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How to handle a friend you suspect to be gay?
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Posted 11/24/14 , edited 11/24/14
Unless he's admitted it, don't call him on it, he may have reasons he hasn't come out (family, religion, fear, ect...). As for controlling it? Make it clear that you are into girls but don't alienate him, you may be the only friend he has (ect...).
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Posted 11/24/14 , edited 11/24/14
Just tell him you find him too clingy with you.
If he's gay or not doesn't matter if that 's not the part you care about.
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Posted 11/24/14
Punch him on the shoulder hard and say shuddup. Whatever reaction he gives after that will give you a better clue.
Posted 11/24/14 , edited 11/24/14
Some people get pissed off when they are asked if they are gay directly, maybe try an indirect approach.

I've been suspected of being gay a couple times in high school, and I got a bit upset about it.

And then there was this time when a group of girls thought I was gay...
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Posted 11/24/14
Should I be serious or not?
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Don't be scared. Just grab his
and see what happens.
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Posted 11/24/14 , edited 11/25/14
Why not try bullying him then? That would be the best way to send him away
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Posted 11/25/14 , edited 11/25/14
I have had a few gay guys interested in me and if you don't reciprocate that interest, it goes away. I'm pretty clueless most of the time so I never noticed it until they admitted it to me, but a lot of things made sense after that.

I'm lucky that I can just focus my energy and attention toward those I care about without feeling guilty about neglecting those I don't care for; I'm polite, but I don't spend much time engaging with others if I'm not interested in their company. So far, (most) everyone can take a hint. If they can't, you have to be blunt and suffer or ignore the problem and suffer.
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Posted 11/25/14
I dun care.
Posted 11/25/14
I don't see why you're fixated on his sexuality. Establishing some personal boundaries with him seems far easier than mulling over an assumption that may not even be correct.
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Posted 11/25/14
If he is, he is If he's not, just as well. It doesn't really matter either way. If he confesses or something, just be honest man.
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Posted 11/25/14 , edited 11/25/14

emcee0111 wrote:

Why not try bullying him then? That would be the best way to send him away


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OMG Scrolling down the page and seeing this made me laugh so fucking hard i dribbled my coffee on myself>(^_^)< Hahahahah!!!!
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