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Posted 11/18/14

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I've lost contact with almost everyone I've ever known so I can't say. Makes me want to google around people though, forgot about the bullies.


more or less the same with me
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Posted 11/19/14
I moved towns since graduation, so I don't know what they are doing now although I can say that most of them dropped out of school by year ten and eleven. Also during high school some of them had addictions among other issues so I can't imagine that they are doing too well.
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Posted 11/19/14
I always walked a very fine line during my teenage years, I was liked by all the bullies etc as I had history with them in my childhood ( Old friends, football team mates etc ) - So I never got picked on but they were never my crowd but it was handy growing up almost having this immunity ...

Nowadays, some are in employment and seem to have turned their lives around, some are just as idiotic as before and living off my taxes 5 years later.
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Posted 11/19/14
Probably in a ditch by now.
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Posted 11/19/14 , edited 11/19/14
Don't really know about any of them from school probably still using drugs or in jail XD. Real nasty piece of work i knew in College who bullied me heavily is now married with a kid last i heard anything. Which sounds like he got more than he deserved but i know the girl he married was known in College for being easy so all the people he hung out with have probably sampled the goods. I just find that kind of funny. One of his friends who used to join in with his bullying has also served time and is registered as a sex offender for sleeping with his ex girlfriends 12 year old sister.
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Posted 11/19/14
I got bullied in middle school and met the same bullied again in highschool. He did a complete 180 me and him became good friends and joined the military together.
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Posted 11/19/14
Well, one of them apologized for what they'd done to me and expressed shock that I didn't want or need revenge. Actually, that was a surprisingly common response, as if I should want to tear everyone apart or something. Another one committed suicide for unrelated reasons, and the rest of them just kind of faded into the background as time went on. That is exactly what I'd really wanted to happen, for them to either start being nice to me or to at least just leave me alone.

I was genuinely sad when I found out that one of my bullies had died, and even sadder when I found out it was by their own hand. I never wanted that, not even for people who'd tormented me for years on end. Maybe I'm too forgiving, too merciful, but it's better to be that than too cruel and unforgiving.
Posted 11/19/14 , edited 11/19/14
I don't even give a .... about people i talked with/hanged out with... so i would give less .... to people who bullied me... lol... in other words, i have no idea where they all are.

and i would never go to my high school reunion, ever. a bunch of pretentious people and a SOCIAL event that doesn't benefit me in any way? no thanks.


I would never brag about my successful career. firstly, because even though i'm successful... i'm not inspired by it. And that's more important to me than anything else. I need to feel inspired by everything i do. So what if i'm successful? i'm not feeling inspired by my job, i get bored by my job. it doesn't mean jack.....


You can have a million dollar mansion, but if you feel empty on the inside, you actually have nothing. If living in the slums means i could be inspired (whether by the place or by the people i'm living with), then i'd rather live in the slum and have a shitty career.
Posted 11/19/14
Why keep tabs on them? Probably you weren't close with them or simply don't care.
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Posted 11/19/14
Living better than me
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Posted 11/19/14
Ones in a juvenile detention center.
Another moved to Kentucky.

I don't know where the last one went but,
I'm glad they are out of my life.
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Posted 11/20/14
I hope she's doing okay. She started out as a bully but ended up as my friend. Though this happened in middle school so its been awhile. I haven't seen her since :0
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Posted 11/20/14 , edited 11/20/14
I can't reveal the location of my bullies, otherwise the state will have grounds to re-open the investigation.
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Posted 11/20/14
Sadly, all my bullies lead better lives than I.


Financially at least.

As far as personality goes, they pretty much, say, and act like whatever is trending. Straight up sheeple They may have more money than me, but at least I have my sense of self
Posted 11/20/14
Kissing my a**. They useto make fun of me because I didn't have the prettiest teeth and that I wore glasses. And now that I got my braces off and I wear contacts every once in awhile. They wanna be buddies.... Psh, aint happenin'
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