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Posted 5/8/15

GayAsianBoy wrote:

where i live, i've seen several times, a "hot" non-asian woman dating an asian man. a famous example would be Lorde (the musician)... her boyfriend is asian. (i know she's not your definition of hot, but i'm just giving an example)

So yeah, they are out there. the problem with asian men is they tend to be shy and quiet (at least that's the complaints i hear from non-asian women).

so put yourself out there... (easier said than done) and talk to women.

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women (most) fall for talkers. omg, this nurse was reading out a text from her cheating ex-husband, "You're the only one i have ever loved, the problem is my love was never as great as yours..." and she was all like... loved up.

they are suckers for cheesy romantic lines. you can never fail with words.


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I'm not like that at all. people can be sweet all they want, if they don't walk the talk, words are no good to me.


What! But Lorde is hot.

Her cheating ex-husband................................................................... I can't even .

Can I just castrate him.

Yeah, actions with words are always good :')


Posted 5/8/15

MadameNoir wrote:
What! But Lorde is hot.

Her cheating ex-husband................................................................... I can't even .

Can I just castrate him.

Yeah, actions with words are always good :')


he's already dead
Posted 5/8/15

WrenJay wrote:

Actually, most the Asians I know are dating Americans. I think it might be because the Asians I know are musicians, and playing music automatically makes you like 250% more attractive.


Like lugging a guitar around like a new accessory brings all the glances that one could've never had even if they wore the same outfit.
Posted 5/8/15

GayAsianBoy wrote:


MadameNoir wrote:
What! But Lorde is hot.

Her cheating ex-husband................................................................... I can't even .

Can I just castrate him.

Yeah, actions with words are always good :')


he's already dead


*clicks fingers* My job is done.
Posted 7/23/15
Hmmm
Asian guys I've known who grew up here often prefer women who aren't asian to date, assuming they wanna in the first place though. That's also something I noticed with them, mostly the Asian guys I was/am friends with too.

Im black (mixed specifically) and I'm dating one atm. We aren't approved by both our families, but with most people around us I know, find us to be cute.
A odd looking pair but still cute.
We do get weird looks sometimes though.

Ahh but what I noticed is that it seems more normal when its a white woman with an Asian man.
Barely anyone bats an eye to that.
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Posted 7/23/15
Most of my experience has been with Filipino women marrying white/black men.

I did see a few Filipino men with non-Filipino wives though.
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Posted 7/23/15
Asian men and woman don't age kinda cool maybe its a dog year thing 1 year for them is 7 to us?
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Posted 7/23/15 , edited 7/23/15

scoobydew wrote: Asian men and woman don't age kinda cool maybe its a dog year thing 1 year for them is 7 to us?

Think they came up with something like how tall and how the body/"systems" or been developed in a area they have that would deal with skin etc (dirty, minerals and so on?).
Posted 7/23/15 , edited 7/23/15

scoobydew wrote:

Asian men and woman don't age kinda cool maybe its a dog year thing 1 year for them is 7 to us?

Looking young is mostly due to genetics & also taking good care of your body and maybe even using certain styles.

The best example/clear difference you'd see instantly is probably how they style their hair.
Straight across bangs & twin tails make girls in their early to late teens look younger sometimes.
Facial hair on men makes them look older, but only works starting in their late teens imo.

Kinda complicated, but everyone is different/is built differently. So you'd have to experiment with different stuff if you wanna look younger or older for your age.

Also Asians (females mostly) tend to get a lot of plastic surgery apparently, which probably helps a lot with them looking younger.
Plastic surgery is apparently cheap in Korea and Japan. Compared to the US at least.
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Posted 7/23/15

anzn wrote:


scoobydew wrote:

Asian men and woman don't age kinda cool maybe its a dog year thing 1 year for them is 7 to us?

Looking young is mostly due to genetics & also taking good care of your body and maybe even using certain styles.

The best example/clear difference you'd see instantly is probably how they style their hair.
Straight across bangs & twin tails make girls in their early to late teens look younger sometimes.
Facial hair on men makes them look older, but only works starting in their late teens imo.

Kinda complicated, but everyone is different/is built differently. So you'd have to experiment with different stuff if you wanna look younger or older for your age.

Also Asians (females mostly) tend to get a lot of plastic surgery apparently, which probably helps a lot with them looking younger.
Plastic surgery is apparently cheap in Korea and Japan. Compared to the US at least.


That could be true I have heard the only thing that causes wrinkles is the sun and possibly a large weight loss. So morale of story never go outside and only eat veggies
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Posted 7/23/15
lmao
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Posted 7/23/15
The environment in the US is definitely not as favorable for Asian men due to their portrayal in the media. It's amazing how some people will so readily accept what they hear and how easily they can be swayed. I feel that a lot of Americans are also pretty ignorant when it comes to differentiating different kinds of Asian. A lot of them don't know the difference between Thailand and Taiwan. It's astounding.

There have been several studies done and, although Asian men DO obviously date inter-racially, data gathered from dating sites show that few women seem to prefer them compared to men of other races. They'll say things like "yeah, they aren't my cup of tea, that's all" or "nah, I don't find them attractive" and assume that just because they date inter-racially that there are no problems. The numbers don't lie, though. I'm of the opinion that the American upbringing (especially exposure to the media here) causes people to be less likely to choose Asian men compared to men of other races. It's not their fault, it's just how it is so, as with everything else in life, you just play the cards you're dealt. No point in complaining. The tide seems to be shifting nowadays, anyway. With so many people raising these points, it seems that change may very well be on the horizon.

People in different areas have different preferences, so this isn't to say that you're hopeless if you're Asian. People tend to stick to a certain crowd, so merely a matter of finding the crowd you want to belong to. And preferences don't necessarily mean that people won't date Asian men, merely that they prefer something else. Sort of like how you prefer a certain drink but that doesn't prevent you from liking another drink.
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Posted 7/23/15

scoobydew wrote: only eat veggies

Would not help -_-
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Posted 7/23/15

Freddy96NO wrote:


scoobydew wrote: only eat veggies

Would not help -_-

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Uhhh sorry only eat veggies inside on a treadmill < - >
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Posted 7/23/15

aznzakum wrote:

Hey guys!

I'm 20 years old and in college right now...... for all my life i've seen how dating and the social norm is presented to be in our society.

There are a lot of combinations between people since love is all that matters. I believe that anyone can date anyone as long as they love each others personality or appearances.


Even though the possibilities between dating are endless, it still strikes me as curious on the topic of asian males and their dating experiences.

I don't see many asian males in a relationship with non-asian women (for example a hot blonde with a chinese guy).....maybe i just happen to miss out and i'm oblivious to whats going on haha .. but from my perspective I don't see much of it...

I say non-asian because I originally was going to use the term American women or American girls. But then again what is American? I mean we are ALL Americans...so to distinguish my question better i just say "non-asians" (non-asians are any race besides people from asia).


Maybe I just haven't seen it yet, but I wanted to ask you all, if you have seen asian men in a relationship (dating, friends with benefits, hookup) with non-asian women?

if so, how are they doing? Do you know any back story on them?


If you also have not seen asian men together in a relationship with non-asian women like me, then let me ask, is there a reason? (maybe personality difference? appearance preference?)


Idk, with all those kpop fans... u know Koreans are in. haha :).

I do see Asian/Caucasian couples here and there. It always looks weird tho. The cops look at them funny. And so do most people at first glance. I mean, it's just kinda unusual. I think most people don't think a black/Caucasian relationship is weird at all because it's a little bit more mainstream and kind of "civil righted" - so people are conditioned to believing it's normal. But Asians are kind of a blank space when it comes to race. Asians aren't usually discriminated against, and so they're just left unnoticed.

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