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Sex is Overrated?
Posted 11/18/14 , edited 11/24/14
Do you believe sex is overrated? Fundamentally, it's no different than masturbation in my opinion. I'm still a virgin, but it seems to me sex is vastly overrated, especially today with the media over hype. An overly difficult, and not enjoyable task where you are forced to satisfy someone else. That what sex sounds like to me. Of course, I am a virgin, so what do I know...
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Posted 11/18/14
It really depends on the person. I happen to mostly agree with the OP's sentiment, but I'm an introvert, so I prefer to keep that sort of thing private. It takes a strong connection for someone like me to want to have sex with someone; without that, it's an uncomfortable invasion of privacy first and foremost.

That said, it's generally understood that that sort of outlook is the exception rather than the rule. There are plenty of people who see sex as a fairly high priority, and while I can't understand them, I'm not going to say they're wrong just because they're different from me.
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Posted 11/18/14 , edited 11/18/14
Lol it is. I prefer to just fap. Out of all the girls I have been with..only one was worth all the work I put in. Sex is only cool until you have it.
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Posted 11/18/14 , edited 11/20/14
Disagree.
But I do agree that most men only care about their own pleasure... therefore that can make the experience disappointing.

I like men that care about my pleasure after he had his share. and drive the way i want... that means it has to include touching and lots of kissing In such cases, sex is great... and it makes me happy.

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Hey Bro, since we are both young males you shouldn't worry about it.
Sure you see it on movies and shows but sex isn't even a big deal.
If it happens, it would happen naturally, nothing else to think or revolve around it.
At my school no one cares, heck that isn't even a topic you hear anywhere at ALL
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Posted 11/18/14 , edited 11/24/14
Blow job is the happy medium for me since I'm not the guy that always have a condom with me but I don't always have the great imagination to be motivated to fap.
Posted 11/18/14 , edited 11/19/14

Flazedge wrote:

Hey Bro, since we are both young males you shouldn't worry about it.
Sure you see it on movies and shows but sex isn't even a big deal.
If it happens, it would happen naturally, nothing else to think or revolve around it.
At my school no one cares, heck that isn't even a topic you hear anywhere at ALL


I'm not worrying, this is a revelation I come across as a young teenager. Sex just seems overrated. Sex just for the sake of sex seems empty. Of course, if it was someone special, I would concede, but for the most part, it seems fairly overrated. Masturbation seems much more efficient, friendlier, and far safer.

What's funny is I have a fairly high sex drive, but no real desire to have sex.
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Posted 11/18/14
I agree with you. It is overrated.
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Posted 11/18/14 , edited 11/18/14

PeripheralVisionary wrote:

Do you believe sex is overrated? Fundamentally, it's no different than masturbation in my opinion. I'm still a virgin, but it seems to me sex is vastly overrated, especially today with the media over hype. An overly difficult, and not enjoyable task where you are forced to satisfy someone else. That what sex sounds like to me. Of course, I am a virgin, so what do I know...


Intercourse is overrated. Other kinds of sex, it depends. You can still have a great time without going the whole way.


PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I'm not worrying, this is a revelation I come across as a young teenager. Sex just seems overrated. Sex just for the sake of sex seems empty. Of course, if it was someone special, I would concede, but for the most part, it seems fairly overrated. Masturbation seems much more efficient, friendlier, and far safer.

What's funny is I have a fairly high sex drive, but no real desire to have sex.


Have you seen the movie Don Jon? LOL it's almost exactly about what you've said above!
Posted 11/18/14 , edited 11/20/14
Sex is much better than masturbation lol. It is fairly dependent on the partner though...
Posted 11/18/14
More to sex than just sex.
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Posted 11/18/14 , edited 11/30/14
Sex makes babies.
Posted 11/18/14

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PeripheralVisionary wrote:

Do you believe sex is overrated? Fundamentally, it's no different than masturbation in my opinion. I'm still a virgin, but it seems to me sex is vastly overrated, especially today with the media over hype. An overly difficult, and not enjoyable task where you are forced to satisfy someone else. That what sex sounds like to me. Of course, I am a virgin, so what do I know...


Intercourse is overrated. Other kinds of sex, it depends. You can still have a great time without going the whole way.


PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I'm not worrying, this is a revelation I come across as a young teenager. Sex just seems overrated. Sex just for the sake of sex seems empty. Of course, if it was someone special, I would concede, but for the most part, it seems fairly overrated. Masturbation seems much more efficient, friendlier, and far safer.

What's funny is I have a fairly high sex drive, but no real desire to have sex.


Have you seen the movie Don Jon? LOL it's almost exactly about what you've said above!


Really? I have not.
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Posted 11/18/14 , edited 11/18/14
In moderation and with the perfect partner, it's quite pleasurable. Otherwise, it's just exhausting with little to no good returns for your efforts.
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