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Sex is Overrated?
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Sex is communication, it is passion, the most primal of all acts besides killing another human being.
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I'm agree too, i think the sex is a gun with double edge, because it's a mean of domination in the society from the capitalist
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Sweet-Revelation wrote:

Sex is communication, it is passion, the most primal of all acts besides killing another human being.


I agree.

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Ehhhhhhhhhhh.... yes and no?

I can take about 10 min to fap off. Sex takes a fair bit longer, and it's a different set of stimulus. When you're just getting yourself off, it's pretty straight forward. With someone else there, there's more full body contact, and foreplay's a huge part. Some of it's random cause you don't really know when they're going to do next. Then if you have a partner who likes to tease you a bit, (sometimes that can be a LOT of fun if you find a woman you can trust, and she's read to just let herself go in the act) there's the mind games, and then the emotion involved. (sometimes, because of the emotion, you don't quite get past foreplay, and it's horrible but you end up laughing together and somehow it's still better than if you hadn't).

But it really depends on your partner if anything. Sex with a woman that's insecure about it, and says "no" or "stop" a lot isn't fun for either of you (and I'm not alluding to rape. Just former girlfriend is on my mind that had hangups and would stop us in the middle of things. I'm the perfect gentleman about it, and always told her, "it's ok", etc... but trust me, it kills the desire slowly and the hangups can just stop you from wanting it altogether. There's a bit opf truth to this clip: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ldQGPwuHhkM).

Then there's the people who just lie there. Or the people who are very critical.... Both are other pitfalls to avoid.

And quite frankly, relationships are a PITA.... Especially the fumbling about till you say, "I kinda like you" and then you get all slobbery face and crap. but afterwards I guess they're kinda worth it if it's the right person. I just feel I can't be arsed to try and find someone to go through that process with again... yet..

EDIT: It also takes time to get to know what you like and what you want out of sex, and being communicative with your partner(s) is extremely important. It's also kinda hard to do, and be forgiving of them if they do something you don't care for. (back. fingernails. A little pain, fine. Going at it like it's a scratching post. ouch. T.T And it DOES NOT BEND THAT WAY!!! But meanwhile running fingers through hair and maybe a little tug.. ungh..)
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Sweet-Revelation wrote:

Sex is communication, it is passion, the most primal of all acts besides killing another human being.


The link between sex and death is far greater than that.
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Sex isn't overrated. If anything, we don't give it enough credit for how significant it is.

And it creates life. That, too.
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Posted 11/18/14 , edited 11/19/14
Masturbation and sex are both arguably overrated, but sex has a clear advantage; direct procreation. Artificial insemination isn't very popular, after all. Personally, though, I'm under the impression that, rather than being strictly overrated, sexuality is oftentimes both misunderstood and misrepresented.
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only in media is sex overrated I think.
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Do you believe sex is overrated? Fundamentally, it's no different than masturbation in my opinion. I'm still a virgin, but it seems to me sex is vastly overrated, especially today with the media over hype. An overly difficult, and not enjoyable task where you are forced to satisfy someone else. That what sex sounds like to me. Of course, I am a virgin, so what do I know...

That's the part where you lose me. I don't think a person expressing there opinions about smoking crack are very creditable unless the person has actually smoked crack atleast once..... weird example but you understand what i mean lol

BUT i do agree that it's overrated. It's like getting tickets to your favorite concert but when you get into the venue all you see is a tape player in a empty room with cheap music and some headphones. And then someone tells you that you've gotta clean up when your done
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Sex is about creating life. It should be sacred.
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Em0SceneStabr wrote:


PeripheralVisionary wrote:

Do you believe sex is overrated? Fundamentally, it's no different than masturbation in my opinion. I'm still a virgin, but it seems to me sex is vastly overrated, especially today with the media over hype. An overly difficult, and not enjoyable task where you are forced to satisfy someone else. That what sex sounds like to me. Of course, I am a virgin, so what do I know...

That's the part where you lose me. I don't think a person expressing there opinions about smoking crack are very creditable unless the person has actually smoked crack atleast once..... weird example but you understand what i mean lol

BUT i do agree that it's overrated. It's like getting tickets to your favorite concert but when you get into the venue all you see is a tape player in a empty room with cheap music and some headphones. And then someone tells you that you've gotta clean up when your done


I liked that.

I also think that sex is overrated because it's a natural drive. It's a biological imperative and you're hardwired to be "addicted" to it. The media capitalizes on it just as the fast food industries capitalize on the hardwired "addiction" to high sugar, high starch, high fat foods. It's an easy attractant. Sex simply sells, and as some use it to sell others follow suit and then it's a race to up the ante.

I dunno how other people's sex drives work, but mine runs pretty damned high. I've got it under control though. (Like I've said elsewhere, I've been celibate for many many years, which leads to things being... "weird"). Like many other "addictions" and biological imperatives, you CAN overcome them. It's a bitch and a half to do so, but you can. (I've also managed adjust my sleep patterns so I could live for quite a while on about 5-6 hours of sleep a day, and I've gone a month or so eating nothing more than a big bowl of popcorn every other day (meaning a caloric intake of about 750 calories every other day.) It's really amazing what your mind can overcome, and it DOES get easier the longer you practice it.... but the imperatives always remain, and they're habits that are easy to slip back into, because they're kinda natural for you to have (and some are actually for your well being, although sex is more about the well being of the human race).

Anyway, because sex is sold to us through the media, and our biology is compelled to indulge in it, we seem to naturally just think it's this amazing super wonderful awesome thing.... and then it's usually not so great compared to what we had in mind. (it can be great, and as I said above, it's not the same as masturbation, but there's some factors at play)

but with the point I quoted, yeah it's hard to really describe, and unless you've been there (and trust me, there's no reason to rush), you can't really speak of it. :S
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nah...
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Sex...yeah....well...maybe it does depend on the person but I know I'm 31 and sex isn't all that. For me it's all about the emotional connection and also sometimes eye candy but after a while it gets boring when you logically think about it.
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Sex is a thing..yes...that's about as far as my opinion of it goes...
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Shrapnel893 wrote:

Sex makes babies.

So that's where my 4 kids came from.


Acoleth wrote:

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Sex isn't overrated. If anything, we don't give it enough credit for how significant it is.

And it creates life. That, too.

This tends to match up with my view. Well spoken.
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