be American! Proud to be Christian! Proud of to be a human being! Proud to be me!
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